Guys watch porn. Guys check out other girls. Guys flirt. Guys cheat. Boys will be boys. It's what they do; get over it. You should be a good girlfriend and make your lover a sandwich.
Well guess what boys, women do all of the above, but they won't always make you a sandwich. Women are sneakier, less vocal about it. But women cheat. Women flirt. Women check out other women AND men. Women watch porn. Get over it.
I'm sure many of you guys don't care. But some of you may have just been thrown from the little boat called security. Security you felt being in a relationship with a seemingly docile woman lacking many urges and vices that men are "plagued" with. Security that your woman is monogamous and has no capacity to fuck someone else. Let alone fall in love with them.
Here's the reality:
1. Women have urges. And many will cheat. Women hide these urges because they seem unwomanly.
2. Women have feelings. They may not always be exclusive for you. If you think that's worse than wanting sex, just remember, women often think the opposite.
3. Women cover their tracks better than men. You may never know.
So, for you men who don't care, more power to you. For those who are worried but are doing all of the above, you deserve what you give. For those who are worried at all, just remember, a relationship is not about being afraid. If you don't like it, leave. Tell your girl what you want out of the relationship, and if she is unwilling to provide it, find someone who does.
Oh almost forgot, if you ask for a threesome, expect your woman to ask you if the third party can be a man.
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This half reminds me, for some reason, of what my grandma (and dad) have always told me: women are evil and men are dumb, and that women are like cats and men are like dogs. Maybe the second applies more :]
Women are sneaky. Veerrry sneeaaakkkky.
I only make my man a sandwich if I can get one too
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excuse me? not all women are like this. you might want to fix that in your blog.
Well I would definitely not look at or flirt with other women if I'm with my gf. About the sandwich, I think unless this woman is your mother, you should make your own sandwich and it's not that hard. I think a woman should only do you a favor if your on your feet busy with something, not if your just sitting on the couch, watching TV with a beer in your hand and munchies.
Well said.
I've come to accept that if my guy is looking at another girl and I've caught him, I'm not going to burst into tears and feel rejected or insecure about it. We have eyes, we see things sometimes, and it can't be ignored. When I see a super hot guy, I might do the same, I haven't done it to any of my bfs yet but it doesn't mean it won't happen and I hope he doesn't burst into tears with the same idea either. But yes... women are sneaky, I do check out women AND men. Thus far, I've realized guys make better sandwiches.
I know women have urges. Shoes. Its better than sex ...some say. ..or cheating.
its true and i have to admit i have done that also. the urges! but we stop ourselves, proves that guys can too!
So what you're saying is...men and women are similar? Amazing observation.
Even more reason to be completely open and honest in each relationship. Knowing what to expect and developing realistic expectations are crucial to a relationship.
I'd never want to have a threesome with another man.
the picture doesn't fit the post, lovelyish. but i like the post. who knew women and men could be equally rakish? what a novel concept. =p
@Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga - LOL very. ;)@ErniesUrn@xanga - ewww shoe shopping is horrid. Make up and porn are way better. ;)
Random post. But how wonderful you've now realised that women and men are the same!
You know...though it kinda puts us in a bad light...I like the overall tone of this post. Men *do* think that they have some kind of get-out-of-jail free card when it comes to things like looking at other women, watching porn, flirting...et cetera. I'm not saying they feel entitled to *cheat* but anything that doesn't cross the line they're like, "Sorry baby, I'm a dude. *BURP*"
(Yeah, a little exaggerated, I know, but I want to get my point across.) Guys don't seem to realize that women also do most if not all of these things and choose not to let them know. Personally, I don't think it's that women are being sneaky. I think it's that they're being considerate. Men have no idea that women might have urges for other people, but if they find out, they get angry. Women try to avoid that, and try to avoid hurting their man's feelings by keeping it hidden.
Keep in mind, I'm speaking about this as a generalization. Some women and some men act this way, not all. There are blatant cheaters and "lookers" who simply don't care how they make their partner feel and will find someone who would deal with it if their partner won't. Those people should all just go away.
Imagine if the world was full of only people who were looking for love, and not willing to cheat. Everyone would be so happy! Um...but I really don't need to get started on *that* idea.
Good post.
@MissPixieGlitter@xanga - You're right. I kinda like a picture like this for this post:
http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/holding-hands-behind-back.jpg
I looked for one of a woman dressed like a man (but obviously a woman) and flirting with women...but that was way too specific for Google Image Search.
Oh, or this one:
http://images.inmagine.com/img/cultura/culs008/culs008285.jpg
This is so fun!
@xjadersx@xanga - Hahaha "sandwich" ;)
well said.
I'm pretty sure I cover up my tracks better than most women ;p anyways already know all this, we're all human after all and crave convenience among other things. Ahhh... how the relevant truth can make or break a relationship.. what we seek as "truth" is only a byproduct of our curiosity, we'll be satisfy as long as we believe it.
LOL. ohyeah.
@ivarahBharavi@xanga - The idea is that whatever men do, women can do the same way. It's just that you rarely hear men talk so much about it. So, if not a lot of women do it, not a lot of men do it.
I agree that women COULD be sneakier than guys could ever be, if that particular woman was like that.
"3. Women cover their tracks better than men. You may never know."
I have to say, that blanket statement is incredibly false. Many women cheat and are fairly obvious about it. *shudders*
sometimes women are WAY worse then men
statistics say that there is a 75% chance that a women will cheat on you
if i was a man i would be single for life
"women cover their tracks better" ...very true *muhaha*