Saturday, 30 May 2009
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If I Could Only Tell Her I Love Her...
I'm in love and can't find a way to tell her or express to her what I truly feel inside me; the feelings I get inside me are the most weird but beautiful ones I've ever gotten. Every time she stands or sits next to me I can't help but to stare at her pretty face when she is not looking and wish I could grab her hand and tell her that I'll never stop loving her like I once said. Not knowing what to do drives me crazy because I really want to be with her; I want to be more than just a friend, and this time, make it last forever if is possible. I'm afraid that someone may come along and win her heart or be a better man then me and tell her what he feels for her. She was my first love...but we didn't start right the first time and things went wrong. But now we can try for a second time and start right this time, if only she could give me a second chance...if only she could give love a second chance. As for now the only thing I have left to do is keep dreaming of that day to come or to overcome my fear and tell her that I love her and always have.
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- From: Fluffy_Costello@xanga
- Name: Fluffy
- About Me: Hello Every One, My name is Jorge, but each of my friends have different names for me. My favorite nick name is Fluffy. I'm very friendly, kind, honest, loyal, funny, romantic, and sweet. I am also a very respectful guy. I don't judge others, but I don't mind others judging me. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Even though mines may be a bit boring, I do love life. Things might not be so good right now but I know that eventually things will get better. Don't get me wrong however, because I do not believe in fairy tales and happy endings. There are times when I sound very mean and/or rude, but please don't get me wrong. Sometimes when I try to say things they come out wrong, and people mistake my honesty for rudeness. No one in this world is perfect. Me included. With that being said I think that people shouldn't waste their time trying to be something they are not. As I always like to say, I rather be hated for being me than be loved for being something I'm not. Sincerely You
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You know what's really gonna suck? She's available right now, so you have no excuse not to make a move. Wait a week, a month, whatever. She'll have a boyfriend. You'll wish you had done it then. Go ahead, keep waiting, it won't get you anywhere. The only way to get what you want is to try.
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - I agree. MAKE YOUR MOVE OR REGRET IT
yea, concur.
make a moveor regret itYou've gone out with her before, the door may be open now.
Well, Fluffy, either you tell her how you feel and open a door, or you keep it to yourself and keep all of the doors closed, and they'll become locked when some other guy comes into the picture.
You write about her with such passion. Why don't you just tell her with the same amount of passion? Or if you're scared, you can always e-mail her or tell her over the phone. Either way, she'll probably be flattered.
Embrace the moment before the chance is over.
Make your move. If she says no, then she says no. Not every person you like is going to want to go out with you, but you need the practice of asking so you can get better with time (and build confidence).
Who knows, she might like you too! Ask her if she wants to catch lunch next weekend because you heard about a cool restaurant *wink wink*
And the countdown to her getting a new boyfriend starts...now! Just tell her. The worst that could happen is she'll say no- but at least you won't have to sit there wondering what would have happened had you said something.Â
lmao. JUST DO IT. If you dont... you're going to end up alone with 1000 cats wishing you did do it.
you don't want to be waiting for two years to tell her....and continuing right?
if you do, welcome to the club.
I have trouble expressing how I feel as well.
Just tell her!
I feel the same way as you...except that I am a girl and I like him instead. Good luck! I hope you will be successful pursuing her and who knows she likes you too right
@Dare2BDiferentt@xanga - i agree. she's available now, so just try. try with all your might, or else, you'll regret it.
@babyblue5201314@xanga - I just hope he doesn't write another post soon saying "I'm too late..."
my husband and i's first start didn't work out, either. we went our own seperate ways for two years before we got back together again and (obviously, haha) got married.
we're here today because he took the chance after we more or less hadn't spoken for two years to ask if i wanted to take a walk and talk about some things. our restart wasn't easy- we each had some new baggage that had to be sorted out, and planning forever is never without a hitch or two. but i'm SO glad he asked (and that i said yes!).
moral of the story: ask her. because if he hadn't and we had continued on our seperate ways, i guarantee you we'd both be wondering "what if?". no is still an answer, right? and if that's her response, then at least you know.
good luck.
:)
Tell her. You're in love with her, take the risk and might get what you want! Don't keep your mouth shut just wondering "what if". Go for it :)
do it do it do it...
but don't come on toooo strong it might scare her off.
OMG.... man i feel the exact same way...=(
its really sucks to not know what to do. whether or not to just tell her everything. she's just so near yet so far.ÂYou aren't going to find out what could be if you sit here wondering, "What if...?" You can wait and what not, but the shitty part of this is she could be single right now and months from now be in a relationship and possibly a few years from then be married to a guy who isn't you and then what are you going to do? You're going to kick yourself in the behind and wish you'd tried a whole lot sooner. What are you afraid of? Are you afraid she's going to bite your head off? The worst she can say is no, and then at the very least you know where you two stand and you tried. I think that's a whole lot better than wondering for the rest of your life, "What if...?"
just tell her you love her even if it kills you if you think you're going to lose her. what do you have to lose?
Tell her ! Sing it, write it out in the sky, do the chicken dance ! It doesn't matter how you do it, just tell her how you feel. Don't keep those feelings bottled in. You'll regret it in the long run.
How sweet. Why can't you tell her? There's nothing holding you back but yourself, as far as we know. I'm sure it'd be romantic if you told her the way you felt with the same fervor and passion you used to write this post. Good luck!
I totally get what you mean with not knowing what to do and what move to make. Â I'm in a very similar situation but I don't think in the same kind of second try way that you're talking about. Â Seriously, I understand how hard it is and I do feel the same way every single day. Â Every time she touches me, as slight as it may be and I want every single moment to last. Â I'm always looking at her and Its a really hard position to be in and watch her move on with her life. Â I'm also afraid to tell her because I'm afraid to lose her as a friend. Â I'm at a crucial moment in my life and I need her to be there and I can't risk our friendship becoming awkward or hindered. Â Good luck bro and it seems that you might be in a better position because from what you sound like you're saying, it seems that you guys had something before. Â Rescuing might be a bit easier than just starting. Â Even though you don't know me, let me know what happens please and best of luck again.
@AllthatIsee@xanga - i totally agree with u. no matter how much an urge rises to want to just let everything i feel for her jus pop out, some thing holds me back. what if she doesnt feel the same way? she would prob start avoiding me so as to not generate any misunderstandings. wouldn't i just have lost a fren which i hold so dearly?
"Sometimes when I try to say things they come out wrong, and people mistake my honesty for rudeness"
Channel that honesty to your advantage!
Aw this is so sweet. I hope you both get a happy ending together. Like the others, I also think you should tell her. Good luck. (: