Tuesday, 30 June 2009
I have a groupmate, older than me and us, who considers the fling or the third party normal. According to her, that's just the way things go. One cannot prevent it from happening. One way or another, it will happen in a person's life.
Upon prolonged conversation, I have picked up another principle of hers.
It is now rare that we can find a man who is faithful. Majority are just loyal.
So, I asked her what's the difference. According to her, faithfulness comes with a man who, no matter what happens, sticks with his girl. Thick or thin. Good times or bad times. No side steps. No second glances. IT'S JUST ONLY HER.
Loyalty comes with a man who, no matter how many girls he sees and dine out with, no matter how many girls he messages and calls, how many flirting styles he manages to showcase in a day...COMES BACK TO HIS GIRL. Side steps are common, BUT HE COMES BACK TO HIS GIRL AT THE END OF THE DAY.
...so, what do you think of her opinion?