Wednesday, 12 August 2009
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"I Lied Because I Loved You."
An ex of mine gave me this reason for why he lied about cheating on me: "I lied because I loved you". Basically, he cheated then lied about it because he did not want our relationship to end.
What are your thoughts about this concept? Would you ever lie about something really serious to stay together with a SO? Have you?
Also, what do you think about his statement all together? How would you have reacted?
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if he really loved u, why would he cheat..
Bullshit, gtfo of my life.
Well that contradicts itself. You don't love someone then go ahead and cheat on them.
IF a guy keep using the same excuse after cheated with other women, don't you think this is too much?? Some guys saying this just want to get away with the problem, We as women, we need to see this CLEAR. One word, bullshit.
i think if he sounds sincere, then he probably is. especially if it's only a one time thing
its freaking bullshit..
if he wanted to stay with yu he wouldnt have done it.
if he really loved yu, why would he need to 'love' another woman.?
..especially behind yur back..
I say yu tar and feather the bastard... sorry, thats my solution to almost everything :D
I'll slap him and kick his testes.
And run away.
he loves or loved being in a relationship with you, maybe.
not true. oh and that guy in teh picture's cute :)
Kinda sounds like an oxymoron.
it's BS
All these women, commenting, it's bullshit. You can love someone, deeply, and still cheat on them. I think that most of the time, it's not about the other person, and it's not about sex. It's always about something else.
On top of that, why tell her? If she finds out it's only going to destroy her self esteem, and end the relationship. That doesn't help anyone. You can put a relationship back together, and most of the time, telling them that you cheated doesn't make that any easier. As for the lying part, hey we all do it. "Does this dress make me look fat?" "No." "Do you llike my mom?" "Yes." We lie to protect the people we love all the time.
He cheated on her. Evidently he lied that he loves her.
I would've reacted by slapping him across the face (and I'm not a very violent person). That's such a line of B.S. and almost insulting even. Sounds like he was trying to butter you up so you'd forgive and forget. Basically, he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.
I call bullshit.
I would of been all like "WOOOOW G, for-real!? Its like that!?" Then i would be all like "We done young"
why would he cheat in the first place if he really loved her?
and no, I would never lie about big things like this to my SO!
Well he lied about cheating, who's to say he isn't lying about that too? :O
Bullcrap.
hmm . .
if he loved you he wouldn't do it in the first place ,
if it was under the influence of drugs or alcohol , then
he should at lease tell you .
if he loves you he would be honest and tell you ,
not right away , but maybe within the week
It really depends on the situation. I guess.
Personally, I don't know whether I could handle a relationship after being cheated on, regardless of the reason. I'm a little too insecure for that one.
She believed. (Put the bolded letters together.)
Balls and bullshit.
lame excuse. he lied cause he know he f*cked up and can't be man enough to tell you the truth because he's afraid you'll leave him. depending on what he did and if you decide to give him a second chance, he needs to prove to you that he can be trusted. be smart and especially cautious! goodluck :)
He lied because he's a stupid jerk :P love isn't a good excuse to lie about cheating!