Relationships are complicated, and don't always work out for the best.
Today on the radio, they were having people call in to talk about their breakup songs. It was interesting, what some of the people were saying, from Bon Jovi to Chris Brown, but it got me thinking. Does everyone end up with a breakup song?
When I broke up with my first long-term boyfriend, I listened to "Goodbye To You" by Michelle Branch and the entire Your Favorite Weapon album by Brand New (I highly recommend the latter--there's nothing like angry girl pop punk music). I think the screaming lyrics in my car really helped me move past the relationship and start over, despite the fact that they were written about a cheating girlfriend and a crappy best friend.
They were saying angry music, or uptempo stuff, will help you get over him/her more quickly. The sad, sappy songs just make you sad. And sappy.
I wonder: Do you have a breakup song and story? There are lots of songs out there...someone has to have something good!
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I listened to goodbye by kristinia debarge. Got me through it.
revenge was sweeter than you ever were by the veronicas (:
I used to listen to Superhero by Ani Difranco *all the time* after my ex broke up with me.
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/anidifranco/superhero.html
It pretty much summed up how I felt, and later somehow became my "anthem" or power-song.
Now whenever I listen to it it just makes me feel stronger.
i liked that eamon song "f*ck what i said" or whatever it was. it made me laugh and see it as, well it could have been worse.
Invisible by clay aiken.
I tend to go with the sad, sappy ones... and not just one... I overload on sad, sappy songs...
ORDINARY WORLD by Duran Duran
and as i try to find my way to the ordinary world
i will learn to survive... :]
already gone by kelly clarkson.- if i'm feeling sad.
taking back sunday.- if i'm feeling angry.
alot of simple plan songs.
something you forgot by lil wayne.
forever&always, you're not sorry, white horse by taylor swift
7 things by miley cyrus
:)
Better in Time - Leona Lewis
i had a whole playlist of breakup songs.. Sad ones, angry, uptempo ... the works.
Iris by Goo Goo Dolls
Tchaikovsky: Symphony #4, In F Minor, Op. 36 - 2. Andantino In Modo Di Canzona
Evil in a Closet by In Flames.
Then I got mad and put on Arch Enemy. Much better.
I don't think one song is enough. I had a playlist of things, but more so I listened to the Page Avenue cd by Story of the Year and the Cities cd by Anberlin.
There are no songs I attribute to my breakups.
Writing my own at the moment. XD
Soulmate - natasha bedingfield.
Pieces - Sum 41.
If it means a lot to you - a day to remember.remember when - there for tomorrow.never love again - taiocruz (lol depressing).unbeautiful - lesley roy.i don't want to want to want you - lesley roy (her whole album is full of good breakup songs, the sad ones though).beautiful lie - 30 seconds to mars.my happy ending - avril lavigne.are you happy now - michelle branch.6 months - hey monday.love confusion - kat deluna.the fall - pixie lott.losing you - dead by april.stacie orrico - is it me.lol I have an entire playlist dedicated to when I'm feeling a bit crap about relationships :/ but i'm moving onto the upbeat tunes now :)Never Ever- Ciara
soma-The smashing pumpkins
There's Fine, Fine Line
from the musical Avenue Q
stop crying your heart out-oasis
@ColdBeverage87@xanga - Mmm, I love Avenue Q.
"The Hardest Part of Breaking Up is Getting Back Your Stuff" by 2gether :p
Rachael Yamagata songs hands down....
love the lyrics to elephants, faster, sunday afternoon