Just last night I was watching Horton Hears a Who with my boyfriend on my laptop. He looked up at me and all of a sudden he asked me, "Are you kinky?" My eyes widened. I was shocked. "Uhh...ehhh..heh.. I don't know...? Am I?" was my response to this unexpected question. He looked at the laptop screen, looked back at me, shook his head and said, "Hmm, no." Then I found out that he likes kinky.
Now, I feel like I can't please him. I've told him that before but he claims that I do. We've mentioned to each about trying out new things in the bed and we have tried a few. Now, I'm not so sure what kinky is anymore because to me the things we have done are pretty kinky. What is kinky? What can I do make things kinky in bed? What exactly should I do? Help, I don't want our sex life to get boring and die down.
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He asked you that while watching Horton Hears a Who?
LOL!!!!!!!!
I don't know, I guess it depends on what stuff he considers kinky as to which avenue you should go down. I mean some people find moderate to extreme BDSM to be regular and kinky, while others look at it in horror. Same with roleplaying, some may think it's disturbing or odd while others think it's the greatest thing on the planet. Ask him what he considers to be kinky, for one.
take it up a notch: high school musical.
@beetunes@xanga - Hahahaha!
I believe a fairly strict definition of kinky is contriving sexual pleasure, or excitement, from non standard sexual acts. So kinky can be anything other than french kissing, missionary position, groping, etc...
Obviously it could be anything that he's thinking about. Have him write a fantasy story. That's what my girlfriend and I do (her fantasies are nowhere near as kinky as mine).
Ok first off LOL...what a random question while watching a kids movie.
But uh, you're already online...I'm pretty sure if you put "kinky sex" into Google (with safe search off )it'll give you a pretty good idea of what is considered kinky. If most of what you find freaks you out, you're not kinky.
I'm still stuck at the horton hears a who part lol
"Kinky" is very relative. In order to find out what he considers kinky, I'd recommend asking him.
awww i love that movie! :P
hahahahahaasorry i dont how to help you lolAsk him what he wants to do, decide if you're comfortable with it or not, discuss it if you aren't and then find something you ARE comfortable with. Then do it. And discuss it again afterwards and get yourself on the same page as him. :)
I have no idea and I don't really want to know. Are you sure you do?
nothing is kinky. "kinky" is just a label by conservative people for those more adventurous than themselves.
i'm kinky...
just ask him what he likes...and even consider urself what you're open to try...it can be anything...such a broad spectrum.
Horton Hears A Who... XD
I never knew Dr. Seuss could be so inspiring. XD
@beetunes@xanga - ha ha...excatly
@goD_I_V_Aunc10@xanga - LOL exactly what I was gonna say.
lol.. i'm sorry, i can't help you.
but i'm still trying to figure out why he brought up the subject when watching that particular movie!
You know, I can't believe the crap I read on this site sometimes... lol. This really made my insomnia a little worthwhile.. Try doing this:
Become the man in the relationship. As you attempt to rape him with a strap on, you can tell him that your kinky. See then if he likes you being kinky.
Hilarious.
It is probably better from him to ask when you guys or on the verge of getting down to business. If he asked me during Horton Hears a Who, I'd shrug I don't know, and slip my headphones on. I don't really care for the possibility of smacking tender buttcheeks with a riding crop when Horton comes on.
TMI?
If your sex life with your boyfriend is really important, have an open mind.. Ask him what he likes, try and think about what you like... Haha, be open to anything that won't cause you harm.... or just seems wrong. =] Positions? Different ways of pleasing one another... Places where you do it!!! Outside is really fun... Just try anything! Sex is supposed to be fun. =]
You should ask him what he considers kinky.
get some fishnets and play doctors lor...
maybe he secretly wears one of those elephant thongs, where it is shaped like an elephant's trunk and seeing horton the elephant reminded him to ask you about whether you are kinky like him; a sexy undie wearer
which is more comical than kinky imo. that is probably the only plausible reason for asking x-rated questions during adorable animated movies. kinky depends on various preferences. I'd burst out laughing than find it a turn on if a guy really wore that type of stuff.
now first we need to know all the intimate details of what you do do in bed. can't help you define kinky otherwise sorry
Feathers? *shrugs Something to do with 'Horton Hears a Who'.