Sunday, 30 August 2009
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What's The Longest You've Gone without Seeing Him/Her?
How long have you gone without seeing your significant other? A week? 2 days maybe? Even a year? I think the most I didn't see my boyfriend was a 3 days and I thought that was hard - I think just being with him every other day I had gotten used to it. Now since he works a lot, it gets even harder because now I only get to see him 3 times out of the week.
I think it's hard on most people when they don't get to see the person they love because they miss them and they kinda get bored with all the extra time on their hands.
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Mm currently the max has been about 2 weeks. The extra time was indeed very boring and heightened the longing. I later then spent it on my school work and other activities, (e.g., slowly getting back into dance, working out, listening to music, and napping.)
It depends- a month, month and a half. But when we first met and started talking, it was 6 months :(
@iseetheworldinhiseyes19@xanga - Long distance relationship sucks. . .that's what I'm assuming anyways. =X
A month. She only lives 20 minutes away.
I've never been in a long distance relationship.
Like a month? Not very long or significant.
I've only been in 2 relationships. Haha. And they were with guys that I went to church and class with, respectively. It wasn't terrible not seeing them. My current boyfriend is a bit iffy not seeing me every week, though. *shrug* I think it's good if two people can go without seeing each other for long periods of time and still having a lot of trust in the other.
edit - a lot of times, I lose friends and stop seeing/talking them until they break up with their S.O.(s).... because they won't do anything without the other person or whatever. It sucks more not to see your friend, imo.
about three days. it SUCKED. i know, i'm weak.
3 weeks. It was hard, but things could be worse.
@AznFier@xanga - Yea, they do. But it's worth it.
My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship across the country for 2 years. I usually got to see him for about 2 weeks every 2 months. The longest break was half a year! I saw him for 3 days in June when he came home for his brother's graduation, then neither of us were able to take time off until he came home 6 months later for Christmas.
That 6 month thing triggered a chain reaction though -- we live together now.
Half a year. We're in a long distance relationship...so we don't get to see each other very often. I'm sorry, but 3 days isn't a lot--try 3 months.
11 months... He had to live for a while in another continent. If you think 3 days was tough... 11 months nearly killed me...
I see her once a year now. We're no longer anything "special", but I look forward every year to seeing her at this function. It's like a tradition now. July 14. She doesn't see me anymore the way I see her. This year I saw her, but didn't get to speak to her much because she spent her time talking to a mutual guy friend. So 2009 wasn't a good year.
It's been a month now, because he moved overseas, it's pretty rough
a month and a half because he was in the army; but came back
it would have been more like three years; but yeah..
three days is nothing.
that's like a three day week end outta school;
nothing at all.
8 months. the worst 8 months of my life.
Two/three weeks. Can't complain, I know people have it worse out there than I do.
2 weeks..
Three weeks. It sucked. I'm sorry for those who don't see your SO for over three months.
I went without seeing my old boyfriend for two months. We couldn't talk to each other either. It was bad.
A month. He moved back to Germany, but then we broke up. It was hard, but I think it's better that we broke up when he was away. It was easier.
when i was seeing my first bf, doug, we would go 2 weeks without seeing each other because i was going to school at univ of toledo and then he was working out of chicago so we would only see each other every other week because of our schedules and us living in different cities. then my last bf, bryan, we would only see each other on the weekends, friday, saturday and sunday. we didn't live in the same city either so we would only see each other on the weekends. it was difficult towards the middle of the relationship because some times leaving at the end of the weekend was so hard. but the time we had apart made the time we had with each other so much more better.
A year, or thereabouts? We go to school on opposite sides of the country, and when we first started, we were too poor to visit each other so we only saw each other when we were both home for Christmas. now, we've decided to visit each other at least once a semester, so generally the longest we go without seeing each other is about 4-5 months, which is much better.
around 3 or 4 weeks i think. it was horrible. and its going to be pretty bad now that summer has ended and we're back in school. I'll be lucky if I see him two times a week. It makes me so sad. And I miss him so much ever day. And we talk on the phone constantly...but its not the same as being with each other you know? Enough of my gushy ramblings XD
I haven't seen my boyfriend in a month. He gets back tomorrow though! :)
My ex and I didn't see each other for maybe a whole month one time. I was on vacation, and when I came back I still didn't see him for another week.
I was on another continent, separated from my then-fiance (now-husband) for 6 months! It was rough, but it definitely made us stronger and made marriage a little less of an adjustment.