Recently there's been many posts about men which are stereotyped and inaccurate. Possibly, the hopes of many ladies on the internet were shattered when they read post after post on "guys" who could "only discuss such topics as sex, cars, hunting, fishing, the shotgun formation, hockey, baseball, basketball or golf".
Well, I'm here to announce the presence of men who
can be Prince Charming.
WE ARE OUT THERE.We may not be mind readers either but we are the select few who enjoy deciphering the complex and interconnected webs of your needs and desires. Like an endless puzzle, you are more and more amazing when we unearth and understand your minds more. We like to try guessing what you want for Christmas - it's like a test of how much we truly know you.
Sympathy is not acquired only from your same-sex peers. As your significant other, we're the ones who you should confront when a problem arises, and we should be the ones who listen to you.
We're there for you, helping you smooth out the bumps in life.
How you perceive yourself is important because we want you to feel special and confident about yourself. If we're the privileged few who you trust to be honest with your appearance, then that's an honor we'll take with gratitude. But the bottom line is, you're beautiful no matter what.
Men are all individuals, not a collective group of beings that can be classified as just "men". The things that some guys do may not be for another. Dichotomy of men
is present. So instead of reading posts about guys who are rather barbaric, hold onto hope that you'll find the man of your dreams.
True
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This is quite a beautiful post. Thank you
Thank you! :)
I lovee Cinderella. ♥
Awesome.
I was loosing hope there for a bit.
I found that man, but I was not for him. What do I do now? I had everything and more I could ever dream of, but I was not good enough. What hope do I have?
Aww.. great post! Thanks for the bit of hope. :)
@forever_musing@xanga - I know how you feel. I thought I had the man of my dreams also. He dumped me after almost 3 years and after a couple days is already trying to get with a new girl.
This is a nice article and all... but who said everyone will find it?
i always do, and never settle for less. =) lovely post
Maybe not hold out for Prince Charming, but if he makes you happy enough, a medium between the two extremes should be sufficient.
Great post, thanks for the reassurance :)
Very nice :) Unfortunately, though, it would seem that the few who do fit that description either a) lack confidence or b) are taken up very quickly! Before I get to them... sadly :(
Yeah i believe all men are NOT the same and some females have a hard time believing that but thats on them because they will miss out on a good man. I know i found my prince charming and i wouldnt have it any other way. he is sooo perfect in my eyes. I thank god that i have found him and that he is in my life and he also gave me a few beautiful gifts..... MY KIDS!!!!!!
I've found my ideal in the past. I would love to find another in the future.
thats all i needed to hear :)
I actually like this post.
I'd have to say, if there were one person out there that I would have wanted to say this, I'm glad it was this guy. The way he portrays the few that actually care about women is awesome.
Now I just need to find myself a girl who will believe it! haha =D
"We may not be mind readers either but we are the select few who enjoy
deciphering the complex and interconnected webs of your needs and
desires."
haha you buddy are one of the select few....one of the chosen ones.... prophesies were probably written about you!
i'm not a jerk, and i think i'm a pretty nice guy. but man.... i have to say i do NOT enjoy reading girl's minds AT ALL. in fact, its one of my peeves. girls always get mad at me, then when i ask what's wrong , i get the old "if you don't know, then there's no point in me telling you". then if i pry .... i get the "you just don't understand my feelings" and if i just decide to drop it, i am a insensitive jerk.
@wizexel22@xanga - lol so true. I call them jedi mind tricks... or just girl mind games.
@nrb2233@xanga - They may lack confidence but you should hope that at least they're able to make YOU happy and that is what really matters.
I mean, so what if you have a confident SO? He might not make you happy and could fall into the stereotyped category of being "just another guy".
So don't give up a chance with someone that could make your life a dream :D
@DeathzDezign@xanga - Lol well thanks for appreciating me writing this post xD
<3 I think I found one.
Great post!
Man of your dreams should be based on the traits you want in a man, not what the media says a man should have.
Don't give up hope. I've already met mine and we've been together 5+ years. By the media's standards, he isn't a dream man but for me, he is.
This is very reassuring. Thank you! :)
i completely agree!
and i have found mine.
:]
I've found mine!!
In my eyes, he's the perfect man. Sometimes he really is oblivious and doesn't catch my hints, but that's just the way he is. He's a direct person, so needs to be told straight forward. He can be silly and sometimes insensitive with the jokes. However, he knows me enough to know that his jokes don't bother me (they are just jokes). He has his playful side and serious side. When he's serious, it's all business. He's not perfect, but his imperfections are part of his charm. I'm not perfect either, so that makes us a great pair!