Dear Mr. Lying Man-Whore,
I just wanted to thank you for being the dirty, cheating liar that you are. I can't imagine what my life would have been had you not entered my life. I wouldn't have wasted my US OPEN tickets. I wouldn't have wasted so much money and time. I wouldn't have felt used and played by someone who claims to be Mr. Sensitive and who tells me he appreciates me. I bet you tell all the special ones how much you "appreciate" them. Oh that's right, you do. Including your ex whom you cheated on to be with another girl. Funny thing is, that girl ended up screwing you over and I just happened to be the lucky one to have you drop in my life as the lying-man-whore mess that is you.
If I could, I would love to high-five that chic.
She's the smart one who out played you and out smarted your lying whorish ways. Your acting skills have served you well in the past. You've fooled everyone with those innocent big eyes and the shy dimple smiles. If I could, I would nominate you for an Oscar. Since you've done me such a favor, I thought I would do one for you. I would like to introduce you to my friend Karma. She's great and I think you deserve everything Karma's going to give you.
Have you written a tell-it-like-it-is letter to your ex? Have you ever been able to say exactly what you've wanted to?
Comments (56)
wow!
nope not written one of these letters!
if i was to, then i think i would be able to write everything down
This actually sounds like a letter I would write to my ex... Except I'm the one who eventually outsmarted him. He cheated on me, then he cheated with me. Then I told his current girlfriend. haha
I've actually considered writing a letter to him on Xanga, just to get it out there.
I've told my ex off a couple of times. Thing is, he's a stubborn ass who acts like he doesn't give a damn about what I say. Even if I DO get bitchy. Roar. I never get the satisfaction of winning haha
maybe not something like this, but i have written thigns that help express my feelings about an ex
nah, i tell it to their faces.
I haven't written anything like this to an exboyfriend, but have to an exfriend. Everytime I got a new boyfriend when I was in high school, she would try to steal them.
Guys like that disgrace us all. The ones that think they deserve multiple partners when, really, they deserve none. It sickens me. I'm sorry to hear he did that to you and I hope you gave him what for!
I wrote a list of things that I hated my ex doing or saying to me & called it "50 things a boyfriend shouldnt do" & emailed it to everyone I knew & came to school & showed our friends what I "found online". It didnt have his name on it but the look of "OH SHIT" on his face when he realized it was about him was reward enough. Silent shame is better than public revenge.
I already had the luxury of saying what I want to my exes...and so has everyone that knew her.
No but I sure would love to! It wouldn't be really harsh, but I'd get my point across.
What's the point? A letter isn't going to change him.
I love writing bitchy letters! (Not just to men...I do it to fake friends and basically anyone else who's pissed me off enough.) Of course, I never actually send them. But it's so cathartic just to get it all out there in front of me!
Funny how more often it's the ones about how he was a womanizer that get sympathized with or published, than the ones about how she manipulatively led us on for a while/let us think we had a shot and then shot us down.
I've written letters to two guys. None of them said exactly everything I wanted to get off my chest. But they were enough I guess. Neither guy ever contacted me again.
No letter, letters are no good. i rather say it right to there face and let it out that way. fuck a letter im bringing it straight to there face and i dear them to put a finger on me.
haha actually just did this, but it was more an analysis of what happened and trying to figure it out. it was a four page e-mail, and i sent it, and we're going to talk in a few days (just broke up on Monday). there's no animosity, just frustration, hurt and confusion. i usually only write letters to someone i've lost contact with so that i can make amends rather than wound anyone further. then again, i've only ever had amicable break-ups, so maybe that's it
@BoStOnIaNMoMmY@xanga -
*poke*
Now what?
Nope. I'm writing a book. Seriously. He was that awful.
Wow. No, I have never wrote that kind of letter. I don't need to, if I have something to say, he will hear it.(if he wants to or not.)
I did, he cried...and I stupidly took him back a year later...biggest mistake of my life.
@Coffee_Kaioken@xanga - whats the poking for? that wasnt nice lol
Wow. Strong words.
This sounds just like my boyfriend now.lmfao wow
very well said
I do it on Xanga, sometimes I regret it, but at least I do it and get it out there.
When will girls realize that it's the nice guys that are the worst of them all?