Monday, 22 June 2009
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Do You Enjoy Kissing?
Am I the only person out there who does not enjoy kissing? I don't know why, I just don't like it. I never really have. I tolerate it. It is very very rare that it is enjoyable, and that was with one guy, who wasn't even my boyfriend where just making out and all was pleasant. With my current boyfriend, the only time I like kissing is when I am "in the mood," and that these days is an extremely rare occurrence. But generally, it is just not something I enjoy. I watch all these movies where the main characters have these big romantic kisses and all, and seem to enjoy it. I envy that so much. I really wish that I enjoyed kissing like that. I do. But I just seem to be lacking whatever it is that lets me enjoy that. It is really frustrating. It frustrates my BF because at this point, he almost never gets kisses. He will give me a kiss on the cheek, and that is all I will allow. I don't like it; I want to enjoy kissing him, but I really just don't enjoy kissing him. It has always been a bit of an issue, but it is much more severe lately. I have absolutely no interest in kissing him. And I should.
I don't really have a reason to dislike it, I just do. I am weird. Or at least I feel that way.
Am I the only girl out there that feels this way? Any guys feel this way? Anyone else long for that romantic kiss, but when the opportunity presents itself, it is nothing like you expected, or you are too darn shy to enjoy it?
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maybe you just arent good at it.
Wow, you sound like my friend. She's said "There's only about 2 guys in my life I've ever enjoyed making out with," and I thought she was completely insane. Guess she's not alone.
yeah either you suck or all the boys (minus one) you've kissed suck.
I was just like you a few years ago; tried kissing people and it was just so not enjoyable. I'd want it to end, and I'd be counting the seconds till it was done. I thought maybe something was wrong with me or maybe I didn't know how to kiss. By the time I got to my first boyfriend, I lost all hope and then he kissed me and it just clicked. I spent a year and a half kissing him and enjoying it then we broke up. I was confident by now I knew how to kiss well and then I met this guy and we kissed and once again, it was horrible...not horrible, but not enjoyable. So I avoided the guy. I figured maybe it's my body's way of telling me he's not a good pick [and he wasn't]. Then I met my current boyfriend and kissing him was even better than my first boyfriend. There were sparks flying, lots of chemistry, it never got boring and it's always enjoyable. I've been with him for almost 2 years, it still kicks ass.
I think it's all about chemistry and it doesn't mean that you don't know how to kiss.
So yeah, good luck :]
im shy=D
hmm. do you only dislike the full-fledged open mouth making-out type kisses, or little pecks on the lips as well? what about on other parts of your body (neck, shoulders, back, tummy?)
While it's possible that most of the people you've kissed are not good kissers, since you don't have any specific complaints I'm thinking that may not be the case. But I do find it interesting that there was one guy you did enjoy kissing. What was different about him?
The only guy I ever disliked kissing was both a bad kisser, and (as it turned out later) a lying cheating bastard. Not that I'm implying a correlation between the two. BUT: How many people have you kissed? If it has only been a few, maybe you've just gotten unlucky.
Some people just suck at kissing/making out.
i think its kind of gross... sometimes i feel really dirty after i make out with someone. dirty as in i feel like i have all of their chewed food in my mouth.
I'm shy ...
@AnchorsAwayx@xanga - Oh gross!
I understand.. i ahted kissing except with 2 guys... with my man it was ehh... but now i can't stop kissing him after 2 years.. he's still not the best i've had though... i hope he doesnt read this
The only person I ever enjoyed kissing was my ex-girlfriend. No one has ever lived up to her abilities, and it's made me hate kissing now. ("Make-out" kissing, that is. I still enjoy a sweet peck here and there.)
And it's the absolute worst when someone only French kisses.
Yeah, I probably do suck at kissing, although I have never had a guy complain. I have kissed 7 people in my life. The only kisses that I do like are a kiss on the head...I hate other parts of my body being kissed.
The one guy I enjoyed kissing is the one guy I can't have...complicated situation. And there is amazing chemistry with him that I have never felt before. It is odd. But it just can't exist...too great an age difference and some other complicated factors.
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I do enjoy it. It has to be with the right guy, of course. Some people are just no good at kissing :/
Yes, I like kissing, if the mood is right and the girl is the Miss-Right-For-The-Moment
i enjoy kissing! maybe the g uys u kissed were bad kissers! idk..
A friend of mine doesn't enjoy it, either. I do. But this one guy hardly likes to...he just goes straight for the action..ugh
Does that include tongueing?
i think it honestly depends on the guy. you have different kissing chemistry with different guys. i personally really enjoy it, but there has been a guy or two where i'd rather not either, because i didn't like it. but there have been those that make me feel the magic, haha. it depends on their style of kissing, and how it mixes with yours. i hope you find someone else after the guy your currently with that makes you enjoy kissing, because i think it's important. you're really missing out if it's not enjoyable for you or something you want to do more often.
trying kissing girls and see how that works out?
I generally enjoy kissing and I've only really loved kissing once, so I'd do it every two seconds, for no reason at all. Just because it feels nice :)
@in_a_landscape@xanga - LMAO!
Haha I LOVE kissing. If I could just make out for hours I totally would.
that`s gonna lead to cheating :|
keep yourself 'in the mood' and kiss a few more boys!
For a while, I hated kissing. I saw it as kind of pointless, although, okay, it got your feelings across. Now, I'm more experienced and it's a lot more fun. ;)