Stereotypically, when it comes to sexual attraction, hetero men fall into three categories: breast men, leg men, and ass men.
I myself would probably be in the first category. Butts, while nice, don't do much for me except as a convenient something-to-hold-on-to. And while I do love my wife's legs, particularly the silky feel of them as they glide along my skin...my attention is more quickly gotten by her breasts. My favorite positions are those in which they are most accessible. My wife even jokes that they are the quickest way to get me out of a bad mood or funk.
It's funny, though, that there are other, non-stereotypical body parts that can make me sit up straighter. I'm not talking fetishes here, or anything that obsessive, but...
--I love that little indent in the small of a woman's back. I love to let my hands find that spot on my wife and then pull her towards me.
--Collarbones are awesome. My wife loves to be kissed there, and I love to kiss her there. Who would have thought that a collarbone, of all things, would be a turn-on?
--I once knew a girl who had an incredibly sexy upper back and shoulders. I don't know that I can quite describe what it was about them that was attractive; they were lithe and lean but somehow graceful.
--Hips are awesome. I love that ridgeline where the waist connects to the pelvis.
Am I an oddity here, or do you have something similar?
Men, have you found yourself attracted by an unlikely part of a woman's anatomy? Are any your favorites?
Women, stereotypically I hear you talk about a guy's chest, a guy's shoulders, a guy's butt, and of course the obvious one. What's non-stereotypical for you? What are some unusual body parts that you've found to be your favorites?
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I like eyelashes... :3
The dip in the collarbone, definitely. There's this guy at work that I like - hottest thing ever, unfortunately going out with another girl there. Anyway, me, him and a few other friends from our training group went out for a drink. The collar of his jumper was up and every so often, I'd look over at him and just see that dip underneath the folds of his jumper, all tanned and gorgeous. It was all I could do not to jump on him xD
oddly; veins
@Kyren_SkyRyder@xanga - Yeah, dang!
@Kaythan@xanga - I like arms too. Muscular, but not too much.
:P
I once met a man who was seriously attracted to women's jaw lines... Seriously.
Me? I love men with long hair. Well, not any kind of long hair, but long hair like Ashton Kutcher or the boys in Jonas Brothers. Mmm. Well, that's not really a "body part", but whatever.
facial structure, lol
arms definitely, especially forearms
lower back on a guy
@Kaythan@xanga - Agreed. Arms are the best. I love biceps.
I had a Korean girlfriend from the "country"....she had tremendous muscle tone in here shoulders, thighs, and calves....I loved all of her, but these parts were just outstanding! However, what was really the biggest turn-on for me was her extreme confidence, especially when she was naked: She walked around without shyness, like she was in full control....if the phone rang, she just walked over answered it and talked.....Something very Asian about her, you know, the quietness but the strength underneath it, like you know its there, she knows its there, but it doesn't have to be advertised, its just there! I just really loved the power she exuded, physically and mentally!
Regards,
Reldas
I find myself loving on my man's belly, chest, shoulders, his hipbones, and the small of his back. In my opinion, they're just the naturally alluring places, but I couldn't say why.
Personally I find the collarbone, the small of the back, and the hips to be incredibly sexy body parts. also I recognize the merrits of ears, they in themselves are not super sexy to look at but they're really very sensitive...
eyes. I love to get lost in his eyes. the make me melt every time! and the mouth area. whether he's smiling or frowning or thinking. I love how he uses his mouth. his kisses aren't that bad either. hehe
Neck, stomach, cheeks, legs =)
His soft and nice manicured hands with right size definitely turn me on with that hands bringing me tender touches on the 'spot' of my body. Wet kiss with dry lips is also wonderful.
It's really conditional for me. Different guys have different areas that are appealing. With my husband, I really liked his hands and his thighs. His hands made me feel safe and his thighs were so hard and powerful.