Monday, 08 June 2009
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My Stepdad Owes My Crush an Apology...
So here's the thing. Last night a guy that I've had the hots for for about two years now came to my house. He's been over before, he's friends with my stepdad and my mom. I'm 11 years younger than him, but legal. Last time he saw me I was pregnant and still with my daughter's father, who had her last night.So this guy, we'll call him D, and I are going shot for shot, and he's drinking beer between. After fifteen shots and his seven beers (yeah, we went WAY overboard on the drinking and I'm feeling the effects today...) I went up to one of my family's guest rooms because my friend called me. So I was laying on the bed on the phone with the door open. Everyone else was downstairs, so when I heard footsteps I assumed it was my mom or someone coming up to use the bathroom, I was wrong. It was D coming to get me to go downstairs. So, being pretty trashed and feeling ballsy I grabbed him and kissed him. Now, I was still laying on the bed, so when I grabbed him he ended up on top of me. And, of course, that is when my stepdad, the ex-Marine, walks in.
Grabs D and throws him into the wall, literally. I jumped up, got between them, and explained to my stepdad that it was not D's fault and that I kissed him, not vice versa. My mom knew it was coming anyway because 1) I've had the hots for D for a little over two years, and 2) I told her flat-out that he was gonna stay the night (he and I had already talked about it). I mean, honestly, it wouldn't have gotten past kissing because even drinking I know where to draw the line and he wasn't trying to let it go any further either. But, my stepdad didn't know that, so once D recovered from the insane Hulk throw, he went outside, waited about a half hour, and then left.
After sobering up a bit my stepdad came and talked to me, I explained everything, and he was pretty cool about it and agreed that he owes D an apology. I thought things between me and D were pretty much wrecked. lol I mean when you get thrown into a wall for KISSING a chick usually you back off, right? Wrong. lol I woke up to a Myspace message from him saying that he doesn't regret anything that happened and to give him a call.
So here's my question: should I call him?
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Comments (68)
Um, duh? He told you to call him...
No, you should totally dump him and never talk to him ever again ever.
Haha, So you have a child and are legal, what the hell does your step dad think he is doing in the first place? he should have minded his own business if anything he should have shut the door so no one else made the mistake of seeing you guys.
Do you want to call him? Do you really need a bunch of people you don't know on Xanga to tell you if you should call him?
What?! You spent the whole entry saying that you liked him. So ... why wouldn't you call? This doesn't make sense! And your title doesn't either ... because your stepdad already agreed to apologize to your crush.
Who are we to tell you if you should call or not? o_O
Wow, great start. Good luck with that relationship.
I think you should just listen toDare2BDiferentt@xanga... he gives the best advice IMO
CALL HIM!!!!
YES!!!
lol call him!
lol The question at the end seems like it was just thrown there for the sake of this entry not just being a story. A better question to have ended this would have been something like "have your parents ever done or said something crazy to someone you were seeing or dating? How did it turn out?"
No advice needed here. He didn't do anything wrong.
Crazy story though, lol.
What kind of dumb question is this? He told you to call him.
What a stupid question...
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - WORD.
if you like him, call him :)
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - Hahahaha I actually laughed at that one :)
It brightened my boring day. lol.
Call the guy! duh!
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - Very nice :D
Call him!
yeaup, seems like everything is kewl with everyone.haha, why not?
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - This is the best answer I've read. XD
If you like him and he told you to call him, do it. Why ask us? -___-U
The title had nothing to do with the conclusion of this story. You like him you call him. stupid
No, don't call him. He clearly wants you to call him, which really means he never wants to speak to you ever again. Instead, give his number out to telemarketers so that they call him. He will be thankful for the supper-interrupting calls that he will receive.
It's the least you can do.
i would definitely call him. what do you have to lose?
No. Block him and delete his number. Cut off all contact. Send your stepdad after him to kick his ass a little more.
This is really, really a stupid question.
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - I like this idea.
Personally...11 years is a big difference, I honestly don't see it working out...