I Met Him Monday And We Texted All Week

Monday, 08 June 2009

I Met Him Monday And We Texted All Week
So I met this guy Monday and we got along really well and he told my best friend's kinda boyfriend that he thought I was pretty. He got my number and started texting me, saying he is glad we met and that he is glad I am available.

Then Tuesday he texted me again, saying stuff throughout the day, but never to invite me to do anything at night. Then Tuesday night I had a few people over and invited his friend but not him, and he showed up with his friend at my house.

Then Wedneday, I got a text during the day from him too.

Thursday, I decided to text him first and invited him to a party I knew of Friday night and he said that sounded fun.

Then on Friday, my best friend got in a fight with her FWB (which is his best friend), and I told him that she didn't invite his friend and he was just, like, okay. But then he never texted me for directions or anything to the party later.

So I am just wondering what all this means. Is he interested or not, and why don't you think he wanted to go? I mean I know I can't expect much - I have only known him for like five days!

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He may have found another option he wants to pursue. It sounds like he was interested in the beginning, but as time went on, his interest faded.
- 6/8/2009 7:11 PM
- steph (message)
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Oh man, I miss high school. If he doesn't want to because of what happened between his best friend and your best friend then that is pretty immature and you should be happy nothing more happened, if you don't think that is the case then you should call him and find out. There is nothing wrong with women calling men.
- 6/8/2009 7:18 PM
- kyleberg29@xanga (message)
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Maybe he didn't want to go without his friend?
- 6/8/2009 7:20 PM
- RazorBladeParade@xanga (message)
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Bros before hoes. Maybe.
Not saying you're a ho. But, you -are- just a girl he's known less than a week.
Relax, sweetheart. Continue this romantic courtship through texts, and see what happens.
- 6/8/2009 7:32 PM
- Zombies_Ate_My_Neighbors@xanga (message)
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@Zombies_Ate_My_Neighbors@xanga - agreed. couldn't have said it better
- 6/8/2009 7:45 PM
- UnopenedSuitcases@xanga (message)
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its obvious, he didnt want to go because his bestfriend couldnt go.
- 6/8/2009 7:46 PM
- BoStOnIaNMoMmY@xanga (message)
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He is interested in you, i guess. Then, maybe he feels awkward after something happened between your best friend and his best friend. Just enjoy the party. You'll meet more guys there. =p oh and If he wants you, he wants you =)
@RazorBladeParade@xanga - Or his uncle *gulp*
- 6/8/2009 7:49 PM
- silverlocket_88@xanga (message)
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Well that guy is his friend, so he might not go because his friend isn't coming- and it doesn't mean that he isn't interested though. Just keep talking.
- 6/8/2009 7:57 PM
- joycemiles@xanga (message)
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don't text him for a while...text is a curious thing.
For us guys we can engage or not so easily with text...we don't need to actually communicate at all or face someone with uncomfortable issues like whether to attend or not attend parties....it is the perfect invention for guys...like a water faucet.
- 6/8/2009 8:10 PM
- Gentemann@xanga (message)
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this isn't helpful at all, but --- WHAT THE FUCK hahaha
- 6/8/2009 8:17 PM
- atmaster@xanga (message)
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lame. who cares. i hope you had fun and met other boys.
- 6/8/2009 8:40 PM
- getyourownsandwich@xanga (message)
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And, like, omg. Lol.
Seriously. Cut out the txting and just go drive to see each other. Wtf is wrong with in person contact?
- 6/8/2009 8:41 PM
- Dustin_wind@xanga (message)
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@silverlocket_88@xanga - No, my uncle is en route to your location. As we speak.
- 6/8/2009 8:42 PM
- RazorBladeParade@xanga (message)
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@Dustin_wind@xanga - Agreed. I honestly hate texting because it is so immature and indirect.
What is FWB? I never understood slang.
I think he likes you or curious, he thinks you are pretty and wants to know you more. Unless he is a player, then he just wants sex.
- 6/8/2009 9:11 PM
- Epinephrine (message)
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Err the whole entanglement with his friend and your friend is weird, but if you're just talking about you and him, it's possible there's something there. I met the guy I'm currently dating rather randomly and I liked him after 2 days.
- 6/9/2009 12:27 AM
- happyobligations@xanga (message)
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honestly, guys are so confusing. i hate it when they play mind games with me, just fucken tell me if you're interested or not so i can move on if you're not. was that so hard? i hope you get what you want but it's not going to be easy getting there.
- 6/9/2009 12:45 AM
- superGchik@xanga (message)
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oh sweetie, it's too soon to tell.
the fact that you two text all the time is a good sign, but because of that fight between your friend and his makes it a tough call.
be friendly to him the next time you see him, and then don't text him first, even if you have to wait a day or two. try to hang out with a guy friend in the mean time, because when he does finally text you, and you tell him what you were up to, just mention your guy friend, and if he likes you, he'll get jealous ...
- 6/9/2009 2:06 AM
- writingsongsforBlair@xanga (message)
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it doesnt mean anything, ur just texting, just dont so caught up u'll seem desperate..
- 6/9/2009 2:11 AM
- cindy
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@Epinephrine - FWB = Friends With Benefits.
- 6/9/2009 2:20 AM
- justagirl_lostintranslation@xanga (message)
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it doesn't mean anything. just keep talking to him. seriously, guys are so much more chill with tiffs and drama; he probably just got so into the party/his friends/drinking that he forgot. honestly, guys don't read into anything! girls, on the other hand, read into EVERYTHING. don't make it a big deal. you both seem interested enough so just keep up the texting lol.
- 6/9/2009 4:23 AM
- cRyStaL_rAiNe@xanga (message)
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I think you are reading into this a bit too much. But because it has only been a week, don't get too caught up. Play safe and keep your distance.
- 6/9/2009 5:02 AM
- a_single_raindrop@xanga (message)
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Wow, I am totally amazed at the responses here. It sounds to me like the guy is a bit nervous/shy and just doesn't know what to do or say. First, he didn't ask you for your number directly. Second, he sent you text messages instead of calling. Third, YOU had to invite HIM to something. He's obviously a shy guy, it's not that he isn't interested. As far as the fight/party thing his "Okay" probably meant "Okay, I don't care, I was going because you invited me, not because my friend I hang out with all the time will be there." Not to be confused with "Okay, I hate you now and am not going to talk to you because our friends got in a fight,"which, btw, would be really retarded. My advice (if you like him) is to let him keep texting you and make sure you encourage him. The ;) smiley always means good stuff.
- 6/9/2009 7:24 AM
- DucatiPunk@xanga (message)
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@a_single_raindrop@xanga - Mmhmm.
- 6/9/2009 9:01 AM
- SIRInity@xanga (message)
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If he wanted to see you again he'd make an effort to do so.
- 6/9/2009 9:13 AM
- lastlyfirst@xanga (message)
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don't give up so easy! he was definitely into you in the beginning and probably still is.. take the reigns girl!
- 6/9/2009 10:54 AM
- missrhino (message)
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