I was talking to my friend today when out of no where she asks me this question: "If your SO saw something in a porn and wanted to try it with you, would you let him?"
I thought for a second and told her it depends on what he's asking to do. I mean, are we talking threesome? role playing? Candle wax? Or are we talking about some kinky ass shit? She pauses for a second, looks a little uncomfortable and asks me if I know what "foot on head" means. My turn to look uncomfortable.
"Uhm no... what does that mean?"
She shrugs and tries to be casual. "Well, he said the next time during sex while we're doing doggie style, he wants to put his foot on my head..."
I swear, at this point I laughed so loud people thought I was crazy. So you don't think doggie style is degrading enough that now you want to put your stinking foot on our head? Sheesh, what is wrong with you! What's going to be next? While he has his foot on your head, he's going to jam his foot into your mouth? Well, how would you like it if the girl pulled a "Mia move" from Californication and punched you across your face as you're about to finish? If you're game for that, sure, put your foot on my head but I get to go first...okay?
I'll let you weigh in on this...yea or nay on wannabe porn stars?
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sickening and degrading.
Well a girlie punch wouldn't do much :3
It might feel like alittle massage even :3
Actually, an ex of mine asked me if I would ever give another guy a BJ with him, at the same time. "It'll be as if we're kissing but with a dick in our mouths"... (also, he specifically said he wanted it to happen with a black man)
Yeah, we lasted for a month. And I'm pretty sure he's gay. No joke.
Lmao I think everything goes in the bedroom as long as both are consenting. That being said, I personally am not comfortable with my guy doing things like that - they feel degrading for me.
It's simple, though. If both parties are comfortable with a certain act, by all means, go ahead, but if one isn't, it shouldn't be happening.
HAHAHAHA. I'm just wondering the point of "foot on head"? That's way too funny. I imagine the man looking something like one of those muscular statues. Ya know, the ones with their arms raised showing their muscles.
Hahah. That image is too hilarious.
I'd never do that.
@slashkat@xanga - hahaha wow. I'd rather hear my boyfriend tell me he wouldn't mind another girl in the bedroom, but seriously, I usually think your boyfriend wanting to give head is not a good sign.
wow, even I did a double take. I've seen this in porns before, but only once in a while, and they're always like the extreme "forced fuck/rape fantasy" ones. maybe this is your guy's thing...but that may or may not be alarming...
hilarious. good point at the end
To be honest if there is anything I find degrading it would be foot on head. I've started seeing it more in porn and I don't like it. (Though I stand by that there is nothing degrading with doggy!)
Also, I don't see how doggy style, in itself, is more or less degrading than any other position. : /
I think men forget sometimes that ALL women aren't porn stars and there are a lot of reasons why some women aren't nor ever will be. For one because they don't wanna be...and if they did want to...they'd be off doin' it already, makin' more money and sleepin' with a heck of a lot more men... So I guess I feel don't try to change the one's that don't wanna be pornstars into somethin' they aren't. Yea, try new things...but remember...us normal female folk aren't like these "amazing women" all ya'll men watch in your pornos. If your unsatisfied...go do it yourself.
Lmao I'd do it just cuz you never know if you like it till you try it. And if you really love your signifigant other you might give it a shot on those terms alone unless you're really opposed to it for some odd reason. I guess I'd do it if he really wanted me too but bare feet gross me out a little. I don't think this is degrading either, because I'd make it so that if i do "foot-on-head" he does "toss my salad" or "eat me out 3 times tomorrow". Give and take! Wow I'm such a fucking creep.
As long as both parties are ok with it, then go ahead! No matter the act, it's only degrading if you choose to interpret it that way. There is no blanket rule determining which acts are "degrading and should never be performed" and which acts are acceptable; it's up to each couple to decide that for themselves.
doggy style =/= degrading
1. To everyone who said doggy isn't degrading, you win! Degrading sex is not in any given position, its in the RELATIONSHIP.
2. FOOT ON HEAD???? I'd never heard of that, and that's weird, because I know my porn (well I do). To me, foot on head sounds like some kind of fucked athletic move that porn directors throw in just because they can. I can see how it's a power thing or a "proof of dominance" or some shit, but if you want erotic dominance, try asphixiation or spanking or hell, kinky shit like piercing your partner and stuff. Foot on head just sounds like porno gymnastics to me. If I saw that in a porno, it'd kill my buzz.
i have one question to you :
why is doggie style degrading?!
Doggie style isn't degrading.
I'm up for trying...MOST things. Hell, what good reason do I have NOT to act like a porn star for my husband?
Sex = good.
Trying new things = good.
Turning on SO = good.
Even if it ends up not being fun, what's the harm? Come up with something else to do next time :P
LOL wth?!
Degrading someone could be part of the fantasy. If it's consensual, I don't see the problem.
I think donkey punches and busting a nut over a woman's hair weave is a dealbreaker for me in sex, and I have never seen any of those three done. But doggystyle? Not degrading. That thought made us believe you aren't really that open to new sex as it is. Supposedly you get more inches out of doggystyle.
Doggie style is degrading? I thought it was just another position to feel good in lol unless a penis in a vagina in any position is just a penis in a vagina...
never thought doggy style was degrading.
Sure, I'm up for almost anything. Foot on Head? One, I can't quite figure out how that'd work during doggie style without flexibility on both people's ends, and two...NO! I agree with you, doggie is degrading enough...
Tying up-been there done that. Threesomes-that too. The short skirt scenario---so many places I can't even COUNT. Peeing on me-hell NO! I'm up for almost anything, but there are STILL limits.
Those chicks do all that shit cuz they're getting paid for it. I'm not gonna do it for FUN!
What the heck.. why the hell would he want to put his foot on the back of her head? Wouldn't he lose his balance and fall over?