Monday, 14 September 2009
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"I Was Drunk, Baby..."
My kid sister, "Amanda," and I was having a "girl talk" a few days ago. I asked her if her boyfriend ever cheats on her, would she forgive him and take him back? She said, "No," and I thought, "Smart girl." And then she adds, "BUT if he was drunk, I would forgive him." My jaws dropped and I'm like, "What??? You GOT to be kidding me."
Now a days, I see people from left to right use that, "I was drunk, baby," excuse and their significant others take them right back. Sorry, but drunk or not, cheating is still cheating. I'm sure he or she was still sober enough to know that the person his or her tongue is all up on (or down) doesn't belong to his or her girlfriend.
I mean, c'mon. Let's be realistic. If you're drunk, you'll be knock out on the ground with permanent marker drawn all over your face and perhaps, have yours or someone else's puke all over you - NOT cheating on your significant other.
I asked "Amanda" why would she forgive him out of curiosity. She said, "Because he's drunk. He don't know what he was doing." REALLY? Are you for real?
Would you forgive and take your significant other back IF he or she cheated on you? What if they were "drunk" and didn't mean to "accidentally" cheat on you?
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i completely agree with you.
your blog is amazing, i could read it for days.
Wow grammer....
No I would not take them back. There are no excuses for cheating. Once a cheater, always a cheater. prolly means I'm doing something wrong or it's just not gonna last anyway. Why delay? kick em to the curb
i'd like to say i wouldn't forgive a cheater... but i do all the time =/
there was this time i was drunk and accidently had sex with someone i didn't mean to... but i was to the point of almost passing out so i dont even consider it sex seeing as how i was barely conscious. i didn't have a boyfriend at the time though and when i am in a relationship i dont drink without my bf for obvious reasons.
When you're drunk you know what you're doing. It's just your inhibitions are suppressed and you tend to just go for it. So sorry, but that whole "I was drunk" excuse would never work with me. They still knew what they were doing and they decided to go ahead with it.
@GiantUnicorn@xanga - agreed. once a cheater, always a cheater
i wouldnt forgive them..
No. Its never an accident.
Um, no. A boyfriend who's concerned enough about not cheating on you won't even get to that point.
I wouldn't take them back, drunk or not, your concious is still partially there. If you're drunk enough to not know what you're doing, then you're to drunk to be having sex to begin with. So...no, i wouldn't!
No and no.
No. That's ridiculous.
A cheater is a cheater is a cheater.
NO. Drunk or not, you still relitively know what your doing, its just whether your drunk enough to care.
Picture creepy.
"Same lie, different guy"
of course NOT! If he's sober enough to know what he's doing (kissing, f*cking some other girl), then he's not drunk.
Good post!
helllll no. i would never take back a cheater, especially if he uses the drunk excuse. i did once and that was the exact excuse he gave me. next thing i knew if a) i wasn't at a party with him i was freaking out because he would be getting drunk and i'd worry he'd cheat on me again and b) my worries were right.
so hell no.
I would not forgive them --being drunk is NOT an excuse. After all, what's to stop it from happening again? Not to mention, if you're really devoted to your SO, being drunk is not enough to make you cheat --I know one guy who would drunk-dial me all the time when he was intoxicated. He never once made a move on me; instead, he would just go on and on about how much he loved his girlfriend and how wonderful she was and how lucky he was to have her. Now that's the sort of reaction I expect out of a drunk boyfriend.
Lol, no. Being drunk may be an explanation, but it sure as hell isn't a valid excuse for anything.
i've met a few people who really have no control when they're drunk...but in that case, don't drink when you're not with your gf or bf!!! for most people though it's just a BS excuse!
"I was drunk," is a crap excuse and basically translates to, "I had no control and no inhibitions and I knew it wasn't right, but I didn't really care at the time."
If you're drunk to the point where you have no idea what's going on, you're going to be lying sprawled somewhere, just trying to get enough energy mustered up to stay conscious. And if you're a dude, if you're that drunk, you probably won't be able to perform anyways, so it's a sad sack excuse on all levels.
@yankthecarpetout@xanga - lol..
how is this an amazing post? LOL.
@tokyoexpressman@xanga - Right :) don't think with your other head.
hm...and i love how this post uses the phrase "kid sister" haha...why would you be talking to a kid about this situation then?
Please don't bring that "I was drunk" bullshit to me... you cheated and after that, I'm not taking you back. I mean, once a cheater, always a cheater. They RARELY change.
why are you talking to a kid about this?
There is no excuse for cheating. If you are not able to be in a committed relationship then stay away from it.
never take them back