Sunday, 09 August 2009
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The Myth of the O-Face
What does your O-Face look like?Tradition holds that if you are a woman you are supposed to have a sexy, held together face when you "arrive" (that is my favorite term for climaxing.). Men are supposed to have these goofy face twitches that make them look like they smell a fart.
Personally, I never found this to be the case. I never make the goofy faces that you always see in the movies. I envision myself looking calm as a cucumber. I feel so relaxed at the moment of "arrival". It only makes sense that I would look how I feel. Sometimes I may even wink at the very last second.
I don't make it a habit of asking my friends what their face looks like when they are arriving. It just always seemed like such an awkward question to be asking. However, I do feel comfortable in this setting asking all of you.
I've always thought the o-face was just a myth. What does your experience tell you? Do guys really have the goofy o-face? Even better do some of you ladies have the goofy o-face?
Don't be shy.
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some do, some don't. mostly i get that love sick puppy look, or occasionally that oh my god look. also there is the "ah..... yeah....." face. but no real "oh oh oh" face unless you do something really frisky and that does not ever involve ejaculation. more like a whoah that tickles and it's awesome. :D let me know if you need instrustions. lol. i love this site!!!
Wait, wait, wait, women are "supposed" to look all "held together"? What freakin' manual is THAT from?
The variations possible here are like variations in noise level. Sometimes there's more dynamic expression and sometimes everything is more chill. Sometimes the whole experience is very "ahh, mm, yes, very nice" and sometimes it's more violent to the point that it would be ridiculous to try to transcribe it. Facial expressions vary like this.
There's no better study of this than amateur porn, to be honest.
if i'm not wrong. you're talking about when the groom arrives for the female? if it was me, i think i'll be smiling from ear to ear. if i could speak (making me so not feminine anymore), i'd say omg all the way LOL
how are you seeing your face when you are "arriving". your self-perception probably tells you otherwise
My bf has never made the O face or anything like it haha. He usually just looks pretty pleased
He can't tell if I'm in pain or enjoying it. lol.
some girls laugh during orgasm. but at least it doesnt make the neighbors know what we're doing. :P
Hm, my husband doesn't have an ''O'' face. But if he ever winked at me afterward, I'd probably smack him, lol.
My boyfriend doesn't have an "O face", I don't think. I mean sometimes I can't see his face so I wouldn't know 100%. I guess it also depends on if we're having sex or I'm going down on him. Haha idk.
I have no idea what kind of face I make. I have no photo or video of it, my partner hasn't commented on it and I don't "do it" in front of a mirror. I'm not sure, but I expect I close my eyes.
Now, I'm afraid having read this I'll get weirdly self conscious..but I somehow suspect I'll get over that.
I like the faces and noises and actions and exclamations people make when they get excited. It's part of the fun..just like the varieties in taste, smell, size, shape, etc. It's all good, when we let ourselves experience and enjoy it.
Hm my boyfriend kind of squints his eyes and has his mouth open. Honestly, the sounds he makes when he orgasms are a whole lot hotter. He looks like he could possibly be in great pain when he makes that face.
I just searched around for "orgasm face" since I think mine is fairly typical; it looks like this.
my boyfriend just looks like he's concentrating very hard haha with furrowed brows and squinted eyes. it's cute
as for my face, welllll, i've never had an orgasm during sex before. -_-
yea it all depnds
I get a totally rad smile.
That's all.
Well, I must be a freak of nature or something if women are supposed to be together, when they have an orgasm, because I cry during the majority of mine. It's a good kind of crying though, just a huge emotional release to go with the physical one.
For me, I say, "Oh, looks like I've ejaculated. Quite sensational indeed. How are you, my dear?"
Then, when she's ready, we go to the tea room and enjoy a cup of earl grey tea and sugar cookies.
Good show there ol' chap
my boyfriend doesn't have an o face, but he ALWAYS says oh my god right before haha.
Me on the other hand, I think I do, my boyfriend has never said anything about it nor has anyone else, but i can tell from my face that my eyes roll in the back of my head haha and my face gets tight.
Oh well. I enjoy it :)
Different people have different kinds of orgasms I think. It's not the same for everyone, and it changes from partner to partner.
My husband said mine varies a little. And I think his is sexy, although it also varies somewhat and sometimes he looks/sounds like he's in pain when he's really enjoying it. It doesn't look goofy at all. In fact, watching him come can push me right over the edge so I have one too.
hm, I guess I'll ask my boyfriend about it xD
LOL,...I think everyone has an 'O' face but they just don't know it because they can't see it!
u guys all get Os from sex? wow im jealous lol
My boyfriend's face is kindof like he's trying to hold something back. I guess that's understandable since we don't want kids :P
He tells me mine is sexy, but I don't know what that means. From what I feel when I do get there, my eyes roll back and my mouth opens... into a big "O," ironically.
@kaitlyn_anne_g@xanga - Awww, poor thing. Hopefully you do sometime soon. HAHA
An O face is always better than a head-butt and a black eye because of it....