I was discussing whether or not I was "kinky" with someone the other day. I wasn't even sure of the answer to that. It made me think --
what exactly does it mean to be kinky? What does kinky even mean? So, I looked it up. This is what I found:
Kinky: (used of sexual behavior) showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes; "kinky sex"; "perverted practices"Hm. I can't really think of anything that I'd consider kinky. I mean, what is bizarre or deviant when it comes to sex these days? To me, it seems sort of funny that any sexual practice could be considered be considered bizarre, because it's all so natural, pleasurable, and just plain
awesome. I wonder if the reason I can't seem to think of anything is because I like a little bit of everything. I'm pretty non-judgmental when it comes to sex. My theory is, as long as all parties are getting something out of it, it's all good.
What do you consider to be kinky, if anything at all?
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Eight women, lots of fake dicks. Or now wait, that's just sexy...
Yeah, I got no ideas. Knives handcuffs blood and hot wax...that's just a normal day. Nothing kinky about that, so nothing else could possibly be kinky.
This question was asked of me and the answer was no. No I am not kinky.
Whenever I think of kinky, I just think of dirty talking, food, and handcuffs, haha. xD
I can't answer the question I guess. haha. I just realized I didn't. shrug
three-hole punches, urophilia, anything Japanese...
haha i had sex in a limo with two other people in there limo as well... i was told that's kinky.
but my idea of it was always along the lines of something super bizarre and weirdd.
I believe everyone is "kinky" to some degree, those moreso who have had positive experiences with experimentation, and it also scales upward as a parallel with sexual arousal.
@laurenmaureen@xanga - I guess? But more on the lines of exhibitionist.
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My next agenda for female kink is this:
I am going to be dominated, beaten, and forced to fulfill her most disgusting and raunchy desires, while simultaneously being forced to call her mommy. God, I am getting hard just thinking about it!
@AznFier@xanga - yeah i agree. i never would have thought of it as kinky.
today a man in malaysia got caught for wanting to put his toe into his wife thing lol..which was considered kiny sex :P
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/9/28/nation/4795899&sec=nationI'm kinky.... lol no seriously I am. Though I know more than a few people who have kinky sex. I don't want to get into to much detail.. mainly because well.. that's kind of private.
All I can say as an example is: a dungeon and Japanese rope bondage. lol does that say it all.
Normally though I would say that other people that I talk to believe that handcuffs and wearing lace are kinky or provocative clothing. Something like that, yea lol.
hahaha if you use a feather for sex you are adventurous, but if you use the whole chicken you are kinky!
if you like kissing you are kinky... *my favorite saying from a friend of mine* she doesn't like kissing but loves whips, leather and electrical play.
congrats on the feature, ma'am! it does seem like very little is kinky. on facebook there's a flair button that says "it's only kinky the first time." i guess that's where i fall on that topic. :)
hand cuffs... biting.. and dirty talking. Mmm.
My next agenda for male kink is this:
I am going to be taking on 6 hot transsexuals!
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Hmm. Idk ! A friend had once told me that sex all over the kitchen table had KINKY written all over it. *shrugs. lol.
Mmm kinky sex :)
Lacy underwear and hand cuffs are not kinky... I hate it when people call themselves kinky just because they enjoy sex. Usually it's stupid high school girls that say that though... ugh.
as long as both people are cool with it, nothing's too kinky.
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My boyfriend and I have kinky sex...blindfolds, feathers, handcuffs, whips, rope, expensive lingerie............
List goes on for another mile. It definitely adds spice.
@Lil_Firefly_25@xanga - It's more fun that way
ehh rele not into kinky sex....
i like fun playful sex.....sexy lingerie...maybe some dirty talk.
mmm sex