What is it with girls today? I mean where are the dignity and morals that girls used to have? Now all I see are teenage girls prancing around in too tight tops and low cut super tight jeans. I also see women that are in their 20's and 30's now looking that way too. Everyone looks the same, has the same look and all have the same message "Look at me I'm trying too hard to get a man!" Seriously, when you dress like that therefore you're implying that you're trying too hard to get someone, or you're really ignorant of how guys act.
Some guys respond quite well when girls parade around in too tight clothes, perfect make-up, perfect smile. Guys that are like that are in it for a good time, one night stand, short term relationship. They know you're trying to get someone and they are readily available. Others will turn away and not take a second look at you, because you're all the same. There's no depth. The only thing you can really comment about is what he wants, and how he's acting toward you. You haven't developed yourself in a way where guys want to be with you.
Picture this, I know I'm married but I have a husband and he can tell this to you to. If you start talking to a girl, and she is only talking to you about what you like, not what she likes, you can tell she is shallow and is just trying to get a date. If a girl starts talking to you and you can ask her questions and her answers aren't ummm and yeah I really like those shoes you are wearing are they Converse, and I don't know, they are more of, "I finished my Spanish final, and I am hoping I get through this SAT", and if your out of high school and in the real world she'll talk about work, and about your job and stuff that you both can relate to.
I see girls and women of all ages trying to hard to get a date. It's unnerving, because if you really want a man, you have to show you have depth and potential. You have to prove to him you're worth something. If you act like everyone of your girlfriends who are shallow, dress alike, then how is a guy going to see your different than all the rest? If you dress like a skank, then you are portraying yourself as a skank and no man will see a future in someone like that. If you dress like yourself, what you like, and don't put yourself out there, you will be able to find someone.
Why do you want to dress and portray yourself as someone you're not? Is it because of a label? Is it because of the brand your friends "have to have?" Is it because you don't know any better? Or is it because you're tired of trying to be yourself and want to follow the crowd?
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Hey, I LOVE shallow girl's with low self esteem!
They got's a lota FLAVOR!
Thank you! I'm a freshmen in college and some of my friends are still in high school and its been so disappointing to see what their turning into. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough (even though I know I am) since I don't really wear make up or try super hard. It's so annoying.
Excellent post, and so true. It's hard to picture what girls will be wearing (or rather, NOT wearing) 50 years down the road...and with technology constantly advancing, it's almost frightning. I actually wish I was alive during the days when courtship was popular.
I agree to some extent but there's also 'flaunt it if you got it' (and while you're young) but you have to know how to handle the unwanted attention. Though, I read a men's magazine once about covering what you got having much better rewards at the right moment. I don't think the way you dress tells everything about you but it does make an impression.
It's hard to meet the right types of people for a long-term relationship and I guess it's easier attracting just anyone. It seems to be a numbers game.
Question!
What do you think is bigger her boobs or her ego?
@2nd picture: What the fuck.
I would rather go for a girl that is more reserved.
Why would I want to talk about jobs and school on a date or when I first meet someone? Obviously we'd talk about our hobbies. Its ok if we can't both relate to the same things, we'll both learn something new.
Just because a girl talks about school doesn't mean she's intelligent.
@mz_d0rkabl3@xanga - I agree, school isn't the most appealing topic to talk about. =(
Omg! Wtf is up with her boobs?!?!?!
maybe it makes men appreciate the "better" girls more?
theres no way the second pic is real! thats craaaaaaazy
It's looks that draws guys in, and it's personality that makes them stay.
"There's no depth..."
What do you mean there's no depth? Her cleavage has plenty of depth! She's got the Grand Canyon beneath that top.
LOL love the above comments.
Theres something i dont quite get, its true i get disgusted for girls that try too hard..
but hey, how would we know if we never talk to them? maybe they even have more depth than us, just cuz they wear low jeans and high tops it doesnt mean that they all are sluts.
Yea juding people by their looks is perhaps the biggest fallacy we commit nowadays. I've met plenty of people who wear clothes like that, but are great people and aren't so one dimensional. It takes a lot of guts to make an effort to see past covers like those.
Men don't have all the power, women are not helpless pawns groveling for their attention. Some women, some of the time, don't want a "man"...sometimes we just want a big stupid overgrown boy with a stick to stir our pot. And sometimes we dress and act "shallow" because all we are fishing for are minnows.
Be careful before you assign labels of shallow, desperate, stupid, etc...because many women DO know exactly what they are up to, whom they are fishing for and which bait to use.
:O did not read the article... too distract by either photoshop or plastic surgery ( cause damn that must hurt her back)
haha she is in toronto too, ive never been prouder... *Sarcasm*
You have a valid point. But it doesn't hurt to try to look your best. And, hey, I hate to tell you, but I think you needed to do a spelling and grammar check on this entry.
I hate when I read something full of typos and grammatical errors! 
This article is so very true! Good job!
just because the female or male is dressed like a saint in conservative clothing doesn't necessarily make her/him a saint either. these females, who dress like that love attention and it can be annoying depending if they dress inappropriate for the place/occasion. I know some women, who is always scantily clad but they've only been with a few men and don't sleep around like their appearance implies nor do they talk like a ditz. I think it is similar as when a guy drives a flashy car, wears a suit and tie and expensive watch and try to look like a GQ cover guy because they think that's what most women are attracted to, can also be seen as trying too hard to impress the ladies. they can be pompous jerks or nice guys, so appearances can be deceiving and judgements can be wrong.
How can any of you read this straight through? It was hard to take seriously with the "your" instead of "you're" usage.
lol
don't judge a book by its cover =/
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Wearing make up and looking good doenst make anyone look desperate for attention. Everyone has the right to look good. Although i do have an issue with inmodest dressing. That is when you can tell someone is desperately seeking attention. I hated the pictures you've put up for this entry, they could be examples of people trying to hard to get attention.
Makeup, smile, hygiene..they all fall in the same category. A neat, clean and pretty person doesnt always send a wrong message to people.
simply most of the people have overdone what should be done to look good. some of them always have a perfect party make up everyday during the college/work days. The look is great, but what makes it not so great is doing it at the wrong time. I see girls wear short party skirt during winter with this party make up. That's when I say people are overdoing it.
It is nothing wrong with people trying to look good, but some are just not have a sense to wear appropriately, or simply don't have a good sense of fashion.