Stereotypically, when it comes to sexual attraction, hetero men fall into three categories: breast men, leg men, and ass men.
I myself would probably be in the first category. Butts, while nice, don't do much for me except as a convenient something-to-hold-on-to. And while I do love my wife's legs, particularly the silky feel of them as they glide along my skin...my attention is more quickly gotten by her breasts. My favorite positions are those in which they are most accessible. My wife even jokes that they are the quickest way to get me out of a bad mood or funk.
It's funny, though, that there are other, non-stereotypical body parts that can make me sit up straighter. I'm not talking fetishes here, or anything that obsessive, but...
--I love that little indent in the small of a woman's back. I love to let my hands find that spot on my wife and then pull her towards me.
--Collarbones are awesome. My wife loves to be kissed there, and I love to kiss her there. Who would have thought that a collarbone, of all things, would be a turn-on?
--I once knew a girl who had an incredibly sexy upper back and shoulders. I don't know that I can quite describe what it was about them that was attractive; they were lithe and lean but somehow graceful.
--Hips are awesome. I love that ridgeline where the waist connects to the pelvis.
Am I an oddity here, or do you have something similar?
Men, have you found yourself attracted by an unlikely part of a woman's anatomy? Are any your favorites?
Women, stereotypically I hear you talk about a guy's chest, a guy's shoulders, a guy's butt, and of course the obvious one. What's non-stereotypical for you? What are some unusual body parts that you've found to be your favorites?
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I totally agree about collarbones. There's something about them that's just so... I can't even describe it, but the SO's collarbone is to die for. (:
For me, it depends on the person.
I love his personality...
I mean wait. body.... uhm I think I like his arms, hands, face... :) hair! Gaah my man is so hot :3
those are all great places!
and collarbones are not an oddity- that's one of my favorite places to be kissed!
my favorite places?
jawline.
that spot between the ear lobe and the jaw.
palm of the hand.
behind the ear.
i also appreciate chest hair. shrug.
but not back hair ;D lol
@mindyeat@xanga - I notice hands first, too. I think they are a very underrated part of the male anatomy.
Girl's like chests? ... what about manboobs- huge turnoff?
Humm Yeah the V on his abs that leads down ........
His big shoulders.... when I'm laying down and he comes towards me without his shirt....He's a goddess.
His collarbone.... so sexy. When we watch a movie and I'm hugging him from behind...I touch his collarbone while he leans to one side...making the collarbone appears even sexier. You can see the texture of his neck and it's just oh so yummy. (;
His eyebrows.... He has thich SEXY eyebrows and he doesnt even wax or do anything with them! I would trace my fingers over his eye brows and everytime I do .... he closes his eyes and I stare at his lovely long eye lashes.
Love Love Love his big ARMS. When he hugs me.... he really do TAKE ME AWAY.
I love his butt. I grabb it when I hug him ahah What can I say. I'm a butt person.
I love his hands... so big and capable. When i touch the rims of his nails and fingers , it loooks as if he's done a lot .. fixing and changing oil. (Turn on!)
He has skinny legs though..... which isnt too sexy but overall... he just right for me.
=X I said too much!
I like the pulmonary artery and the left ventricle.
@Kyren_SkyRyder@xanga - actually, the OP sent it to both sites and both editors thought it'd be a great discussion topic for readers!
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@FireMapleSong@xanga - hilarious
My boyfriend loves backs, collar bones, butts, and hips.
I myself love hands, calves, necks, and hips.
Haha I saw this on mancouch but with a very different photo...For me, on a guy it'd be pecs more than abs.
His back, his tattoes arm, his neck and collarbone area.
big hands with long fingers... they suggest dexterity~ I like to think of them all over me... ;)
@candyhearts13@xanga - mmm yeah, jawline too. yummy.
I like the curve of the collar bone, that indent where the waist connects to the hip, and ribcages on women. Those 3 just seem so elegent and soft.
The hollow at their throat, broad shoulders/muscular arms, stomach/chest =), and the shape of their lips =) I also find myself starin at men's butts too ahah.
i actually think a lot of women like a man's forearms or hands.
i myself, like really skinny guys and really like the hipbones and torso.
and even though i'm not attracted to women, i think a woman's body is beautiful, especially the collarbones and shoulders.
I have a thing for noses. Like, I've never dated a guy with a boring nose. I like them big, preferrably protruding quite a bit and of a unique shape that is symmetrical. I don't know why.
The other thing is calves--I like biker calves. I didn't even realize that it was a specific origin until I found out that biking produces the kind of legs that I like.
And the only normal thing is a guy's butt. But even then... that might be a bit weird...
In general I like guys who have a large upper torso, like back, chest, arms. Although for my boyfriend I'd say his arms are my favorite thing, so far. That is if we're talking body parts and not other physical qualities like his blue eyes. :)
Why hasn't anyone mentioned backs yet? I thought it was fairly common.
I think guys' backs are sexiest body part ever.
It's honestly the only body part on guys I ever catch myself turning my head just to look at again. Broad, just the right amount of muscle, strong...yummy
I love her smile.
Hands on men can be the sexiest part.
I like nice noses, probably because i don't have a nice nose