The last 2 failed attempts at getting a GF I had were from very similar girls: both were churchgoers and made good grades; they didn't curse, smoke, drink, party, fornicate, gamble, make dirty jokes, or anything that would make you think that they were deviants in any fashion.
The reason why I liked these girls is because I envisioned a relationship in which I would be with them for a long time, they would take it slow (because they didn't want to have sex until marriage) and they were nice, wholesome females that I could take to Mom, and I wouldn't disgrace my ancestors by going with girls who didn't go to church.
(This is unlike my past 2 relationships, which were pretty fast-paced.) But after these two failures, I have to say that good girls suck, and I want a dirty woman.
Dirty women are easy, and if they don't want to go out with me, they won't cut me a lame excuse like "God has a plan for me and I want my heart to be hidden in Christ so a man has to seek him to find me." I'd much rather prefer a "No, you suck".
Dirty women aren't afraid to
ask for what they want, and they make it obvious that if they can't get it from you, then they are going somewhere else to get it. They are vocal about sex; they have vices.
Good girls suck because of their lack of...fun. You constantly have to worry about walking on eggshells about what you say. It's easy not to use profanity, but what about topics that are hotly debated over? What if you don't care about them? You can't talk about video games with good girls, because, well, they're girls. They don't understand and they were probably taught that video games are evil. (resists making a sarcastic joke)
You have to plan out dates for good girls, where to go, make sure it is daylight by the time it starts (and ends), whereas a dirty girl has no curfew; she is yours for the night, or at least as long as you can stand her, or however fast she can get whatever she wants from you. She doesn't care about overly fancy stuff. She doesn't care if you say "fuck" because she uses strings of expletives in sentences at times.
There's more things I could talk about, but that's really it. I need a dirty girl to fix my dating problem, because you can't enjoy the good without the bad. I can't help but feel that I'm dragging myself too low, but because I'm not good enough for good girls, and I'm too good for bad girls, where are the ones in between?
Most certainly not on Xanga - they're all good girls.
Perhaps that last statement was a bit rough, but I've seen 4 posts from women lately talking about how good they are.
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Good girls don't suck, since they'll actually clean your kitchen and make your food. Bad girls are just like, "let's go to McDonald's!"
Dirty girls have the clap. Good girls have Jesus. The best sex I ever got was from a churchgoing "good girl"
Say what you mean and mean what you say. I like it.
As a so called "good" guy, I'll say this. Just like there is a difference between good guys that want to do what's right and have self-control, and sticks in the mud, the difference works for women as well.
I've met plenty of "good" girls that could take had a sense of humor, as well as girls that I couldn't unleash my sarcasm around.
Believe me, there are good women that aren't boring.
I disagree with that
I am a kind of a good girl but i like to have fun and stuff
hah...way to see it all in black and white. There are quite a few of us gray area girls out there you know.
@SupperMick@xanga - usually the "goody-goody" girls are the under cover freaks.
hey if you need a "dirty girl" to spice things up, go for it. life is about variety. i don't think good girls suck.. they just live a particular life style that doesn't flow with you.
hells yeah ^-^
Hey! You're putting Good Girls in a too general category. The churchgoer, overly innocent good girl is just one type. And then you have dirty women. I'm not a dirty woman or a bad girl but at the same time I'm not a no cursing, watch what you say category good girl.
I would say I'm a good girl because of my strong sense of morality, my beliefs in God and the fact that I like to do right unto others but at the same time I don't mind cursing someone out or not giving a fuck about someone's opinion. I can be pretty straightforward and...guyish...for lack of better word.
Just leave the good girls to me. I'll take them if you don't want them.
Haha I'm one in between, although perhaps it's more suitable to say good girl going bad.
Well, if you're just going to limit yourself to two types of women (out of all the many types) - you're biting yourself in the ass there. There are way more types than just "good" and "dirty" out there.
Then get a dirty girl and stop complaining.
good girls like the ones you were with suck.
we're not all like that.
@mycontinuity@xanga - This is the best comment on this post, so far. Really.
um just because I go to church, I don't swear and I have a stupid curfew... doesn't mean anything. And I love video games!!!! And I know there are many "good" girls that don't got to church as well. Do you have to swear/curse/not have curfew to have fun, is that what you're saying? haha. cause that's WRONG
But just by reading your post.. it really just sounds like you're just giving up on the "good" girls just because they won't go out with you. If you think you're not good enough for these "good" girls, you're not going to have them. Your mind is set on that. If you think you are good enough for "good" girls, then I'm sure you will have the right girl come along. Just because you failed with 2 relationships doesn't mean you fail at all of them
As a so-called "good girl", I'd like to disagree (but calmly, coolly and respectfully, as a "good girl" would ;)).
I go to church, am a Christian, don't cuss, smoke, do drugs, am a virgin, don't drink, and don't party. I've been known to gamble when I know I've got the winning odds, and while I don't tell dirty jokes, I've been known to tell a few off-color ones.
But. I like video games. I love sarcasm; guns, cars and hunting, joking, teasing.
Just because I've got character, morals, and strong beliefs doesn't mean I'm no fun.
Perhaps you simply don't want to be challenged to be a better man.
i only evr sinnd with gud grrlz they wer SO sexual gawd thatz wenni decydid to go over to men
you're not dating good girls, you're dating BORING girls who are uncomfortable with their christianity.
Haha!
I am the cussing, pierced, hair-dyed, violent-video-game-playing, (soon to be tattooed) exception to the rule!
Because I am Christian. And it rocks my life.
Because yeah, I mess up like everyone else, but I have a bigger purpose, and I'm not going to act like I'm perfect and try to lie to the world like other Christians. I am who and what God made me, and by no means am I perfect or what He ultimately wants me to be, but I'm working on it a little at a time.
If I happen to be real in the process, so be it.
I stand apart by my passion, my intuition, my desire for justice, and (on a shallower level) my virginity. I am waiting til marriage for sex, but by no means am I squirmish when it comes to physicalities. I like to make out as much as anyone else!!
So there, I prove that the "in-betweens" exist. So where are you?
Maybe it's your attitude you give off & not the girls. There are plenty of good girls out there who have fun & hang out & dont mind curses but you objectifying them in a stereotypical light makes them stay away. "Dirty" can be another term for "easy".
Haha I sound like that but I wouldn't call myself a "dirty" girl. I just know what I like: alcohol, sex, video games (though I'm not good at them) and staying out late at the pool hall. How does any of that make me "dirty"?
Not true about the video games!!! I'm a chick and I LOVE me some video games!!! A little competition between the sexes involving a good video game is actually a really good idea for a date.....lol
good girls do it better ;)