I'm Doing Horrible Things In His Dreams

Thursday, 09 July 2009

I'm Doing Horrible Things In His Dreams
My ex-boyfriend was telling me the other day that he was having a lot of bad dreams about me. I guess that would really be a nightmare....but anyway, he was telling me about these dreams. I mean, I guess they weren't that bad, but to him, it was HELL. He didn't give me specifics but he told me that each of them involved me doing something sexual with another male. Either that, or leaving him for another male to do something sexual. He's thinking that they're a "sign" or something. I assure him that they aren't signs for anything, I mean, I'm definitely not getting sexually involved with anyone. I'm not "crushing" or anything. I don't even think anyone is cute. Basically, I really don't understand what they could be a sign of.
But then I got to thinking. My ex and I had been dating for, like, 7 months when I had a couple of dreams about him and one of his really close female friends. I only had two of them, and at the time, they were "oh haha, that would be crazy" kinda things. Both of them dealt with my ex and his friend being together behind my back. [In each of them, she got beat down.] But about a year into our relationship, he cheated on me. With her.
When I first found it, it was a year after it happened, and both of them were all "I'm a different person" blah blah. But either way, it happened. And at the time, the dream thing didn't register to me. But when my ex told me about all the dreams he was having, I started thinking and remembered....and my dreams pretty much foretold the future.
Now I'm saying, do his dreams mean something? Are they foretelling something about me that I know nothing about yet? What if only MY dreams mean something? Have you had any dreams about your SO that came true later on? Has your SO told you about any nightmares he/she's had about you that have come true/not came true?