I know that when you fight, you can't talk it out at your own place. There are too many feelings attached to the place that you don't want to feel at the time...it's not neutral enough.
When my BF and I first squabbled, he gave me the time I needed to cool off and when I emailed him saying we should talk, he told me to pick the place and he'd be there. I chose the park because it's close to our subway lines (if things go south, we go our respective ways without lengthy Charlie Brown/George Michael Bluth sad walks home like this)
It's also a good place because there are quiet spots where you can sit and talk it out without having tons of people stare at you.
When you've fought with your SO, where have you done your fighting and/or subsequent talking-it-out?
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We've not had a fight yet, in all of our 10 months together. We're too whatever about everything, haha.
Fighting is fighting. It is natural, it is good. Embrace the fights. If both of you know how to fight fairly, it makes the relationship stronger. That said, I fight anywhere I need to. Because I know how to fight, and my boyfriends always do too. So when fights do happen, it's alright with the both of us, because we know that we will hear each other out and compromise where necessary.
whenever, wherever we're alone.
my boyfriend and i fight, but we solve the problem pretty quickly. he's all for keeping it in, and i'm all for getting it out in the open so we can fix whatever needs mending & move on.
but uhh, yeah. where ever and whenever we're alone. doesn't need to be anywhere special. (:
in my room usually. hes always too lazy to go anywhere else. its always TOO HOT or TOO COLD with him. what a child! >_>.. but yeah. my house, my room lol. if it goes south, he does the walk lol.
We go for a walk at night and chat. There aren't nearly as many people as in the daytime and it's really nice out at night.
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alone.
xo
usually i go to the park...
single. >3<
we kiss anywhere, and that applies to fighting too...
I prefer to have our "discussions" at home
@steph - I remember the first year of my relationship..no fighting...it was great...but that was due to lack of communication & keeping everything to ourselves....2nd year, all emotions came spewing out...lol...it was a tough time...but we made it through...we are still happily together....6 years and counting
I would much rather have the discussion/fight at my home because I hate when people just stare at you like you have three heads and act like they've never fought with their bf/gf before. It's all natural and healthy in the relationship actually. Without fighting, you guys would probably be in for a fight or a break up.
@raiyaya@xanga - Exactly =]
In the park by this huge lake. It's always pretty quiet and peaceful there so we can talk without my temper getting in the way lol.
where are these spots and why have i not found them yet?
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