Monday, 28 September 2009
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"We're just friends!"
I know a lot of girls who get along with guys better and vice versa, but there are always those people who have a problem with that. I personally rather be friends with guys because most guys don't like drama. Girls are filled with drama. They get moody during their periods, can never make up their mind and get mad at their best friends and talk behind each others backs. Guys just kind of go with the flow and will get mad at another guy for flirting with their girl and tell him to back up off his girl, maybe a fight with happen, then that's it. They might not like the guy after that, but they're not gonna give each other dirty looks and attitudes like girls do.
I have a lot of guy friends and if I'm walking with them in school and have any contact with them through Myspace or Facebook I'll get asked, "Are you two going out?" I would respond with, "Yes, we're going out because I made a joke on his Facebook and just cause I'm walking with him in the halls we're in love." They make it seem like just because I said something to him and spend with him means we're dating all of a sudden.
Why do people have a problem with guys and girls being friends, and just that? Do you?
Have you ever had a best guy/girl friend who people thought you were dating?
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haha i love this post. it made me laugh. i like the road signs. i agree with how you feel! i hate it when ppl suspect we're dating when i'm only friends with the guy! i guess ppl don't believe that guys and girls can be just friends.
1) Because guys and girls are supposed to be in relationships and people think it's impossible for girls to have male friends and vice versa. And I don't care what people do.
2) YES. I have a girlfriend and when we were just friends, everyone thought we were dating but I didn't mind because I really like her. But, I have a lot of female friends too, and people seem to like assuming we're dating just because I'm seen laughing or something with one of them. People naturally assume you're dating someone when you're seen enjoying yourself with them.
Yes this happens to me all the time. I think its gotten through peoples heads that I dont chill with girls that often, so it doesn't happen so much anymore. But I remember in highschool, people would always be like "are you dateing him?" Even if they saw me standing with someone in a group of people. Its just ridiculous, people like to gossip.
Ha, yes! My mom does this all the time.....I mainly make friends with guys, just like you. Apparently, that equals me whoring around.
The problem is, most girls who do this are really just a tad boy-crazy and seeking attention from guys, even if they don't like the guy specifically. I'm not saying you're like this, but most girls are. Trust me, I've been one of those girls.
I have some really conservative friends, so when they see me walking alone with a guy on campus, they'll ask me if anything's going on, but I don't mind. It's a little funny.
My ex was one of those guys who only had female friends, and it bothered me while we were dating because it seemed like he needed the slight sexual tension in his conversations with them..
@theycallmecrazy7@xanga - Yeah, some girls I know who have more guy friends are only that way because they're desperate for attention from the guys. I really don't like how one will act normal around all girls and a handful of boys, but when any other guys are around, she becomes this cutesy, squeaky mess that I don't recognize anymore.
My best friend is a girl and people often ask if anything is going on between us. For the people who already know us, they know we're just really close, but other people don't see it that way.
I think it's a natural thing to think. Most people only hang with the opposite sex in that matter when they are an item. I've always thought it was possible to have close friends of the opposite sex just hard for this very reason.
totally! one of my best friends is a guy and people are always asking if we're a couple when we go out together -.-''
I like how make out is only 4km away. =P
My best friends are girls. But they're lesbian.... but, I've also seen one of them naked and both vice versa. I kiss and hug both of them when I see them... and we all have similar taste in women. People think I'm some sort of pimp(or gay) when we go out just because its usually me and 3 other girls and they're all over me. The whole definition of "friend" varies from case to case.
Who cares what other people call it, as long as YOU know what it is, fuckum :D
yes and it sucks. I feel the same way about my guy friends. So much easier to deal with but I do love my girl friends so I try to balance them out.
What? You have your period? Time to call the boys for happy hour insteadhaha omigosh I have the same problem! Everyone is like "you two are so going out, don't lie" & I'm like "No! We're not! Really!" *sigh* people just don't get it >_>
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lol, girls don't even like me. what the fuck.
i have a lot of male friends, and i prefer to be friends with them. it's nice that when guys don't like each other they just avoid each other and don't make a huge game out of it...whereas girls have to be absolutely brutal to the people they don't like. people don't ever ask me if i'm dating one of my friends, though; my boyfriend and i are very close.
in college i was friends with a group of guys - singled out, none of them were even nearly datable. but they were fun group to pal around with.
in HS i was friends with a guy who lived pretty far away, people thot we were dating or some.....i mean, we are NOW .... but we really WERE just friends back then ... sheesh.......
I really don't understand why people have a problem with guys and girls being just friends. I had always had more close guy friends than girl friends, so I certainly don't have a problem with it.
lmao.... yeah, that happened to me. in middle school. it gets better by uni. or you could just come out as a lesbian and people won't give you shit about "are you dating that boy?" or maybe tell them you're a transgender, that's why you hang out with guys; you connect with them more... literally!
I guess it depends on where you live. I live with a bunch of potheads, hippies, and gays (california) so it's pretty rad and mellow.Â
i always hang out with the guys. girls DO cause too much drama, especially in large groups. i have enough drama of my own and guys are way more mellow, or solve their shit usually without being all catty and sneaky about things.
i don't assume people are dating because they're hanging out. but people are naturally curious. one of the hazards of hanging around one member of the opposite sex more often than a group or something is that people, if they see you together, are going to assume. at least they have enough courtesy to ask you instead of just gossiping about it.
haha i definitely agree 110% to that entry. Though it's nice to have some close girl friends to go shopping, talk gossip sometimes, and just hang out. Guys are only limited to so much before you drive them crazy.
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Majority of my friends are guys. They're so much easier to hang out and talk with.
all the time. Yea guys are easier to talk and hang out with.
Haha, my two best friends in college - a guy and a girl - got that all the time. Even from professors. But anyone who really knew them, knew that there was no way they could ever date each other. We used to joke that they should have a very public "break up" so that everyone would stop asking if they were dating.
All too much. I hate it when people continously ask me that after I tell them "No, we're not going out."
I only have a few good girl friends.
I've had people think I was dating my best guy friend but it's never really bothered me that much. We almost kind of got together once but then decided it would be too weird. I think people only think guys and girls are together if you're spending all of your time with that one person or act flirtatous around each other.