Friday, 19 June 2009
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How Do You Know When A Relationship Is Over?
I'm currently in a two year relationship and I feel, sometimes, that I should end it. This is all for various reasons, but what I'm wondering is how you know when a relationship is over...because I don't know if mine is.
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- From: snootycow@xanga
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If you have to ask, it's over.
you will know when it is over
when you start second guessing..
and then things change..
and you post it on Xanga.
When either you or the other person don't like each other in a relationship kind of way anymore. If you don't see yourself with that person. When you realize that you are starting to get interested in other people.
now.
^ What they said. Srsly.
i guess when you start to question it
what makes you think that yours is over? maybe that'll help the rest of us assess things. because by the little amount of info you've provided, it doesn't seem like you're trying to hang on.
well damn, everybody is on point here.
@BaLob@xanga - For once, we all agree! WTF.
When you don't miss the person when you're away from them.
When you start doubting (as you are now), you can either find some way to renew your relationship or let it die out on its own.
Sometimes, you just know when it's over. :\
When you don't look forward to seeing him anymore.
when you dont care for them anymore
when you dont love them anymore
For me, it's when you don't miss them anymore when you're far away. I am having this problem too, but I know I am seeing the pain of missing him disappearing as a bad thing (I always think negatively), when really I know it's that I'm getting comfy with him. And that's to me what being in love is. You make that decision to be with them. Might not feel it every day, but when you feel it you know for sure this guy is the one.
you just know when the fire isn't burning anymore...i think you know now, you're just trying justify your thoughts now.
gee..... I don't know myself either.
How about you ask him, or check your facebook status?
If you have any feelings like it, then it definitely shows you that things aren't right.
Do you have a feeling that you don't like that person as much as you did when you first met, but don't feel like dumping him to feel bad OR you think that going back to the dating scene will be harder, so you're staying with what you have to avoid the gamble?
If any of the above applies to you, then you need to simply break up. Talk to him about your feelings or lack thereof. make sure to point out that you've had a good relationship, but that you think it has ran its course. Doing the cliche' "Its not you its me" would actually be honest in this type of situation, but due to it being a cliche' I only halfheartedly advise it.
I need this answer as well... : (
Sometimes Love turns around. If its ending you can feel it. The end of lust is not the end of love. If its not see what can make it thrive
what the first five people said. :D