Nope. 

What...I really have no idea what to say. If you've ever had bad memory in the past, it's likely you did do it, or it's possible he has bad memory. Sometimes weeks after having a dream, I won't be able to remember if what happened was in that dream or reality.

@ViciousGrin63@xanga - Eating Disorder

@ViciousGrin63@xanga - it stands for eating disorder.

encourage your boyfriend to communicate better, because you didn't know but you had the right to. and also let him know that you truly don't remember hitting him, and to tell you when he feels that he is being abused.
also, does he know about your eating problems? you should tell him, so he can support you instead of maybe feeling like your starving yourself to make -you- the victim rather than him. which i know is not the case, but he might think that way

i hope everything works out.

You might have actually hit him in your sleep... I do things in my sleep sometimes that my mom or friends swear I was awake for but I was actually sleeping. The subconscious does crazy things. And any anger you have, if your bottling it up like this could be making it's way out in other ways, acting out in your sleep, your ed... Even thought it's easy to forget things, I think it would be pretty hard to forget intentionally slapping someone several times unless you were blind with rage. But, neither here nor there. ;)
<3.

This was the funniest thing ever. :D

Maybe it's just that selective memory thing.

(This is probably the worst analogy/example ever) Like the the main character from The Uninvited.

@bananamochi@xanga - that's what i was thinking...like sleep walking....except sleep hitting. 

i always punch my bf. he says i'm a violent person to live with, but he says this with a smile.
it's my way of expressing myself, my anger, whatever shit is going on in my head at the time. he doesn't mind it though. i'd know straight away if he didn't like it. i'd read it in his expression. if he accused me of slapping him in the face, i probably did do it. but then again, he'd never accuse me of it. my bf's a darl<3.

I highly doubt that you slapped him at all.  One time would be a possability, but he said you've done it several times.  If that were the case, he wouldn't let you touch his face.  When you get slapped by someone even once, you flinch until you realize it's not going to happen again.  If it was happening "several times" like he says, you wouldn't have been able to touch his face for the last month.  He'd be flinching every time you reached for it.  After the first few hits, your brain makes a connection of "hand towards face = hit", and applies it EVERY time that person (and sometimes others) reaches for your face.  Even when it's obvious that they're being affectionate.

If the two of you have been having problems like this, more than likely, he dreamt it.  If the little play slaps have been bothering him and there's some other problem between the two of you, his sleeping brain probably put them together and he dreamt that you hit him.  It's more plausible than you actually hitting him if he's not flinching away from your touch.  Hell, my sleeping brain dreamt my husband came home and beat my stomach till I miscarried our baby because I was feeling stressed over the new baby and worried about his stress with work.  It was one of the most vivid dreams I've ever had, and for a moment when I woke up, I had to really think about it to make sure it was a dream.  I know without a doubt that my husband would never lay a hand on me like that (the man's never touched me in anger), so I knew it was a dream.  Maybe he's unable to really tell the difference because it was a very vivid dream.

First, those fights are the worst thing in a relationship. The best way to solve things it's to talk about it when it happens, otherwise it will just keep eating you up inside and at some point you won't be able to solve it anymore, and it can destroy your relationship.
I used to be in a relationship that worked just like yours. we would keep our problems to ourselves and suddenly we'd just blow up and throw everything at each other's face. It was terrible, because it didn't allow us to solve anything at all. You get lost and you don't know in which problem to focus, and the mess prevails. Right now I'm on another relationship and we're used to deal with things when they happen, so that we can move on and never think of it again. But that's not why you're seeking help and if this kind of relationship works for you, great!
About being accused of something you don't remember doing: it's possible that you do it and don't remember. You think you would remember something as weird as slapping him, but if it happens in a moment of anger maybe your brain doesn't even compute what you're doing. It seems strange, but it's possible. Sometimes we do things that don't seem like us, but they're done in distress and if we don't even pay attention to them, we cant remember them. It seems like you love him very much, and if you've slapped him I'm sure you didn't meant to hurt him. That may also contribute to forgetting it, because if you did it with no armful intentions, the need of hurting him does not exist in your mind, therefore you don't believe you might have done it.
Finally, and most probably, he took a situation that really happen and as time went by the grief he had inside him made him create a whole new version of the story. I'm not talking about delusions - but when we hold a strong feeling inside of us we tend to create reasons to hold on to it.
Try to pay attention in the future and avoid doing it again (IF you have actually ever done it)! :)

I think that he accidently accused you of slapping him.. But then once you mentioned that you didn't remember .. He then remembered you didn't do it but didn't want to lose in the fight so he then just said that those playful slaps offended him.