Wednesday, 15 July 2009
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Awkwardness In The Labs
I've been trying to get with this girl since early April. She has great looks and an awesome personality. Everything a guy would want. We worked a lot in the labs together so I've gotten to know her. Things were going fine until this other guy who also labs with us decided to try and get with her as well. I was thrown off because I've never dealt with competition before. Well, now it's mid-July and she hangs out with him and not me. It's gotten to a point where I've lost interest in her.So I've lost out, which I'm fine with because I've learned some important lessons, like not hesitating and being confident. My problem is, once school starts the three of us will be in the same labs again. And this lab I'm talking about is small, like 25 computers small, so it's not like I can sit over on the other side and talk to other people. I'm not willing to sit there and watch them be a couple, but I love the stuff I do in the labs and this is the only place in the school where I get to do it. How can I avoid awkwardness in the labs next year?
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Instead of ignoring them become friends with them.
If the girl doesn't know about your feelings toward her, it shouldn't be awkward for anyone but yourself. In that case, just try to think about other things. Try not to let this kind of stuff get in the way of your education! : )
o_O HUH?!
this is so lame wtf
Try to talk to another girl. And befriend her. Unless that girl you have feelings for is the only girl in that lab, which I highly doubt, but if that is the case then talk to a guy. lol JK! Focus on your lab, dude. And keep it smooth. I agree with Pink piglet; if she doesnt know, then it shouldnt be awkward.
Do what all manly men would do.
Come in dressed like the Terminator, punch her boyfriend in the gut, and while he's doubled up on the floor like a baby, use the "Come with me if you want to live," line. Bam! Awkwardness gone. And you get the girl. Because all girls like bad boys, right?
how can it be awkward if you never declared your feelings for her? i guess you probably feel awkward being friends with someone who you used to have interested for (it happens only if you still have feelings for her)... but hey, didn't you just say you lost interest in her, so i don't really see how it can be that awkward at all...
Like others have said, if you haven't declared your feelings for her, you shouldn't feel awkward. Instead, be friends with them or make new friends in the class. Just go on with your daily routine. You will only feel awkward if you let it bother you.
You either lied about losing interest or omitted something from the post.
The situation is only awkward if you make it awkward.
Wow...
You've sure got problems...
Well, perhaps invest in some swagger this summer. Get confidence and some girls, better yourself. And than, get her and ruin his semester.
just quit lab
@tokyoexpressman@xanga - Finally some guy has figured us ladies out, thank god!
@tokyoexpressman@xanga - lol! you must get all the ladies. I know I want to live ;)
Sit in the front so you won't have to see them.
Done.
Uhhh... become friends with them first?
On the bright side, she's not waging a lab war against you because of some lame excuse. I've kinda learned over the years if I want to date, don't date within where I work or go to school.
@tokyoexpressman@xanga - pahahaha! Exactly. Once you do this, let us know how it goes. Any thing less is unacceptable.
get with her sister or brother :D
If you`ve truly "lost interest in her," then why would her new guy bother you at all? What is there to be awkward if there wasn`t anything close to a love triangle going on?