When she answers "I'm fine" after you ask if she's okay, she really wants you to embrace her and kiss her forehead and tell her everything is going to be okay and when she's ready to talk, you'll be there to listen.
When you overhear her crying, she really wants you to come to her and hold her silently while she sobs into your chest.
When she's mad at you and she walks away, she really wants you to follow her just to make sure she's alright and to let her know you do care.
When you're hurting, she wants you to come to her and tell her what it is that hurt you and what she can do, if anything, to help.
When she's watching television with you and her favorite show comes on, she wants you to ask her if she wants you to watch it with her.
When she's watching television with you and her favorite show comes on, she really doesn't mind if you Tivo it because she'll watch your show with you if you like.
When she says "I would like you to come with me, but you don't have to," she really wants you to come, but she wants it to be because you want to, not because she asked.
When she comes to you crying and says she is scared, she wants you to protect her from whatever it is that is scaring her.
When she looks at you with bedroom eyes, she wants you to take her and do with you whatever you like.
But most of all, when she tells you she loves you, she wants you to believe it and know it because deep inside, all she really wants...
... is you.
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True :]
I was so expecting this to be another cliche post that I've read and written before, but the ending made me smile.
This is very myspace, and I don't really think it's very suitable for datingish. I mean, really, didn't we just have a post about how different people are, well, different?
If I say I'm fine, maybe I really am fine? I would prefer it if he kissed away my tears instead? When I'm mad and I walk away, maybe I need space?
I did not expect to see something like this on datingish, I am a smidge disappointed. :(
aw this is cute
Ya know ... I was expecting just another generalization post. But this - was true ... and great!
so true!
i wish i was with the one i loved so i could show her this :( cause it's all true.
so true. we girls are confusing as hell.
I like this post, and I agree. =]
so true :)
i like this
I thought this was going to be just another attempt at "what girls really mean when..." but I have to hand it to you, this is a good list.
100% true for me.
I never really felt relieved at all whenever my ex would hold me and tell me "everything's going to be okay." Maybe because I'm just realistic and I know he can't control anything in my life really besides himself?
you big softy! awww...
very true (:
wow thats actually pretty accurate. they should post this on mancouch as a lesson for guys lol
Amazing and true.
If the 'cliche' list was so true, how come most men still won't do it? :(
Have I not found the one who I love just because I want to be with him?
aww *tear*
God, i miss my ex.
Aww, that's so sweet... I thought this was going to be a post about something different. I was wrong, but I like it!
My favorite one is the first one.
so truuuuuue!
Cute, but it doesn't belong here. Way too generalized, I can think of several counterexamples from recent memory.
Aww.Â
Now, how does the LDR fit into the scheme of things? B/C I'm still (T_T) when it comes to all the anger and "I'm fines".
I like this :)
Awww, such a cute post.
I showed this to my boyfriend, hopefully he gets the hint ;)
haha
Awww, such a cute post.
I showed this to my boyfriend, hopefully he gets the hint ;)
haha