Thursday, 18 June 2009
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Are Rich Men Better Lovers?
Not sure if this has been discussed before, but I think this might lead into a good debate. I was watching "The Doctors" and during the previews for today's show, they were promoting that they'd be discussing this. So I just thought maybe we should have our discussion about it.Are rich men actually better lovers? If yes, how so? Please explain. And if not, how are they not? And would you date someone who isn't rich (no I do not mean homeless men)?
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Money can buy you things you want, you crave, you linger for. But that's all to it. Being a better lover or not, totally depends on the person.
not all are...I mean, you could be that lucky woman who does get a good down to earth rich man. But they are rare.
Depends if the man came from a strong family background and had a good relationship with his mother...strong values/morals.
Cause it is often the fact that men like that know they can get whatever they want and cheat because they can.
I don't think all rich men can be caring, sweet, and all that other good stuff.. sure, they'll shower you with materialistic things, but there could be other stuff lacking. But, there are rare ones that are rich AND everything else you'd want in a guy =D
better lovers as in better lovers in bed or better lovers boyfriend/girlfriend relationship wise???. oh there isnt...
if hes rich, what makes you think he'll be faithful to you and only you (relationship and intimacy wise) hmmm that basically sums what i want to say.
i don't think there's a correlation between money and sex-partner quality.
I am poor. Working class at best! But i'll tell you what, I have much wealth in my soul. For those who would value money as a cause of being a great lover, you really must reexamine your principles. Money can buy, but not give.
@jeezshoua@xanga - Yes mam :)
monetary leisure can bring give you time; to travel, location; freedom to go anywhere and goods; gifts, or all the above. are we talking about SEXUAL lovers or RELATIONSHIP lovers?
money can help filling the holes in some aspects of a "hard" relationship; help the girl with payments of things she can't afford, woo her with a luxurious life, take away the worry about things that concerns her and enrich her with things she never think to strive for. it doesn't hurt, right? or does it?? +_+
Yea...I can definitely see how this would lead to a good debate.
i don't think theres any connection between money and good sex.
the sex is either good or it ain't. money don't matterthen again, there are many who'd be most likely to want to do a rich guy purely for the "return on investment" in the form of presents :) but he still could be shit in bedWomen would probably perceive this to be true because rich men are better providers and they give us more of a sense of security than non rich men. Our emotional and physical connection during sex might make it feel that way even if they aren't technically better lovers, it's more of a "total package" type thing. But I wouldn't know this to be true or not because I have only slept with one man and he's definitely not rich. Haha
I don't see how there would be any connection to money and sex, whatsoever. I'm sure rich men would like women to think that they're better lovers though, they'd get more women that way. Considering I don't care how much money a guy has, I guess I'd say yes to the "would you date a guy who isn't rich?" question.
here are more links regarding the topic:
Times Online
NY Daily News
i'm pretty sure rich men paid these scientists to say such things. and for all we know, these studies they (scientists) performed are probably rigged to confirm these rumors.. personally i don't see how this can be true... there is no correlation between orgasms and rich men... i just don't see it.. but obviously, what if it was true..
@jeezshoua@xanga - i agree, money can buy you things, and make one feel happier... and being happy might lead to more orgasms..
@d0llh0use@xanga & @kor_girl@xanga - in terms of more cheri-o's
@sozpa@xanga - that reminds me of that "who wants to marry a millionaire" show; the guy turned out to hit his wife... so yeah...
@Passion_Star@xanga - lol; that's a nice way of putting things... let me guess, you're an accountant?? financial advisor?? wanna help me make more money?
@emilyd_foster@xanga - o really?
Rich guys are something to avoid like the plague if you're looking for a serious relationship. I used to date a guy whose parents owned a construction company. Nice, polite, and helpless. The helpless thing killed it. I need a guy that can take care of himself, that won't freak out around my mom during her bad days (she has bipolar disorder), that sees the value in settling down and doesn't take perfection for granted. BTW, the stereotype about them not knowing how to handle money is dead on. Umm, you're older than me and your mom still is having to cosign crap? I hear cosigner, I get mildly offended. Fun to date, impossible to live with.
money can't buy love forever, it's only going to make you so happy and then it fades away. i don't think rich men are better lovers, they just give tremendously. my first real relationship was with a guy who was really well off, i thought i was the luckiest girl in the whole world only to find out that i was the most loneliest girl in the world. he didn't spend too much time with me. our communication sucked after a while, and whenever he couldn't make it to see me, he would just buy me a really special gift but i didn't want all that, i wanted his attention and his love. from this relationship, i learned that i don't really want to be with someone who was really wealthy, i just want someone who's stable and is going to give me the attention i need.
I don't think money has everything to do with a relationship, but it certainly plays a pretty big part. I wouldn't want to sleep with someone I wasn't in a relationship with, and I would feel more secure knowing he can support himself well. I'm not saying I wouldn't date a poor guy, but sometimes it can put a significant strain on a relationship when the two people have very different incomes...I've seen it happen.
Coming from an affluent background, my dad has always wanted me to marry a rich guy. However, I don't consider money a significant part in the relationship. If both people can provide for themselves, and when they marry if they can continue to do so, I believe it can work out. I have dated guys who had a little extra cash which was nice because I didn't have to pay for some stuff, but I still thought my ex boyfriends who didn't have extra spending money were any less than those who had it.
At least you get to buy what you want. However, being rich doesn't mean he/she is a better lover. He/she may only satisfy your monetary needs
You can't say rich men are good in bed or not. It doesn't apply as a whole.
I slept with a guy who is pretty well off and he was horrible in bed. I have a mental block on that day LOL
rich = lots of women = lots of experience = better in bed
tell that they are the better lovers. It really depends on the guy on how he
makes you feel he really loves you. Rich men usually buy expensive gifts for their
girlfriends but that’s not the way you prove that you really love a girl.
Giving expensive gifts are just like buying your girlfriends love and most of
the girls are not attracted on that kind of a guy. So money can make rich men a
better lover.