Monday, 21 September 2009
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10 Reasons Why I Love bitterbittenrockinblonde22
Datingish has a blog named "He Said 'I Love You'; I asked 'Why'", The point of that is the girl is very persistent to not just fall in love. After all, you can't just say you love somebody anymore. There has to be something about them that makes you say it. Otherwise, you are just their friend, or the attempt at saying so makes you look pretty desperate. If you love somebody, there will always be a reason why. Offering to tell you why bitterbittenrockinblonde22 attracts me was a labor of love, pun half-intended.
Here are the Top 10 reasons why I love bbr2:
10. I have seriously dreamt about dating a girl like her before she knew me, and after knowing her for awhile, it is like most of my prayers were answered. I say most because of one downside that I will mention later.
9. She is not the type that will mess around and make love either complicated or make it seem more calculated than it really is. Anytime you find something that you like, you don't treat love like something that will make you happy or something that will help your emotions. Love is not a placebo or an antidepressant to help you feel better or lift your spirits. But it is not like learning to tie your shoes, either. Love often feels like the next step after a beneficial friendship. And everyone's thought about dating their friends comes down to this: everything you are represents everything I've ever wanted in a woman.
8. Her concern with love has less to do with shaping herself for the "right guy", because she knew any man who would truly accept or love her at all would have no complaints about who she is in the first place.
7. Everything that she thinks some would not like about her, I love. And she think the same of me. She knows I have this little belly that starting to show through my shirt, but she likes it. I'm her little teddybear. She says she once didn't like her nose, and her lips. Well, I like her pretty nose, and would kiss her lips as many times as I could. My girlfriend will also be a little coy, when I consider her a goddess. Every time we talk, and every time I look at pictures of her or whatever, I can't help but see her that way. I even tell her out loud that she is like a goddess to me.
6. Both of us always work on finding a good wavelength, when it comes to issues having to do with anything. We talk stupidly or intellectually about anything, and always try to maintain some common ground.
5. The one thing I admitted to not liking about her? I have the tendency to forget about it and put it behind me, so that we can move on. There was this one time we got into a short argument, but as soon as we made up and tried to fix it up, it's like it never happened.
4. We asked each other's favorites and questions about each other all the time, but she still holds this air of mystery that I love to explore more of. I have this feeling that I know her, but I don't know all of her, and the ability to check the mystery is pretty exciting.
3. I can tell her that I want to french kiss both pairs of her juicy lips, and she knows good and well that I love her for much more than what's between her legs.
2. She can write erotica using someone's name, and I can write a blog about liking another girl or a guy just for the fun of it, but we both aren't so jealous or too insecure about each other.
1. Last but not least, we both can seriously assure that if ever this relationship comes to an end for whatever reason (and we are content with the fact that everything that begins will eventually have an end), we really could still be best friends, no matter what. It helps that your love interest is exactly like a best friend to you, and not just a candidate for filling your bedsheets, or someone to call. And she is definitely like a best friend to me, as well as anything else.
If the world ends before I get a chance to really spend my wonderful day with her (the relationship is, unfortunately, long distance. :-\), than she knows that she would still be the greatest woman to ever stumble into my life. She is also proof that alternative, underrated women are always the best ones to go for.
So, there it is. Top 10 reasons why I love bitterbittenrockinblonde22. Man, I hope I didn't make her nervous with this. Some guys get dumped for embarrassing their love interests in public.
Anyway, if you have any reasons why you love your girl or boy, then don't hesitate to list them yourself.
Have you ever told your SO the reasons why you love them?
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Comments (41)
D'aw. Adorable. My boyfriend & I should try and make a point tell each other why we love one another more often. :]
Awww, this is so adorable. You are both very lucky to have each other! I hope I find a guy like you one day. :)
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!
whoa! that was pretty public! nice sentiments though lol.
every once in a while i send my bf a little email saying all the specific reasons i love him
(because your earlobes are uneven, one eyebrow has 3 more hairs than the other....etc... its very romantic.)
lol
Did anybody get the whole juicy lips thing alright?
Ive told my SO, but he says Im too cheesy
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Yep, haha.
Aw!
That's so romantic! I'd probably do it when it's the night of the friend-into-more transition, then everyday I'd add onto that.
Hehe.
Better to let it all out than to hold it back in.
@BeautifulDisaster04@xanga - They are out there. Trust me. You just have to be careful, patient, and perhaps a little open minded in the trying men.
Awww... this is cute.
You have an eye on your forehead.
X)
Right on!
This is adorable! I agree with it!
Good Job, ...Blueskye!
i appreciate the fact that you said to go for the underrated girls. because i'm definitely one of them, and a rare breed at that.
i'm constantly telling my bf why i love him so, i even made a little book of the ABC's of why i love him.
This is a bit too public and slightly creepy for you to be making such a public announcement of your love for someone who is so persistant in not falling in love. That's just my opinion though.
In regards to #5...it's been said (and I believe) that arguments are not a bad thing; when you don't argue with a significant other, it's often indicative of the fact that you're no longer emotionally invested in the person. It can often be healthy to argue, as long as it's done in an intelligent, mature, debate fashion. If you can argue that way, then forgive and move past it as soon it's over, you've got yourself a relationship definitely worth keeping. To not argue is a sign of a problem, I'd say.
I'm happy that you've found something so beautiful (and rare!!!). To me, this sounds like a near-perfect relationship (I'd never give anyone or anything a perfect 10, but this sounds damn near close). And I'm glad you can recognize something wonderful when it's in front of you--not everyone can. :)
@SeaChaCha@xanga - Hi there, I'm "bitterbittenrockinblonde22" under a new screen name
Who said I was persistant about not falling in love??? I sure didn't.
Unless you take my refusing to change for a man as me not wanting to fall in love......
@SeaChaCha@xanga -
1. If you are talking about bbrb22, she is not the one who didn't want to fall in love. That's the other Datingish post I was referencing. She heard her boyfriend say that he loves her. She asked "why do you love me?" That question is the ultimate test is whether you truly love someone, or if you are just saying it out of desperation.
2. The reason I did it was to prove that someone who is in love always has a reason. Always. There is something about the person that makes you want to say you love them.
3. I checked in with her before I put this up in public. She likes the idea.
Aw. How cute. =]
Is that eye tattooed on your face?
@xoxokissme@xanga - I might want to explain that. I am a very chill person, and don't really like arguments over stupid things. If I had argumentds with someone, I pretty much hold my grudges for a while. But she makes me forget all about it and keep going.
@Athlyx@xanga - Nope. Felt marker.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - There was confusion in your first paragraph. I can't recall who wrote that post but based on what you said, it seemed that it was bbrb2 that did and you were responding to it with your love for her. Although I understand your point now, it's sweet but still too very public for my tastes. Once again, it is in my opinion. You're completely entitled to say it though.
@morbidcoronerchick@xanga - As I told the author, I was under the assumption that you had written the post that he mentioned in the first paragraph. Now that I understand what this is all about, it's great that you're so loved.
@SeaChaCha@xanga - It's probably going to be a long time in a while, before someone winds up doing what I did, though. Some people say they want to shout their love for someone to the world, I just work up the balls to follow through.
so, I suppose you are safe.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - This one time there was this guy at Babbage's with a giant ankh tattooed on his face. LOL. It was great. Anyway, random.
This is adorable. It made me smile so much! :D I'm happy for you two.
I tell my bf I love him every day. I'd tell him every second if it was possible. He knows the reasons--they don't need repeating. We make each other so happy nothing else matters anyway :3