Monday, 20 July 2009
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Your Most Ridiculous Fights
Okay, so the other day my boyfriend and I got into an argument over something so ridiculous that I can't even believe we could continue fighting and keep a straight face. It wasn't the first time. We don't fight often, but when we do, it is always over something so stupid or insignificant that once we make up, we laugh about how pointless it all was. What are the most ridiculous fights you and your SO have had?
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My first boyfriend was an ass. He thought it was ok to stand & have his arm around a girl's shoulder & it was nothing but if I hugged a guyfriend, he would get stupid. His lame excuse was "oh if it's around the shoulders, it's a friend. You hold your girl around her waist". Yeah right.
My girlfriend was extremely moody and wasn't talking to me for nearly a week. I kept poking and prodding as to what was wrong, and she would always say "nothing." When I finally got it out of her, I actually laughed because of the sheer irony: Apparently I don't communicate well enough.
Me and my ex fought about A LOT of stupid shit. A lot of it was over how I spent MY money that I earned with MY job (we lived seperately so it wasn't like I was supporting him, and I didn't blow it, he was just pissed I didn't spend it on him). A lot of it was about how I was too emotional and clingy when he was the one who would freak out and call me 35 times within like 5 minutes AND text me about 20 times within that time if I didn't text back/answer his calls in a rediculously short amount of time. He was a controlling ass though.
But I will admit, the best fight we had, now that I think about it, was when he freaked out on me for "messing up" his fauxhawk when he asked me to do exactly what I had done (I wasn't cutting it or anything so the "damage" wasn't irreversable).
But my current man and I have only fought like twice in the time we've been together, and both times it was valid, so I'm pretty excited about that. Fearing it will change though, we're moving in together soon-ish.
@sgdreams@xanga - Hey, good thing you split with that cat. Fauxhawks are as stupid as mullets and having one is the ultimate in noncommittal douchebaggery. I think mohawks are lame too, but to not commit to even having one is the untimate in lame worthy of dumping.
My ex and I got into a pretty big fight because she asked me if I thought Paris Hilton was attractive. I said I like her lips and she fucking lost it on me. She couldn't even talk to me the rest of that day. The next big fight wasn't so much a fight, but I got mad because she said Slick Rick's Children's Story was a lame song while the Montell Jordan song that sampled the Slick Rick song was good. We didn't get into an argument...I just was disappointed because that was the moment I realized we were so different.
I've never dated before... but I HAVe had stupid fights with some of my guyfriends... o.0
One was about how I eat my pizza crust first and then eat the rest... yeh -____-
Now that I think about it... most of them were about food. And the rest were about me complaining everytime we had to walk more than ten blocks lol. oh well, they know I hate walking. they could do their car a favor and actually use it! xD
We argue over the difference between a stopwatch and a timer.. Hah.
me and my boyfriend argued about the anime Naruto.
like, who had the best moves and who was the strongest.
we fell out for a day because of that haha!
this was like, 3 years ago though haha! was kinda funny XD
lol. all our fights are ridiculous. most of the time of us is laughing while having a fight, because we aren't believe how mad the other one is. we fight about his tone of voice, him calling me more and random shit like what is pretty about a girl singer. lol.
xo
How to properly load the dishwasher! I kid you not, this argument happens at least once a week. My mom can't believe we even bother to fight over it still after 2 years living together lol.
@Casbahmaniac@xanga - Eh good point about the fauxhawk, though I TOTALLY wouldn't call it as bad as a mullet because, well, I don't want to cry/cringe/punch whoever is sporting it when I see one. I appreciate the mohawk though, and fully intend on getting one eventually.
We had this really epic, upsetting fight over the definition of vinegar, or more accurately, how the definition should be determined. I said that one should just look it up in a dictionary; he wasn't satisfied with that, saying one must debate everything until finding a temporary agreement on what it is. He's an English/Religion major. It went on for an hour and involved both of us crying at some point or another.
We have stupid little arguments over the definition of sayings or...something. I can't really remember. It's really dumb. Sometimes that little "I have to be right" feeling kicks in, but we can usually stop ourselves. Sometimes it's a big problem sparked back into life from something small and stupid.
@sgdreams@xanga - I want to punch whoever has a fauxhawk. And it is like the mullet in the sense that when so many people make fun of it, why would someone wear one? And mohawks are as lame as lower back tattoos because they are trendy. rappers, athletes, and standup types have them, which means they aren't shocking anymore. It kinda cheapens the effect. Most people who have em don't roll with the libery spikes anymore. I miss that.
these fights are hilarious - keep 'em coming!
One time my boyfriend and I had a really dumb argument. I got a buy one-get one free deal for a local restaurant. We don't eat out a lot, to save money, and since it was BOGO, I thought it'd be fun to do. So I called him and asked if he wanted to go get dinner. He said to pick him up in ten minutes. When he got in the car he smelled like onions so I asked where he had been. He had already eaten at the school cafeteria. I was like, "You could have told me so I didn't even have to come out. Why are we even going out to eat?"
So he yelled at me saying something along the lines of, "I knew you were going to get mad, so how about not yelling at me or getting mad at me for once?!" I was furious and just kept my mouth shut until we got to the restaurant but the more I thought about it the angrier I got, so I had a talk with him and told him how I felt, later that night.
Me: "Like earlier...you got mad and yelled at me...because you *thought* I was *going to* get mad and yell at you? I'm not allowed to get mad at you at all, but you're allowed to get mad at me in *advance* for something I haven't even done yet?!"
Him: *Nervous I-Know-I'm-Wrong-and-"My Bad"-Laughter*
We got over it, but at the time it was so ridiculous. Actually, it's still ridiculous, but we're not upset about it anymore.
my fiancee and I have fought over everything from how many shots from bacardi 151 equals how many cans of beer and some other stupid stuff. We oddly enough actually play fight about that kind of stuff we've only fought about one thing. :)
@Casbahmaniac@xanga - Good point... still gonna get one though haha. And I WILL liberty spike that shit. And just a note, to me it's not about the "shock value" or any of that, I just like the way they look.
I have plenty of those "ridiculous" fights over the past six years that I've been with my husband. Too much to list.
ALL my fights are ridiculous. Its always "he said, she said." Until we both get tired of argueing a point that no one will agree to, and give up.
@GodlessLiberal@xanga - LOL!!!!!!!!! Maybe she was trying to show you how it feels?
@JessxMaxine@xanga - Omg i have to argue about him calling me less!! He'll call me at least 5 times in the day to say "hey.. whats up.." It hasn't changed since the first time he called me hahaha. That drives me nuts.. especially when Im with friends, because I live with my boyfriend I see him all the time, but I dont get to see my friends all the time. &He'll get mad that I dont want to sit there having a stupid conversation ("sooo..... yeah... whats up...") when i could be talking to my friend who i never see....
LOL MEN!
@brittbritt__x@xanga - he probably gets jealous that you want to spend time with friends. lol.
@JessxMaxine@xanga - Lol he's at work when this happens. So yeah, when he isn't there, I would rather spend time with my friends :P haha
haha I'll get mad over something and he knows I'm just making a big deal of things. So he just says "that's okay, I forgive you! Mwuah mwuah!"
And it just makes both of us laugh because the tension is gone and we just laugh because I wasn't asking for HIS forgiveness
Hmmm one time me and my SO fought about what side of the bed we wanted to sleep on... um we've fought about how much soap he uses when he does the dishes.... about if the computer is too slow or if it is fine... about who used the last of the toothpaste... Oh and about the so so important concept of the PB&J....
-.- I remind myself that I love him everyday...
jk! I am happy it is just hilarious....
Oh and yesterday I made some soup to eat and he didn't tell me he was hungry... and he ate all of it... and I got on his case saying that that was not for him (i hadn't eatten all day) and he was like "Fine eat it" and I was like "its already gone!" and he goes into the bedroom and sits on the bed and I come in and I'm like "What did we learn?" and he starts laughing and goes "learn to cook for myself and don't touch a hungry lady's plate" And we giggled for a good hour....
never had any ridiculous fights. if my gf tries to start an argument about something dumb i just look at her and say nothing until she gets pissed that i'm not talking. then i say ''what do you want me to say? i disagree, get over it.'' that usually works, if not she'll storm out of the room pissed and 5 minutes later forget about the whole thing.