Miss Rhino
Rule #7: If you want to date a friend's brother, it is required that you get said friend's permission.I consulted Urban Dictionary's definition of "
girl code" to find out what the stance was on siblings. This sudden interest in friend/sibling relations is due to the recently-passed graduation season where attractive siblings run amok during what is arguably the wildest weekend of one's college career. Temptation is all around in the form of older siblings funneling beer after beer trying to re-live their glory days as a college student (not to mention the younger ones who are taking this time to warm up for their own upcoming college experience.) And sadly for one of my friends, the girl code was brought to its knees...
She is Annie's roommate and best friend throughout her four years of college. She is 22 and single.
He is Annie's older brother. He is 27 and a college AND law school graduate. He is devastatingly handsome.
The scene of the crime: University of Delaware, graduation weekend
I think you all know where this story is going. Celebration leads to inebriation leads to .... friend/sibling "relations". Two nights in a row. In Annie's apartment. With her in the other room. Only an earshot away. No doubt the founders of the "Girl Code" are rolling over in their graves right now. Having met said brother myself, I cannot blame the girl. In a perfect world, he would be the Brad to my Jen (I still haven't accepted Angelina). And of course my first thought was: Why not me!? But after regaining my composure, I had to ask the question...
Casually sleeping with your friend's brother/sister. All good? ...or no good?
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Comments (36)
i think i'm off limits..
period =]
I'd say that's not cool. I wouldn't want a friend of mine disrespecting one of my brother's like that by casually sleeping with them, even if said brother was okay with it. I wouldn't dig it.
I'd kill the motherfucker who touches my sister. I'm even contemplating it with her fianceé! That's my SISTER! Rrrr...
Wow... I would probably be weirded out if someone and my brother did that.
no good.
no, that's just not cool at all... not at all.
I thought this was going to be about incest. To which the answer would've been "No shit."
Messy.
@Zombies_Ate_My_Neighbors@xanga - Lmao me too.
I guess it could be weird, if you made it so. But in the next room 2 nights in a row, that's weird :$.
@Zombies_Ate_My_Neighbors@xanga - hahaha! misleading title.. oopsies!
most definitely off limits unless the friend is okay with it. No questions asked.
I've seen tight friendships crumble over this.
I'd say off-limits.
i'm in a similar situation... except my friend is a boy. i haven't told my friend about what happened; his brother doesn't feel like he should. siblings should be off-limits--but we were drunk! ughh...
The title of this post bothered me a bit until I read the post.
- John
My brother and I are very close in age so our friend/hookup pools have overlapped more than once. Its not a big deal. Who he sleeps with is none of my business, and my sex life certainly isn't his.
My brothers are grown men I would be happy if they chose to date one of my girlfriends. I wouldn't dream of telling my brothers or my friends who they can or cannot date. I have some pretty great gal pals who I wouldn't mind having as sisters in law....
Generally off limits. Circumstances dictate exceptions though.
No. My siblings are strictly off limits.
i would say no good. i mean if it was a relationship and the best friend agrees, then that's fine. but.... casually sleeping with him? -.-
i dont have siblings but i'm pretty close to my cousins. so i'll answer with them in mind. casually sleeping with them is not okay. i do not want to know about it. i do not want you to do it. if you have fallen for them and are looking for a relationship with any of them, i would like to be consulted first. well not consulted, that sounds like you need my permission. you don't. i just would be like to be TOLD.
=]
As far as I'm concern, my sibblings can do whatever they want, it's their life and I'm not their keeper. I would only have a problem if I think my friend would hurt my sister (i.e., sleep with her and then bail).
No good. No guy can date my sister until he successfully passes all the questions I have for him! ^^
Depends on the person, and personally, I think the relationship between the siblings. That's why MY brother is off-limits.
Noo NOT COOL NOT COOL
I've lost several friends after they hooked up with my brother.