Monday, 13 July 2009
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"See you later?"
My boyfriend and I recently broke up but it wasn't a breakup I've experienced before. The breakup happened because we realized that despite the fact that we loved one another dearly, it just was not the right time for the both of us. We are both at that point in our life where we must take whatever time we have and figure ourselves out. Especially since my boyfriend is so unsure about everything going on in his life (e.g. friends, career, money, family) he just does not have time or space for me in his life. At first, the thought of not being able to hold him and kiss him saddened me, but then I realized that this is just the beginning. My boyfriend told me that he has a weird feeling that in the future, we're going to meet again and things will be lovely. In a sense, I believe it too. I believe that there is a possibility that we will find one another again because the love we have for one another is so strong.
Are we being too hopeful? Or is there an actual possibility of finding one another again?
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Why wouldn't there be a possibility?
I tend to think such sayings are a crock, but I don`t know the guy, so.. I`ll just go with the old adage: "If you love someone, let them go. If it was meant to be, they'll come back to you."
This reminds me of the movie Serendipity. Of course I've never actually watched the movie so I may be completely wrong.
@nimbusthedragon@xanga - I agree. It would be wonderful to be so optimistic and hopeless. But does that usually happen? No. Is it possible? Sure. But likely? No. My (now ex) boyfriend and I had a similar break up... we never spoke again. If it's meant to be, it will be. But sometimes, that sort of thing is just said in a break up... But wait and see where both your lives take you. Who knows?
i would say yes, you are being too optimistic. don't spend your days waiting for this guy if he doesn't have room for you, just live your life (hey hey hey). you guys could meet up again and it could be lovely, but it probably won't happen.
on the other hand, if you were to make a conscious effort to get back with him (as in staying in contact) when he's done figuring himself out, then that could work. but does he just plan to stop talking to you and just meet you on the street or in a store? way too optimistic. there has to be a conscious effort.
Yes and probably not.
:D
Having hope for something with him will probably ruin other prospects until then. I think it's best to consider it done and over, that way you can really move on.
When my ex dumped me he had the same hopeful ideas, "Oh, maybe one day we can get past this," et cetera. It drug out a breakup that should have only lasted a couple of days to 7 or eight months, even past the point where he got married and continued to try to contact me.
Let it be. If it's meant to happen down the line, it will, but don't wait on it.
Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
If it happens, it happens. You may meet again, but things may not be as you expected it to be. You never really know. Let Fate take it's course.
@Not_A_Marker@xanga - l0l.
wow I'm going through the same thing, except the break up hasn't happend yet because I'm too scared we'll never talk again.
sad =(
LOL if he doesn't have time/space to love you now = doesn't love you enough to be with you = what makes you think he will have time and space to love you later?
it's an evil plan to hold you back from other boys
my love story right here :X
there's a possibility, but you shouldn't put your life on hold waiting for it.
Actually,,the time passes..you will soon find that the feeling is fading day by day...
But it is a good time for u guys to let go and try to figure ur own identity...
@nimbusthedragon@xanga - agreed.
There is always that possibility.
I use to say that about my ex boyfriend... until I realized that not even in the future could we have the life that we once talked about. Frankly I am happy that I will not be continuing with him where we left off.
But in your case, perhaps you guys will find each other again.. only time will tell.
my friend has this similar situation. What the future holds is something exciting and scary. good luck to both of you 8D
There is a possibility. Maybe you two just met and got involved at the wrong time. Timing is everything. Then again, like @GaMeGurLsH@xanga - said, if he doesn't have enough time/space to be with you and doesn't love you enough to be with you now, what makes you think he will do that later? I think no matter what, if a person really want to be with you and make it work, he will be with you. Time changes people and if you two get involve in the near future, it may or may not be what you expect it to be.
OMFG- i'm going through the exact same thing!
that usually means
things will fade
because i've been through this
two fuck damn times
definitely. You guys should plan to meet up in 5 years or so.
two of my closest friends broke up on that premise and even though they've taken completely different paths in college, they still remain really great friends. i hope that ultimately they end up together, because they're such a sweet couple.
There's always a chance. But keeping your mind open is always good(: