Saturday, 10 October 2009
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"No One Will Love You As Much As I Do"
I really hate when people say that to you. It has been said to me once before by my ex boyfriend. During a fight we had and when the subject of ‘breaking up’ came up. We had a rocky relationship and we did have frequent fights. That’s when he said it to me and that saying irritated me for a while.
It makes you feel terrible and makes you doubt yourself. It's almost like saying no other person will love you. Almost every little thing between us became an issue, and even though that particular break up wasn’t the end of us it has been still stuck in my mind because I let him back into my life thinking things would be different, it wasn’t. It got me wondering if he loved me at all.
How wouldn’t someone love me as much as he did? He hated every single photo of me and him together, he didn’t introduce me to his friends, he met all mine, he didn’t invite me anywhere but to his house, wouldn’t show me anything spontaneous or even just let me know he loves me while we were in the relationship, where we couldn’t see one other things that often. That is when it counts. Believe me I have tried doing the same for him by letting him know I love him – he didn’t reciprocate. Our relationship turned into one where I couldn’t talk to him about anything anymore. I don’t need constant gifts to be happy – really its not that difficult making someone happy with little acts of affection.
No one will love me as much as you do? I highly doubt that. That is an insult because actions speak louder then words.
Has anyone ever said something to that effect to you? What did you think of it?
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That is a really rude thing for someone to say. I would kick someone in the balls/crotch if they said that to me.
I've never had anyone say that to me, but I would not take it well if someone did.
I actually broke up with this guy I was dating because he was blaming his drug use on my sending him home, and I didn't think that was right to put the blame on me when he should know how to control himself...anyway, when I broke up with him he said "You'll never find anyone as good as me" or something along those lines and it's like...uhm I'm pretty sure I can find someone better, and someone who won't blame their drug addiction on me thanks...no one should ever tell you shit like that, it's their way of trying to keep a hold on you
...my mom says that.
Something along the lines of ... : "nobody in the world is going to love you more than your family/parents/siblings...!"
Yes. This bitch I have been trying to get to leave me alone for the last two years.
Hm I've only ever been on the other side. My ex emotionally abused me a couple times and he was a compulsive liar, and after he broke up with me, I told him that he didn't deserve any of what I did for him and that he wouldn't be able to find someone who would love him as much as I did.
I still think he doesn't deserve the love of any girl unless he fixes himself. and it's going to be pretty near impossible for him to find a girl who is stupid enough to stick with him as long as I did, so I think it's true for the time being that no one will be stupid enough to love him as much as I did..
That's emotional abuse. Anyone who says that is sending up a red flag. If you hear it, turn the other direction.
I've had an ex-boyfriend say that to me before. Thankfully, that relationship ended. I agree with @TruthNeverTold@xanga though.
Not exactly that saying, but something along the 'I will always love you' train.
For some reason I don't believe that a bit. Matter of fact I'm just about fed up with the whole 'love' thing.. Actually.
Ugh, my ex said something similar when I was breaking up with him, only it was, "No offense, but I hope the next guy loves you as much as I did."
Effin' douche. I mean, just think: if you snagged a loser that said this to you, there's most definitely someone smarter, better looking, kinder and an all-around better man than him. :)
My ex said "you deserve to go out with a complete CUNT who never wants to do anything with you".
I applauded mysellf on dumpinghim after that comment.
You just don't understand the context of the phrase. When he says "No one will ever love you as much as I do." what he means is that nobody would love you enough to look for and find you when you stopped returning his phone calls.
What he means is that He'll find you. He'll never leave you. Can't you understand how much he loves you!!
my bf always doesnt understand if i am upset about people not liking me. he says, "how can anyone NOT like you?!?"
he sounds like the type of guy who's afraid to be caught alone... that's blasphemy.
Does love have to be a contest, of who loves you more? Really, now. It's like who can take the biggest bite of the birthday cake.
If someone loves me honestly despite my faults, then I'm content.
"You just lost the best thing that ever happened to you."
i've told my ex boyfriend that "no one will never love you as much as me"
not in a mean way that i hope no one loves him, it's just that no one has never done the things i've done for him. all his past exes were takers and i was the only giver.
xo
Two days ago, my now-exgirlfriend said to me, "I want to be single. It's not you, it's me." I still wonder what she means by that and why she would want to be single. We never fought, I always called her to say hi or talk. I try to spend time with her whenever I'm in town and I treat her with the utmost respect. So now, I'm saying to myself aimed at her, "There will probably be no one else that will love you more."
I think the words "no1 will love you as much as I" can come from one of two types. 1st, if a man or woman says that after an argument, it is a sign of desperate plea... unfortunately, they say it and rarely mean it. 2nd is, if you're both having a wonderful time with each other, and have known each other for a lifetime, and the man or woman says those words in a loving way, I would be more inclined to believe it.
i think that is the cheesiest most self-righteous line ever.
my ex did say this to me quite a few times.. made me feel awful... it was like no one else could ever love me, like you said
I've said that to someone before.
But because I know it's true.
I've seen his past, and how people treat him.
He was an asshole to me, just as he was to his past girlfriends, and yet I always loved him.
So... I dare someone to love him like I did.
But I guess I sound crazy psycho haha
i guess i see only the positive subtext- like the person is stating that they love you so much that no one in the world could possibly love you more. either it depends on the way it's said/context, or i am totally naive....
When I was having a serious talk with my ex about the future, I was crying and so was he and I said, "You'll never find someone who'll love you as much as I do." and he replied with, "I know."
We still love each other. But things are...difficult.
it's kind of rude. i don't think anyone's said that to me, haha. i wouldn't take it very well.
Yeah My ex said that to me. I told him "Your right, They will love me more". When people say thing like that, Things that are known to cut deeply, they are lashing out.