laytexduckie relayed a funny story about a geeky friend losing his virginity:
I had a friend who dated one of my other friends (who was a virgin and a geek: he was an engineering major). The geek friend was also Roman Catholic, which played a part in his pureness. One day, my friend (the girl) called me. She was like, "Guess what? Hmmm, how should I put this? I just pwned a noob." I laughed so hard, then congratulated her
I love it - it sounds like something I'd say to my friends, too (lamez0rz). But what I'm wondering is if you've lost your virginity, did you let someone know afterward?
My close friend and I were, uh, late bloomers and she texted me right after she had sex for the first time - "he went to the bathroom and I had to text you!". It was pretty low-key - something like "yeah that happened" - but I cracked up reading it.
Upon going through my email inbox, it looks like I also let her know when it happened for me; I emailed her the morning after. The subject line was "it happened" - we are such dorks.
Anyway. Did you tell someone, and if you did, how did you say it?
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lollll. me and my other two friends did this. like we had a three way pact to text our two other friends when it happened. of course, we didnt go into details. just the usual... "uh it happened. i had to tell someone. no i don't regret it, okay bye." i don't know. it just helps for us, to know the other two know and support us no matter what (:
but... i have yet to lose my virginity (the last of the three)... so I can't answer your question (:
I had a few people tell me and I thought it was adorable and I was really excited for them.
I was an "early bloomer" when it came to sex so I was de-virginized pretty young. At that point in my life I didn't have any real close friends that I could really tell. However I did tell one girl in my math class the next day but it was more because she was super open about sex and I felt comfortable enough telling her. But the only reason it even came up is because (it being my first time and all) I was paranoid that I might need to buy the morning after pill and was asking her where to get it.
haha, that's so cute! i haven't lost my virginity yet but i'm pretty sure when i do, i'll have my phone at the ready the morning after :)
my sister called me immediately to tell me. her boyfriend was laughing in the background. i thought it was cute. :)
i messaged my best friend on facebook just to say "have had sex with bf".
It was Melissa J and me at Bonnie's parents house when Bonnie's parents were out of town! I was 15, Melissa was 16. I actually kept all of Melissa's love letters written to me during the time that I was 15 years old until I was 16 years old until I was 28, then one day, I left them behind. Bonnie knew first after Melissa, that's for sure, though I don't remember who I told after that. Melissa and I broke up shortly after, but I think it was because of a missed connection on a high school trip. But I don't remember for sure.
i thought the title meant, the guy asking for marriage during intercourse hahaha.
i'm still a virgin, so idk lol
If my friends ever texted me that they lost their virginity, I would text them back "dont get pregnant and btw...too much information". I dont understand why you would run around telling your friends that, especially RIGHT after. You tell your friends if you bought a coat at the mall or if a guy asked you out or something, not stuff like "hey, guess what, no more hymen dude". wtf, leave some things to th imagination. I feel like it is trying to make young people having sex seem cool, which I find disturbing.
My sister and I had created a code for when I would lose mine which was "the deed was done." After I lost it, I callled her and told her... and then she told my ex... >_____<
haha i have a plan as soon as im done go to the bathroom and three way my best and my sister... i will do it no matter what lol
We had a secret code:
ULTIMATE FRIZBEE.
we used sports for certain things.
@lastlyfirst@xanga - lol! that's funny :D
@Cest_LaxVie@xanga - lmao, that's brilliant.
I'm a virgin, but I don't think when I lose my virginity I'll be calling my best friends right after telling them all about it. I'd probably have the conversation with them the next day or something. It is kind of a personal thing, and it's a big deal to me. I'll still probably make it a funny conversation though when I tell them. Haha.
lol, i totally enjoyed reading this. my girlfriends and i can be such dorks sometimes also. but no, my first time, i didn't tell anyone after wards. i only shared it to my college roommate when we were really buzzed one night after a party.
hahahaha. my friend told me about her first time, and omg the way she went about it was so awkward. it makes me laugh to this day.
I'd only tell a few people. That is when it happens of course...
Well, I didn't have sex until my wedding night. So....um, I think everyone already knew. It was kind of weird to see everyone the day after....knowing that they already knew. LOL. I did have my best friend tell me some details about an experience that didn't involve going all the way. It was a little awkward, but hey, I'm a mom now and have experienced a lot, so I'm good at this advice thing. LOL.
i didnt tell anyone but my then best friend called me & said
"his dad came into the room & was like 'i dont want any sex going on in this house'...well TOO LATE"
lol
i told my girlfriend after i fucked her mom.
@The_Aimed_Wanderer@xanga - what are you, 40?
I text messaged my friend like right after lol. And another time when I scored with a noob (haha) I also waited for him to leave so I could text a few people haha. I didn't go into detail or anything. Just said it was good ;)
@Working_Up_To_Infinity@xanga - My sister and I say cutting the grass or riding the bike when we talk about sex in front of our baby sister haha
I texted three people after.
Two of the texts said, "The chicken has flown the coop."
It's crazy, but one of the two actually understood what I meant.
and the other said, "Fire sauce, fire sauce."
which is an inside joke from high school.
Yeah I texted 3 of my close friends when I lost it.
I lost it a couple hours ago, just so the rest of the world knows. :]
@t_zie@xanga - 20, what are you, 10?
@The_Aimed_Wanderer@xanga - yea idk wat sex is :(