Let's keep it short and simple. We fall into their traps and get engulfed in flames. So what is that magic they have?
Reason 1:
They are the "unknown". They are mysterious and yet compelling because they don't blabber everything about themselves since they met you. You yearn for them and want to know what they are like.
Reason 2: Because they are the "unknown",
they are fun and dangerous. Quite unlike the honest dude whom you went out with before, right?
Reason 3:
They know the right timing: when to shower you with attention, and when to give you that charming smile. They know how to build up tension over time, making you want them A LOT more than they want you. Flirting with their eyes and words for a few hours/days/weeks before they actually plant a kiss on you, so that you feel absolutely swept away and be engulfed in what you believe to be "passion".
Reason 4:
Their words don't cost a thing, so it's fairly easy to whisper sweet nothings and trust me, sweet nothings are a KILLER for women. Who doesn't like to be serenaded?
Reason 5:
They are "gentlemen". They treat you like a princess before they sweep you away (not off your feet but off their doorsteps).
Reason 6:
They build up hope and expectation for you, creating a delusional world for you and making you believe that being together with him is the best ever (ahem) by above reasons of 1-5.
Reason 7:
They ditch you just when you wanted it the most. You always crave what you can't have.
Reason 8:
They are way more experienced with women than you are with yourself/men.
Comments (74)
LOL
I'M NOT GONNA LIE..
i've been there, done that, TWO TIMES!! LOL.
omg 150% agreed
Oh, yeah. I totally *love* being ditched when I wanted it the most.
You know.
Totally.
...Yeah.
Yes, they know how to make you want them, even though you know they're a complete jerk.
also, they're usually "mind-readers" - they've acted out this play with so many other women, that they have it well -rehearsed, and they know what you're going to do before you do.
also, they're very hot
My reasons to being a player is to well find a long term mature relationship and to cuddle.
LOL true.
they know how to play mind-games well.though some of them are not so hot.true... been there done that, will never go back again hehe
false.
wow. this is so unbelievably true.
...dont look at me am not a player..
I'm afraid the "ditching" part is going to come to my friend. She just doesn't know it yet. =/
Very interesting... I would say... True & False.
Did say mostly true. And well, it happens vice versa to both genders.
SIGH
players are horrible...but they do play a good game. I admire them for their acting skills.
and their experience.
But honestly, one get's tired of charming words and glassy eyes, no matter how beautiful they are and how believable it may seem. Truth is nice every once in a while.
Been there, done that (three different times, unfortunately), because I like to believe that "this really really handsome guy is different!" Not saying all handsome men are players, but to my knowledge, a lot are.
I'm too old for childish games.
@chiod0s1234@xanga - hmm really?
@RedSaphyr@xanga - agreed. A broken heart learns a good lesson
damn you for being right datingish!!! lol.
reading this list over, it confirmed something im going through right now, even though i dont want to admit it.
I don't like players. I like the boys who haven't had many girlfriends. It's better in the end haha. I really dislike players. I'd rather have a boy who had no clue what he was doing, rather than one who would ditch me. Too much heart ache.
Wow, this totally helped me understand my current crush.... damn us silly women for loving it.
Wow this explains my last 3 ex boyfriends
Yup... if you want to know how to come out ontop with a "bad boy" then read "The Manual". Good read, and is very informative, however the author (male) does tend to look at physical attributes alot, but that is how we "Lure" men into our "webs".
eh, i don't like charming men actually. they piss me off...A LOT
maybe because my first boyfriend ever was a charming bastard, it cured me of it for forever LOL
players are hot, but evil. if you just like hooking up they are better.