Thursday, 27 August 2009

  • Three Types of Guys in a Woman's Life

    I think in every woman's life, there will always be three types of guys.



    There is Mr. Good, Mr. Bad, and Mr. Perfect Balance:

    Mr. Bad.
    This is a character that will do what he pleases and get away with it . He is hated by the nice guys because he actually scores a couple times in his life. He is usually the guy that other guys envy because he has the girl and they do not. He is named Bad for a reason. Girls like him because he doesn't think inside the box because he's too busy breaking down the box or pissing in it. He is attractive and mysterious because he hides his emotions more often than he shares them. He acts aloof on a regular basis (never calls, texts, or checks up on you). He doesn't even seem to care about the girl he is currently with. He doesn't have a clingy factor which makes women desire him. He is a challenge to all and a force to be reckoned with. Women are attracted to a challenge, and Mr. Bad can definitely bring it on.
     
    Unfortunately, Mr. Bad has the problem of being too bad. He is too uncaring, too judgmental, too angry, too anti-authority, and too thick-headed to listen. What becomes attractive fades into disgust after a woman tries to "fix" him or "help him". Sorry, Mr. Bad is most likely not changing for you. What Nice Guys see in them, women usually do not until they have had their hearts broken (and most likely, their belongings stolen).

    Mr. Good.
    Mr. Good is a sweet, kind-hearted soul, who would be there through all the pains and all the problems a woman is going through. This should be a BIG sign to women that this guy is interested in them. No guy would honestly go out of their way to help a woman unless he had some factor of interest. Mr. Good is there for you through thick and thin, and will do just about ANYTHING to make you happy.

    But, he's too clingy. He cares about everything you do (and he calls/texts you nonstop). He wants to know the details of your life from how your day was (which is tolerable) to how many sheets of toilet paper you used on your last run to the bathroom (joking... maybe...?) Mr. Good is a creeper. He usually tends to fall into the category of being the woman's friend, but usually never the boyfriend. There is a very good reason for that, and it is perfectly understandable why. Mr. Good isn't aloof. Mr. Good basically gives his own life away to share in living with the woman of interest, and he will be malleable enough to be pushed around by his woman. He throws away all of his free time to spend time creeping on the woman of interest (though she may not know it) and obeying her commands. He may be reliable to do some kind of favor, but he is not a keeper relationship-wise because he isn't a fun risk to take. Mr. Good fails because he is TOO GOOD. Every woman with Mr. Good usually end up as friends (to a certain degree).

    Mr. Perfect Balance.
    Mr. Perfect is well.... perfect. He knows the limit to call, he can cheer a woman up with ease on her worst days, he has his own life but shares, and he knows how to make a woman happy. I know this is a vague definition, but Mr. Perfect is someone who is right for every woman, and all women have different tastes. This man comes around once every solar eclipse and once you have him, you best not let him go. He is like the Baby Bear's porridge from Goldilocks. Women may come across Mr. Perfect, but it's no guarantee though. He may be in your life, he may be waiting to be found, or maybe you let him go.

    If you are a guy, what side do you think YOU fall on? Good or Bad? If you are a girl, what would you prefer (excluding Mr. Perfect)?

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