Wednesday, 10 June 2009
I know there's someone out there that can help me with this situation. I have been married for ten years and I can honestly say I'm in love with my husband's cousin. It first started off as casual conversation and then long conversations and before you knew it, I was at the point where I had to talk to him on a daily basis. We have been sneaking around for quite some time now and we are both tired and want to be together. I have always been attracted to him but we were never available at the same time. My husband is very boring and he doesn't quite understand what I want and need.
Yes, I have told him, but unfortunately he is always busy with his hobby. I talk to this person when I have problems and he always has good advice when it comes to my marriage. He and his cousin are not close, but he makes me feel so loved and wanted. The cousin has expressed his love for me as well. It has been two years and we can't let each other go.
I know it's wrong but it's one of those things that I can't turn back on. I think I would have been gone if it weren't a family thing. I don't know what to do. My husband doesn't have a clue and I know everyone would be hurt once it's revealed but am I supposed to remain unhappy just to keep everyone else happy?
We do not have kids together so it should be an easy transaction, right?
ed's note: if you're confused, you're not the only one - all the "he"s and "we"s baffled me, too. OP, if you wanna clarify, go for it! Who loves whom?