Freud's talked about this. Almost every magazine talks about this. You have your Good Boys, Bad Boys, Nerdy Boys, Stalker Boys (which can also be interchanged with Scary). You're attracted to someone who looks like Mom or acts like Dad. Anyway, the point is, what kind of guys/girls do you find yourself attracted to? There has to be something that gets you.
I'll admit my superficiality by going first. For instance, I was wild over Korean boys. I watched too many dramas and romantic movies, I admit. If you spoke to me about Batman or X-Men or imparted some comic wisdom to me, I struggled to control my burgeoning desire to hug you.
If you had creamy, smooth, semi-dark, but not too dark, brown skin, I consciously tell myself to look and don't touch (especially if you're under 18). I fap over European footballers (soccer players, for you Americans).
My cousin goes wild for spiky gelled blow-outs. (She's still young.) My friend loves tall older Chinese guys (and lucky her, she gets them, too). My other friend likes patient, semi-quiet, athletic guys. My guy friend likes his girls to be petite. Although, now that I think about it, almost all my guy friends list boobs and butt near the top of the list ..
So what kind of guys/girls do you go for?
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Strong and independent. Gentlemen with a sharp wit and humor... I don't really know. I fall for everything with substance.
tall, dark, handsome =] total sucker for guys with longish hair too
I like geeks with a personality. I realized about two years into dating my husband that he was a mix of my grandfather, father, and brother...all good men with crazy senses of humor, and my dad and brother are both geeks with personalities.
They also have to love animals.
Beyond that, I don't have a physical type. I've gone for tall guys, shorter guys, guys with pale skin, guys with darker skin, dark hair, and light hair, skinny and not...it's truly been personality and not looks that has hooked me.
-Katie
I'm partial to black, dark brown, or red hair.
Eye color, I don't care, glasses or not (although glasses are kind of a
plus, because then we can be a couple with glasses, which I think is
cute.) -coughs and flexes muscles- But it doesn't matter.
good humored(even if its dry) intelligent, a conversationalist. Has to
know things I don't, so I can learn something from her as well.
patient(because
I usually am), nicer to people in public services(such as
cashiers/servers), is secure and sure that I won't cheat on her,
because I have a group of girls that I trust as friends only. Faithful,
and honest.
Oh yes, and someone who has common sense.
Humor, modesty, intelligence and responsibility.
I usually go for the funny guys or just guys who can make me laugh. They also are preferably goal-oriented, attractive, involved, outgoing, in shape but not extremely athletic, optimistic, musically inclined, Christian.. haha well they don't have to have everyone of these traits, that'd be more like my perfect guy, but if they have at least a few of the above then I'm usually in love.
Flirty boys =______=
*sigh*
omigodddd i love FERNANDO TORRESSSSSS
i have that picture on my computer for wallpaper.
Tall, skinny white boys. Usually the boyishly cute ones with strange senses of humor, though I had a thing for pretty asian boys as well ^^
They've got to be able to hold a conversation though. I like boys that talk and have a modicum of intelligence!
I like good girls. I've had one too many girls get drunk and cheat on me, so I seem to trust girls who don't party. I also seem to attract thicker girls. Not huge, just a little above average.
Bad hygiene and acne are dealbreakers though. I've broken up with several girls over bad breath. Ech.
My middle aged-ish punk rockers with unGoldy amounts of baggage and bad habits. Can't help it.
good looks, good dresser
a lot of things!
Blonde blues...Im a total sucker for em. And with my bf now..he used to dye his hair and when I found out he was a strawberry blonde I about died right then and there...my ULTIMATE weakness right there. (He stopped dying his hair once he realized how ridiculously turned on I was whenever his colour started growing out)
I also tend to go for workaholics...always ends up being a *horrible* thing for me and the relationship, but I cant help it. I love a guy who is focused and determined and doesnt let anything stand in his way...even if as it always turns out..our relationship.
And...Im a weird one, I love a guy with a lil tummy.. Im not at all into buff and muscular guys, but dont like the ultra skinny ones either. I like that little bit of tummy...makes a great pillow to curl up to and fall asleep on :)
Oh, and a very strange sense of humour...with every guy Ive ever been with, Ive always been the only one to "get it" And I dont laugh cause I think hes being cute and adorable and Im in love or whatnot...I actually do find the humour funny. Plus I have a horrible memory, so a guy can tell the same joke a million times, and Im genuinely just as amused as I was the first time I heard it.
Im a nut. I already know this.
A combination of bad boy and nerd (if that's even possible!). Either alone would suffice, however.
i've always always always fallen for a guy that can make me laugh.
i fall for cute, sweet guys.
i'm not very superficial.. i don't really look at labels.
but i like guys that have talent and are passionate and intellectual.
ambitious guys.
and i don't have any preferenace when it comes to ethnicity.
i think asian guys are cute, indian guys, native american guys, etc.
style is important too.
i don't really put labels on style.. so i'm not gonna try to explain what kinda style i like.
blah. labels. i just like funny cute sweet smart interesting guys with good style :)
The girl next door or the sassy girl
Shoot I have no idea. If I fall for you, I do. Haha.
pretty ones.
mmm fernando torres, he's yummy.
but typically i fall for a guy in uniform, specifically military men. They tend to have dark hair and dark eyes too.
Boooooo to whoever put up that picture of Fernando Torres. Glory Glory Man United!
I'm partial to dark-haired petite girls and "boobs n ass" are not a requirement. I actually prefer B-cups to anything larger (personal preference). No strict racial/ethnic requirements meaning I would date a woman of any color or ethnic group, given I liked her and found her
attractive, however I grew up in San Jose and therefore I have to admit that there I do have a certain soft spot for Vietnamese girls. I'm pretty easygoing though; give me a girl who's down to earth, doesn't value money over everything, is family-oriented, and can get along with people, and we're good.
I'm a sucker for any moderately cute woman who let's her heart hang out while being sincerely kind to others. She has to be untouchable to anyone not looking for a wife though. If she's naive, then getting her is because of superficial reasons, even if her interests aren't [it's because she can't tell the difference between fake or real emotion]. I can't feel good about that.
Brains, Beauty, Boobs, Butt, Breath-taking.
Personality wise, a sense of humor wins me over every single time. He also has to be able to hold an intelligent conversation and he has to be able to challenge me. That's one of the reasons my guy is perfect, our debates are incredibly challenging and he never just lets me win.
Looks wise, I'm a stickler for eyes, and strong arms.
I like sweet guys with a dash of bad boy and kinky in them. I also like guys who are kind of big. It all sounds weird, but my SO is all of that and he's perfect