I don't think it's necessarily about weight. Of course, I don't know how "fat" you are. I'm mildly overweight myself and I've never not been hit on when I went to a party. I wouldn't say my luck has been great, but I've never been without someone when I needed him.

I honestly think a lot of it has to do with confidence and the way you carry yourself.

"Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can have. It's much sexier than any body part."- Aimee Mullins, Oprah Magazine, May 2004

It depends how you carry your weight I think and how much fat you have.

Two of my guy friends always comment on how they like a girl to have abit of chub, not excessively but some.

Also, often larger girls have less confidence. Confidence generally makes someone more attractive, thus larger girls appear less attractive.

No, because I'm skinny and have an absolutely impossible personality, and I don't have much luck with relationships either.  It's all about the whole package =)

It's not necessarily true. In my opinion, it just means you have to work a little harder.

Confidence trumps all :)

I'm not a man.  But I do love women.  And I can tell you that I love my girls with curves.  I love hips, I love bums.  I want something to hold onto.  And it's not fun cuddling with bones, not at all. 

There's lot's of lovable fat girls!

Those legs in that picture got me going straight away!

The question being though, are you 'healthily' fat? If you're big and buxom that's great...but if you're radically and disgustingly overweight, morbidly obese, and unhealthy, then obviously that's no good, for anyone.

What a lot of girls consider as being "fat" is, take it from me, NO-WHERE near it!

Put it this way, some of the girls in porn are what in the fashion/modelling industry what would be deemed "fat". If you're big and curvy and bouncy and fullsome that's great...believe me there'll be guys that like you. As long as you're not repugnantly fat and unhealthy... be fleshy, be voluptuous, be womanly, we love that, vive le difference!

And a nice smile counts for so much, and personality IS really vital!

@Sammyhellsyea@xanga - well. girls dont like ugly guys so you're out of luck too. Unless you're rich

@phonotactic@xanga - Don't need to hear that! What you're doing is not love, at all. That kind of vain, inverted arrogance is not "love"..."lesbianism" is a sin!

@Sammyhellsyea@xanga - that was one hell of a thing to say...dont generalize "guys" as you cant speak on behalf of our species...

Do thinner girls always get selected over heavier girls? More often yes, but that doesnt mean that you will never find someone. As everyone has mentioned, your attitude plays a major role when you're out and about. If you carry yourself with positive thoughts, there's no reason why you cant find yourself a good guy...but with that being said, you can't be seeking polar opposites of the spectrum. I'm not saying it's not possible, but sometimes we have to think logically if you know what I mean.

I honestly think you need to revaluate the way you look at yourself in a more positive way, and if you're upset with the way your appearance is presented to everyone else I would suggest doing something about it, but do it for yourself and not because you want to do it for other people.

@ShimmerBodyCream@xanga - Lol. Good thing I'm not trying to impress you, huh.

It depends.
Get skinnier, and find out for yourself :)

Cut-off jeans...purple spandex...high-heels...
You could be the sexiest girl in the world, thats a big no-no.

And this is untrue, bigger girls get love, some are just in the wrong environment ^^
(If you're in a city of all skinnies, of course its gonna happen).