Thursday, 17 September 2009
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Co-ed Sleepovers
Would you let your daughter or son spend the night at her boyfriends or girlfriends house ? Or would you assume that they where having sex that night?
I recently asked my mother if I could spend the night over my boyfriends house and she had a fit! She said it was disrespectful and we haven't even been dating that long, well it's only been 4 months. But he wants to just wake up and see me laying beside him and he wants to hold me while I go sleep.
I'm not talking about sleeping over all the time I wouldn't even care if it was just this one time. But we are going to wait till our one year or until my parents come around whichever one is sooner and we will see how it goes.
Would you let your daughter or son spend the night at there significant others house? or would you assume they were having sex that night? Do your parents let you sleep at your SO's?
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Depends on your age I guess. And whether or not I met the person before.
my mom says no to sleepovers at my female friend's hourses, let alone a guy's. ):
It's not usually something parents go "oh joy" that's for sure haha.
Lol no, because I know what happens as soon as you get curled up next to your SO in a comfy bed. Unless they were 18 or they lied (like I did) and I was unaware they weren't being honest, then I'd have no problem with it. But it has to be a really good lie and their friends have to cover for them or else I'd find out and guess who'd be in deep shit. =]
I'm 22, I've been going out with my bf for almost 5 years, and my parents wouldn't even consider allowing me to go on a trip with JUST him. I had to find another couple to take a vacation with, and my parents insisted I room with the other girl. Somehow they believed me when I said yes. Ridiculous!
haha. My parents don't know about my SO, any one of them. And I've talked to my SO about this... I'm willing to bet that I'd get too exhusted thinking about it so that when it comes time, I'd literally be sleeping.
@princessremy@xanga - My Mom wouldn't let me sleepover at my female friend's houses untiI I turned 14 lol.
Wow, I've been to a co-ed sleepover and it was the summer after my freshman year (high school). Nothing bad happened, it was really just one of those have fun things because it was the last weekend before school started.
But as for sleeping over at an SO's place.. my friends do that, and I know for a fact that they don't do things. Others do. But to be honest, it really depends on the age. I say before 13 years old and after 17.9 years old is okay, only 'cause 13 is the start of puberty and excessive hormones and people are legal when they're 18. Unless you and your parents have a very good trusting relationship.
@yankeesrock92715@xanga - i'm not 14 anymore ): my mom still says no ):
When you become a parent, you'll know.
I'm 23 and I'm STILL not allowed to sleep over at ANYONE's house, male or female!!!
Good thing I don't live at home anymore LOL
my parents and my boyfriend's parents let us sleep over at both of our houses :P my boyfriend kept falling asleep at my house and eventually our parents didn't care anymore
My mother always says: "They can sleep here, but you can't sleep there."
I'll do the same with my kids. That is, until they move out.
i am not going to condone my child to have sex.
Like someone said, it depends on age but actually, I would not let my son/daughter sleep at their SO's house. That's just asking them to have sex. If it were a group of friends getting together and it was co-ed, I wouldn't mind though. Haha, I guess it's because I wouldn't expect them to be having like.. group sex or something. Also, it depends on the people.
Hell no. When you graduate high school and get outta my house is when you can start doing all that...and not in my house even after you leave.
My husband's parents were different. They insisted we sleep in the same bed. My parents...never! I told my parents when I lost my virginity and they still wouldn't let us sleep in the same bed. The days before my husband and I were married we slept in completely separate rooms in my parents house. It wasn't until the night we were married we could sleep together in their home. It's just respect. If your parents don't want it in their house, well, respect that. I'm pretty sure I'll be the same way with my children.
I couldn't even go out on a date alone with whomever, so that'll be a "hell no" to sleeping over at a significant other's house. Lol.
If I was a parent, I wouldn't let my child sleep at his and her significant others house either. If they wanna sleep together so bad, they have to move out. My house.. my rules.
haha it sucks that no one believes it when two opposite sex teenagers would want to just simply SLEEP together. they think they'd end up having sex.
Lol. Allowing a child that privilege just basically implies that you as a parent don't care if he/she had sex.
lol erm no... haha my parents don't even like me sleeping over my female friends house that often haha
@princessremy@xanga - I'm Sorry :( I can understand their concern, but don't worry they come around eventually :]
I spent the weekend at my SO's house. When I told my parents, they kicked me out of theirs.
hahah my parents would never ever EVER let me stay the night at a guy's house...EVER xD
Ofcourse i've had guys spend the night at my house...without my parent's knowledge hehe.
dont do it until you're in college. you'll get your freedom :)