Thursday, 04 June 2009
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I Need Help Dealing with My Annoying Ex
I have the most annoying, thick-skinned and obnoxious ex in the world. In his twisted world, I'm still in love with him and I would do anything to get back together. He is telling everyone that we still talk and that we're friends (I wouldn't talk to him even if he threatened to burn my Louis Vuitton wallet). The nerve of some people! He (like so many other ex-boyfriends in the world) needs a major wake-up call and to get over the fact that I dumped his sorry behind and get on with your life. It's all really cliché when he assumes I would come running back to him after he sends me roses and letters on how much he misses me (sticks out tongue and gags).
Two days ago, he told my current crush that I still fancied him and was talking to him in private (I seriously think he bought the book "The Dummies Guide to Annoying The Hell Out of Your Ex"). This is really pissing me off, majorly. I know I'm not the only one with an ex worth ranting about, but mine is unbearable.
Enough said. I need advice for the annoying ex.
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Punch him in the nose.
Punch him in the balls.
Ugh. This is why I created the "Never, ever talk to, or have any relationship, with an ex." Only yours is so bad he acts like this anyway!!! I would just ignore it until it went away. I wouldn't confront him or talk to him about any gift he sent me or anything. That would just egg him on because he's getting a reaction. I would also try to date someone else ASAP for everyone's sake. lol
Punch him in the balls.
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - Didn't we all agree that was sexual assault once?...
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - That's freaky. And not fair that you posted that one minute before me.
@cd867@xanga - Well, if he's an ex, and a douchey one at that...
@miis_cheung@xanga - I win! It's okay, leave it, it's funny. Maybe everyone will say that.
restraining order.
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - @miis_cheung@xanga - I agree with both.
In my own opinion, restraining order! Ugh. This guy sounds like a creeper. Seriously though, be open about the fact that you honestly disdain him, and then move on. Don't freak out if someone says something about you two still being a "thing". Just calmly deny it and tell them that he's having issues with letting go.
If you don't make a big deal out of it, I think people would be more likely to believe you and be on your side.
Yeah, restraining order. He sounds Kah-ray-zee! Or, punch him in the balls.
A restraining order might be, well, in order. =\
I'd be like, "I'm only going to tell you this once...GET THE EFF OUT OF MY LIFE!"
Ahw. My ex is just as annoying. He goes around telling everyone about the guy I like.. and calling me a bitch, then tries to act like my BESTFRIEND. Like GROW UP KID.
Just ignore him. Don't react whatsoever. Don't post your status on facebook or myspace saying that he is annoying or that you are in a bad mood when he has done something stupid. Don't write about it. Eventually he will see that you really don't care.
Or...you could find him a new girlfriend?
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - It seems that "punch him in the balls" wins!
lol. It's better than a restraining order, which doesn't work because nobody is going around making sure he stays away and if she doesn't go through the process then the best thing really is to just punch him in the balls (not sexual assault if she tells him off and he doesn't leave! Then it's self-defense!)
definately ignoring him is the way to go. because reacting will just further fuel his delusions that he has the ability to maintain an effect on your life. although i would keep evidence (emails, voice mails, gifts, letters, etc) in case you DO have to file a restraining order. proof helps.
psycho exes are one of life's annoyances. keep an eye on his behavior to see if it becomes posessive or dangerous, but other than that don't give him any impression that he's even within your realm of notice.
:)
there's not much you can do, just completely ignore him because getting a restraining order won't help and punching him in the balls might make him take it the wrong way, just try to stay away as far as possible.
mine told me to get out of her life. so i did. but im still getting triple+ footprints now from her. pretty sure getting out of a persons life goes two ways? your not the only one. just RUN.
restraining order. And maybe one last chance at trying to tell him that you don't love him anymore.
Definitely get a restraining order. That's not just annoying, that's stalking.
@follow_home@xanga - Sorry kiddo, ignoring this type won't work. His sick mind CAN and WILL persist NO MATTER WHAT!!! He's gonna keep at it and try each and every other method possible to get back with her or at least isolate the possibilities.
#1: Talk with your new crush about the current situation. Get him back on your side and explain EVERYTHING. Odds are, you're gonna have to admit your feelings to him in the process, but you need allies in this. Best to get it out with him anyway unless your crush deems you off limits with your "Boyfriend".
#2: Get a restraining order against him. While you're at it, sever any and all ties with him via phone, facebook, myspace, EVERYTHING AND ANY WHICH WAY POSSIBLE TO GET RID OF HIM, DO SO!!!! Stop reading all the letters and shit. Throw everything out.
#3: Hurt his feelings and do so in any way. If you have to be a total bitch to him, do it. If you have to be a bitch in front of people, do it. Do whatever it takes to get some message through his thick fucking head.
#4: Contrary to popular belief, a punch in the balls won't solve anything.
Hope you the best of luck with your stalker and hope like hell you got unlimited texting, since I bet he's flooding your phone with empty apologies and shit like that.
This isn't restraining order material. Restraining orders are a hassle and only add to whatever exes are already doing. It would be necessary if he was attempting every day, multiple times to contact you, posting stuff about you online, trying to get you alone at your car, or heaven forbid coming to your house unannounced. If he does not pose an immediate threat you won't be granted one anyways. They tend to antagonize the ex anyways.
I would honestly just ignore it. Sounds like he is just too immature to deal with change. If your crush is into you, he'll get the real story from you. If he's going to listen to this idiot, you're probably better off without this guy either since he can't get a story straight. Let time ease him away, and in the meantime look like the cool, mature one by not letting it get under your skin. When someone asks you, just laugh it off and say that's waay over.
I hate my EX. period. He PMS-es like a bitch.
XOX,
lipstick_mafia <3
restraining order! nah.... just go on with your life. and if your current crush ask you about it, tell him, my ex is a fuckin psycho! if that dont work.... check for the next advice!
Tell people you broke up because his pee-pee was too small.
@abcxunt@xanga - I agree threaten him with a restraining order!