One thing the boyfriend & I are starting to do more in bed is talking dirty. My boyfriend was a little uncomfortable about it at first, because he felt like he was offending or degrading me by doing so, but honestly, the only thing I feel when he talks dirty to me is
TURNED ON, haha.
For me, it just comes out sometimes, amongst the moans and gasps that sort of let themselves out during sex. I don't think about it before I say it. It's all in the moment. There's a certain level of comfort you have to have with yourself & with your partner to be able to do this, though. One thing that made him more comfortable with talking dirty to me was when we started sending each other suggestive texts, when we were apart. I'd tell him how much I missed and wanted to feel him inside of me again, and he would respond in a way that told me he was digging it. We started making demands to one another in bed. I think it really adds that extra oomph to sex. Makes it that much hotter, in my opinion. One of my favorite things ever is when he spanks me & says, "
you've been a very, very bad girl." It's so hot.
So that's my experience with talking dirty. Sometimes it's only a little bit dirty, and sometimes it's pretty hardcore. It depends on the mood we're in.
Have you ever talked dirty during sex? Do you like it? Why/why not? PS. For more information about/examples of talking dirty, go
here. :)
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I have to say that I enjoy it a lot too. My SO is a bit shy about it but when he does start talking dirty it's like WOW. But sometimes talking dirty makes me think of what Dane Cook said. He explained that one time during sex for some reason he said "ohhh yeah my dick feels like corn!" hahahaha
I really like it, but it takes a while to build up that level of comfort with someone. The first time I had ever been talked dirty to was with my ex when we were both drunk. He kept calling me his "little slut" or other variations on that. After we had broken the ice like that, it continued.
I really like it during foreplay when we're teasing each other. It makes it harder on both of us not to just jump straight into the act.
I love dirty talk. It turns me on more than anything else.
I'd scare the crap out of me.
Well, partially cause I don't have a girlfriend, but still :)
Girls I don't even know talk dirty to me, while I'm not even having sex.
My boyfriend was definitely shy about it at first, but he warmed up quick! :) There are sessions where we have long, drawn out kinky sex with a bunch of name calling ("take it slut!") and spanking....and other times we just get naked an have a quickie. But dirty talk = HOT. :) Even if you don't dirty talk, it's still good to communicate with your partner what you like/dislike. Like, if they're going to fast, or if they're at a good angle or whatever.
i love when he talks dirty to me, but i dont know im shy about that sorta stuff.... its more like i dont know what to say, or that i might say something stupid instead of sexy or w/e.
I dont know.
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - snaps.
Eh, I think it's the opposite. I'd rather talk dirty with people who I don't know and won't see in the morning.
Ha, my boyfriend likes to spank me and call me a bad girl too. That is the hottest thing ever.
@Starlightgazer22@xanga - The worst thing about talking dirty is that you are always afraid of saying something pretty stupid. That's one of the reasons some people won't do it.
Much too bashful but I LOVE IT when he does it. Don't be afraid to inflict some kind of pain, either.
I don't know what girls are supposed to say in bed, though. The most creative I got was "your cock feels so good.." which, in addition to "fuck me," are basically the only things I ever say during sex.
My ex was always very open about talking during sex, though I think he was repetitive. It was usually "Yeah, you like it when..
..I do that?
..I fill you up?
..I fuck you hard?
..I pound your pussy?
..
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Lol I was giving my ex a handjob once and between moans, he randomly said "fuck me." But it's just funny when we mess up our words! Sometimes it'll ruin the sexy mood, but at least we end up laughing together.
@InTheThin@xanga - The worst thing is that I can come up with dirty talk much better when I am not having sex.
There are a few places where I put that to the test, and shocked people quite a bit. "I'm not going to stop fucking you, till I feel the nice juicy cum dripping all over my dick.". I treat dirty talking like miniature poetry sometimes.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Oh my god... Just change that to "I'm not going to stop fucking you till I feel your juicy cum dripping all over my dick." and I would not be able to hold myself back.
@InTheThin@xanga - Yeah. But of course, it only works when you are trying to blow a woman's back out. That what I just wrote sounds kind of out of whack. After all, who would want you to stop beating their willing pussy, unless they aren't emotionally in it? Sometimes, the sexiest thing to say is nothing. Let your body, your lips and perhaps your stamina do the talking. Haha!
I love it, but it depends on the mood in the bedroom. I don't find a place for it when my boyfriend and I are going for a slow, passionate rhythm. Otherwise, I'm usually the one making the most comments. :]
i like it, but i have to be comfortable with them. me and my ex used to always though.
@InTheThin@xanga - @mynameisblueskye@xanga -
Why don't the two of ya's just hook up and get it over with
@Coffee_Kaioken@xanga - (snickers) What you are experiencing is the magic of the Datingish bar. Haha!
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Cool, now I just sit back and wait for someone to buy me a drink ^_^
That postcard is awesome by the way.
Dirty talk is great to and from someone who is into/good at it. I've experienced dirty talk so degrading it was distracting, but also some really hilarious things. I remember one time, trying so hard to hold back a bellowing laugh at something my boyfriend said while we were having sex. That was a good time. Other times though, he says just the thing to make me crazy.
amen :]
@Coffee_Kaioken@xanga - lol
I'm too nervous to talk dirty haha. I'd feel weird. I guess I just need to get more comfortable with my partners :P