Sunday, 06 September 2009
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Don't Continue the Cycle!
Dear Male Population:
I know that more than likely in your past, there has been at least one woman that has screwed you over. You might have had girls that left you because your car wasn't good enough, that bitched at you for bringing home the "wrong" kind of flowers when you were just trying to be nice and/or cheated on you then drained your bank account before hitting the road.
I am not writing this to defend them. Nothing can. I'm writing because their actions toward you are turning you into jerks and, in turn, having you f*** up the remaining girls that aren't completely insane.
Not all of us want to use you for money, care about the kind of car you drive or needs to be around you for what material things you may be able to provide. Believe it or not, some of us want to be with you because of who you are, not what you are. There are some of us that want to be around you because you're funny, smart and wonderful. We don't need jewels or the promise of expensive vacations to make us stay.
I know when you get burned by someone of a certain character that it makes you more aware of the possibilities of meeting another like them. It makes you guarded. It's not something you ever want to go through again. Do I blame you? Nope. I'd be the same way. For a while, anyway.
But, punishing those of us that are genuine is completely insane.We don't deserve your shortness, your instant doubt or your desire to actually be in control of all the situations because you think we'll turn into one of the psychos you had around you before.
Please, do us "normal", awesome girls a favor and don't make us pay for the sins of those that came before. Not only will you kick your own ass when you realize you have driven us away, you'll also ruin us for anyone else, continuing the messed up cycle.
Break it. If you meet an amazing girl that treats you well, is smart and funny, treat her well in return. Let go of your past and love her. You'll thank me for the advice when you find how truly amazing a relationship like that can be.
Have you ever felt like you were being punished because of your SO's past relationships?
