Monday, 22 June 2009
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Men with Kids
I always thought men with kids were sexy. There's nothing more attractive than a tall, dark and handsome (or even a short, light and not-so-handsome) man delicately holding a child in his strong arms. Men in their running strollers, men walking their toddler across the street, that hot kindergarten dad at open house - it's all glamor to me!Of course, being a parent, I know there are some things that aren't attractive about having a child in general - the colorful barf stain on his collared shirt, the screaming child failing in his arms, the sickly, snot nosed kid rubbing his green boogers onto his white shirt. Yeah...not so attractive. But back to my fantasy.
When I'm not tired or annoyed at my husband and I see him playing with our beautiful son, I fall in love over and over again. But even before our "cookie cutter" life, my heart gravitated toward the man holding a baby as it did for the man walking his puppy dog. (I know, bad comparison.)
Yesterday my friend John and I took my son to a pub (yes, a bar) where we dined on wings and fries during happy hour. John was holding my son when two really pretty girls looked over at him with a smile on their faces and then gave me a cursory look, smirking and moving on. On one hand, I was happy that my single friend was being checked out; on the other hand, I was upset that they probably assumed he was my husband. The nerve of them not having the guts to ask! I wanted to yell at those girls to come back because John isn't the father of my child! (Ewwww.)
To all you women out there, do you think men with children are sexy? (And no, this question does not allude to "being the other woman".)
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Men that are great fathers to their children are sexy.
yes !
Hm. Maybe just me but I don't find them sexy.
I wouldn't say 'sexy,' but I always smile when I see a man walking around with a little child. In the past it seemed like men were just supposed to go to work and the women would be taking their children out, so it's endearing to see a man out and about with the kids.
@jeezshoua@xanga - Same.
its cool to see a guy being lovable to a kid. But I dont want to date one with em. right when I see they have their own child the option goes from my mind.
I work at a daycare.... it is definitely hugely attractive to have a kid, if he is good with them. It's adorable when kids clearly adore their dads, and the dads clearly adore their kids...!
To me i wouldnt say its sexii but that its a beautiful thing because that means THAT man is there for his child and doin the right thing.
@pawnshop_heart@xanga - i agree.
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This was probably the number one thing that attracted me to my husband. He had such a fierce love for his son that was so admirable.
I looove it when guys are good with kids! it's really cute (:
Yes, it's incredibly sexy. I think it's because it shows that the man is not afraid to deal with kids as they come with a lot of need for help and assistance.
Seeing a man with kids (even if they are not his own kids) is like kryptonite to me. It's ridiculous how much it makes me sigh!
I dated a man that had kids... two daughters aged 14 and 7. When he told me about his kids, I was shocked and when he told me he was divorced, then it made sense. However since I love kids myself, I was willing to include them into my marriage equation. Needless to say, our relationship didn't work out due to other reasons. But I still thought it was sexy that he was such a great dad to his daughters.
The best kind of man is one who can take care of a child :D
The best kind of man is one who can take care of a child :D
@StarlitGoodbyes@xanga - the best kind of man is one who can take good care of himself :P
YES!!!!!
I love kids.
Haha! And single men with children (especially sons)--that's hot!
I think it shows that they are able to care about people and that they are responsible. :)
No, not sexy. I always liked guys who had a little daughter though. I thought that was attractive, but no, not sexy.
I like men with thier little girls. I think there is nothing more sexy than my husband rocking our baby girl and gently running his fingers through her hair at night time. And the look on her face when she sees her daddy is priceless! It's so amazing to me how babies can melt the strongest man to butter. (most men anyway, there are always exceptions)
only if he was the father of my children. i dated a guy with a kid that i absolutely fell in love with. don't get me wrong, i love the kid a lot, i love her like my own, but i don't feel the same for the father. plus i don't like to deal with baby mama drama.
Like one of the above commenters said, sure, but only if the kid is mine. I wouldn't want to deal with the childs mother, or numerous other factors. That's just me though.
I guess it shows that he has a good sense of responsibility, but aside from that, it's not appealing to me.
Sexy no. Wonderful human beings that always get a second glance from me anyway - YES.
I think it's absolutely adorable. my heart melts every single time I see my guy play with kids. He comes over to my house and he plays with my brothers and I get all googly eyed.
DEF sexy. I recently got to see my boyfriend with his two daughters (we went on a 2 week roadtrip to see them) and I'm only attracted to him more now that we're back.
I'm not sure if I want kids in the future, but seeing a man being a great father to his kids really does make me happy.
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