Okay, from my personal experience I noticed the two biggest insecurities guys have is balding and their penis size. There are plenty of products out there now to help with male baldness so that leaves the latter. There was a
recent post about whether or not size matters and they even listed what was more important.
For some reason, guys never believe girls when they say size doesn't matter. They are always thinking bigger has got to be better. They picture Mark Wahlberg in "Boogie Nights" and they think the bigger the penis, the more manly they become. I once dated a guy who was constantly bragging about his package and I found that to be a complete turn off but my curiosity got the best of me and I took a peek. It was enough to make me grab my shoes and head for the door. I know some girls who would embrace it but I had no desire to have sex with Godzilla or experience child birth just yet.
So my point to the guys? Bigger is not always better. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying small is better, I'm just saying sometimes too big can be scary. What are your thoughts? Is there such a thing as too big?
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Big is unnecessary, but it's not a bad thing. Honestly, I would really really really really prefer a guy who's at least 5 inches. The optimal is probably 6 with average to above average girth. :]
Having a guy who's too thin is a real downer, though...it's like having sex with a tampon.
guys with big penises who rely on it to pleasure a woman are pathetic. having a big dong doesn't give you an excuse to suck at sex.
also, guys who talk nonstop about their big packages are probably all talk. and no penis.
for me... the right length is good. thickness is better lol
I never really noticed the length that I want it.. I could just measure it myself though ;p
Ever since the days when man first started congregating into tiny communities and making war, the size of the penis has always been scrutinized. Even the original symbol for a man, the chevron ( ^ ) was meant to be a symbol of the penis. Of course for a woman, it's known as the chalice and points in the opposite direction representing a cup of sorts. (Holy Grail maybe?)
Even today, the military ranks it's boys by the number of "penises" they have on their sleeve. ;)
My point to all of this is that the penis and its size have been integral parts of every culture. removing the stigma that bigger is better will take some much needed persuasion. The way I see it, as long as the guy is around 6 inches and is about an inch thick, he'll do fine.
Thickness > Length
Application and knowledge of what to do w/ said penis > length
yes they can be very scary!
@InTheThin@xanga - lol to the tampon thing! so true...
@Spongebobandbeyond@xanga - agreed. though i must say, duration trumps everything >.<
Yes, sometimes too big is a problem. Also when there is so much hype, there is usually little substance or merit. lol The biggest braggers of how great they were in bed were the worst.
I'm so tired of posts about penis size.
I think average size is good. As long as they know how to foreplay. I could not imagine having sex with someone who never took the time to get me off.
I can't say I experienced someone huge so I can't comment on that, sounds scary.
Before taking on the whole secondary virginity thing I was with two guys with underaverage penis size. My thoughts on sex based on my experience: Duration is annoying. I want it to end. Foreplay needs to be minimal. I want it to end. I find it verrrrrrrrry annoying. You have to lay there and try not to hurt feelings while thinking over and over, "Leave me alone. Leave me alone. When do I get to go home? Please don't snuggle me. Can I have something to drink? Leave me alone. G-d make him stop." I like intercourse in some positions or it hurts or maybe it's just that I am allergic to latex and more allergic to unprotected sex. I'm just really serious. I hear men and women talking all the time about stamina, and I don't want any. In my mind, the best thing would be a few quickies revolving mainly around intercourse a few times a day to get off and go on. I've seen a big one because I had to take a look. It was in high school and the guy had a urethra that was lowered. It was weird and I really didn't expect a penis to look like that so I fell of the couch and ran. Ignored him til he broke up with me.I think that I would like a man with a larger penis. Just because there is some mental security in that, but if a small one hurts....So what the hell do I know. Not scary big. I think like 6 inches would be good if its kind of thick or like a long seven. Yeah I want a big one, just so I can secretly think my husband has a big cock. Don't listen to lying ass women. We like to know you got a big one like you like us better underweight.
Guys being insecure about their package is no different than any other bullshit insecurity about a physical abnormality (real or imagined). If you're rockin 3 inches or whatever, learn some other skills. If you're hung like a horse, probably not best to date small girls.
Bottom line is, play the hand that you're dealt.You don't get to pick the cards, just what to do with them.
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I prefer a smaller to avg man. 6 to 7 inches.
Size doesn't really matter , Its all in your skills.
had an ex with a 4inch n it was horrible lots of acting on my part, got a guy with a 10inch couldnt ask for nething better--thats my say
Well....honestly, I do like bigger. I know there are other things they can do, but I can't deny that bigger just feels better. If I really loved a guy then I would accept whatever he has though.
of course there are such things as too big, like those in porn movies where the guy has really huge dick which is just not real at all. They're like fake books I think.
Um, anything longer than seven or eight inches hits your cervix, so no thanks on anything more than average. I'd rather have a six-inch penis that's an inch and a half thick than a nine-inch penis that's that long.
My first boyfriend was bigger than average. I ended up having to have surgery down there b/c of the way he "broke" me...I guess is the right term. I've been with 2 other guys since him and they were average. It was more comfortable for me when I was with them...physically...emotionally is a another story. uhhhhhhh.
Honestly, for me, longer is better.
WHAT IF MY CERVIX COULDN'T MOVE, EH!? so then the guy with his 9-incher would be POUNDING THE FUCK OUT OF MY CERVIX. FUCKING OUCH. D:< RAGE RAGE RAGE!!!
I'm content with 5-6 inches.
Meh. Guys have their insecurities as do girls. Many girls have problems with body image, and many guys have problems with their penis sizes. It's one of those things about yourself you just need to accept.
I agree with the other commenters who said that anything above 8 inches is a waste (not to mention painful). Girth is more important -- about the size of a paper towel tube is ideal.
And yes, really thin penises are like fucking a tampon, like @InTheThin@xanga said. It's really quite terrible.
Forget size
I pity guys with thin penises