He Can Look, as long as he doesnt touch. Thats one my one rule for my boyfriend lols. And the whole talking with the ex gf, thats ok to just talk. But hanging out and going on little dates and stuff isnt right.

Its ok to be jelous, but dont over analyze things. :3

Your situation seemed like he was staring.

which is not okay. well that sounded kinda psycho, but yeah...

not cool..

Idk how some women let there men stare..its just not right..

save that shit for when your with guy friends or whatever.

I mean come on..you where right there to and he's doing that.

but yeah idk about the ex-girlfriend thing cuz this i've only been in one relationship.

i dislike ex girlfriends / whatever. i don't trust them and i don't like them talking to my boyfriend if they can't respect the fact that he has a girlfriend. from the almost three years with my boyfriend, i've yet to come across an ex girlfriend / ex whatever who has not tried to make their friendship into something more. and he stopped talking to them, because of it. he didn't see the sense in us fighting over stupid girls that don't matter.

do you trust your boyfriend? if he can be friends with his ex and not be all flirty with her, then, it's okay. as long as she respects that he is in a relationship. i don't see a problem with it.

there is nothing wrong with looking at other girls, but he can be more respectful and more sneaky about checking out the girls, he shouldn't be so mouth open and drool coming down his face. he should be more respectful of you.

we all check out other guys/girls when we are in relationships. my boyfriend does it. and i normally say something about a girl before him, so i've made him more comfortable with sharing his likes and dislikes about random girls we see.

xo

I thought the same thing listening to "save the last  dance" haha. I don't think it's ok IF you don't like it because some people may feel different(with both checking out girls and talking with married ex). Personally, i've been where you are and felt the same way as you. Itried to be "cool girlfriend"(bad idea) and honestly if it makes you uncomfortable make sure he knows it or else he'll take advantage of you(who knows, it could get worse)! If he really cares about you he'll do his best to show his love through respecting you and how you feel :) Nip it in the bud as soon as possible <- saying from experience

Well, I think its human nature for guys to look at girls and vice versa. As long as he doesn't touch. lol. I know my husband looks, you can't expect them not to, thats not realistic. I know Iam gulity of looking at a good looking guy, but I don't ever act on it. neither does my husband. He tells me everyday how much he loves and cares for me and how beautiful Iam. He is my true soulmate in life. I trust him and he trust me, so If he looks I'm not offended because I know who he loves and how he truely feels.I find celebrities attractive (even though they are out of reach) its still looking. If he is totally treating you well and you think you guys are perfect for each other, and he lets you know that you are good looking, and that he really loves you,don't fret if you check him gazing as another female walks by, I know its hard to do, I use to think that way too, but you have to think, we look too and we don't expect them to get upset. Good post, I think alot of women feel this way, I know i use too. I hope my advice helps out :)

Guys look at pretty girls, my mom taught me a saying, "When a man stops looking, check his pulse."
I love this. I feel as long as a man isn't consistently checking out other girls, isn't going home with them, and isn't flirting or otherwise trying to cheat on you there really is no harm in looking a bit. Most girls look too, I know I notice cute men when out.
As far as talking to the ex, I personally don't think it matters at all that she is married. As long as he is with YOU, and faithful to you, not trying to get back with her, and she is not trying to get him back and respectful of you and your relationship then there is NOTHING wrong with them talking and being friends. 
I get so tired of girls not wanting their man to have any contact with any other female. Unless she is willing to cut herself off from all other men, then she needs to calm down. Girls who are actively after your man are completely different.

I asked my friend about a similar situation a couple of weeks ago and he said that it is "natural human instincts". Honestly, i think everyone checks out "other" people, regardless of their relationship status. When i was in a relationship, i did look at other guys, because they were around me everywhere i go and i am sure my bf checks out girls aswell. Sometimes i would think "he looks cute" or something like that, but since i am in a relationship, i do remain commited to my partner and don't go sneaking around and playing guys. 

You have the right to be upset and suspicious, but once you've talked with him about it the ball is really in his court. If he continues to do that in your presence after knowing it upsets you then he doesn't respect your emotions and insecurities. As for the ex issue, if their conversation is purely platonic it should be ok, some ex's CAN be friends.

Sake.

First of all you are VERY pretty.  That being said does it mean your bf will never look at other women?  No dear.  Men are....well we're men.  It doesn't matter if our gfs are super models but we'll always look at other pretty women coz that's just our nature to do so.  I honestly don't think it's harmful to look at others as long as he's not sleeping with them.  Ask yourself HONESTLY, are you NEVER going to check out another guy because you're with your bf?  Let's be realistic here okay, we're all human and men are no different.  We like to look at different women once in a while.  

As for communicating with the ex, well I know there are tons of movies/books/shows that show ppl get back together with their ex but some of them truly just remain friends.  His ex is also married so seriously what could come of it?  I don't think it's a big deal I honestly don't care if my gfs talk to their ex that's fine.  However it becomes a problem if he comes home late after 'hanging out' with his ex.  If he hasn't then you ain't got nothing to worry about ^.^

I like to have a "look, but don't touch" policy.  My boyfriend can look all he wants.  In fact, I look with him sometimes.  Sometimes I'll joke around that I'm jealous, but I'm fine with it, really.  And my boyfriend still talks to most of his exes....... more like they stalk him.... but it's fine, because he keeps them on a short leash.  I trust him completely.

I agree with xkthily@xanga and prettyboy78@xanga

Personally, i didn't feel comfortable when i was with my boyfriend and he was checking out other girls while i was standing right there. But it's natural. And as long as he doesn't just sit there an continuously stare at her, or try flirting with her, its not a big deal.

my bf always checks out girls when they walk past too. at first it hurt, so i didnt say anything. thennn, i pulled him up on it, asking why he does it. at least be discreet! lol i mean, sure, he's looking but he's not touching, right? still it hurt to see him looking elsewhere. anyway, long story short, he reckons he didn't even know he was doing it. lol he doesn't do it as often anymore. haha