Wednesday, 20 May 2009
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It'd Be Weird If I Told This Guy I Like Him
I have this boy, no names told, he has been driving me crazy and I hate admitting that, but it is true. The reason why he is driving me crazy is because we stopped talking and we are just not allowed to talk to each other - there is a whole story behind this. He was the one that damaged part of my friendship with my best friend, but he understands that I like him, so I guess he was right all along. Anyways, he also helped me fall out of love when I was in love with my best friend and I was too scared to tell my best friend. Until now, I've been thinking about him for a while, ever since we've stopped talking. The thing is, I have a weird feeling that he still likes me; for some reason it's just every time that I see him, I get a vibe. Yet we still don't talk. Also, my friends totally don't like him, he's known to be a really big jerk; I know, I'm the one that fell for the jerk.
You know how they say "No matter how bad the guy is, at least one girl has to fall for him"? I turned out to be "that girl" for him. Also, it's annoying that my friend tell me that we're cute together, yet we aren't even together, and it hurts me every time that they bring him up.
I really want to tell him that I'm not over him, I'm not sure if I should just tell him before we go to summer break like I was planning to, but things have been holding me back, it would be awkward if I just spontaneously tell him after we haven't talked for a very long time. What do you think I should do?
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in general, i say do what YOU want. don't worry about what others think about the guy. if you want to tell him how you feel, then go for it. he might be feeling the same. it's better to do something about it then to always think, "what if..."
things might not turn out how you want, but hey... you live and you learn.
start talking to him casually.
but don't make it obvious that you like him just talk
and then see if your sure that you like him
or maybe he will say something to you
he might be in the same position you are.
think about it bud :)
and im agreeing with the guy above me :)
You should talk to him but dont just blurt out you like him. Get to know him again and if you feel there is still a connection then you can decide whether to tell him.
i think you should tell him..
because after the summer break, what if you come back and he's with someone else?
time is crucial~
good luck~
I think you should resist the temptation. Telling him will only make you more vulnerable in his eyes and if he really is a jerk, then he will probably try to take advantage of you, if he doesn't continue to ignore you. I don't think anything good will come of it, so if you don't see each other over summer break, that might help you get over him.
You will be realx ...
I don't know what it's like for other girls...but when I do like a guy (for more than just his looks--like I like him for who he is), I tell him. I don't hold back at all. And although the few hours or even days afterwards, it's really umm...awkward haha, I think it's been good for me and the guys. It may be just me or it may just be that the guys I've liked are really amazing and non-jerks. But we've become really good friends. I honestly don't know how it works...I just know we're closer than we would be had I not told them.
In a way, maybe they feel that they "owe" me since I was so open with them. So they end up telling me things too and I guess we just keep talking. :) HAHA. IDK.
Good luck! Do whatever you like. Though if I were you, I'd probably tell him. ;)
@stephyju2517@xanga - lol dude... I see you post all the time and it's always nonsense hahaha what's up with that? I see that you write mostly in Chinese for your blogs though...
but sometimes you come in with crap like, "post."
Anyway, back on topic... don't go out with jerks. Maybe you're in the "bad boy" phase of your life lol
Don't tell him.
Well first start talking to him and make it a casual thing. Then get round to telling him how you feel.
Be honest with him. Say what you feel is right when you get a moment alone with him, and just let it flow. Its okay if you don't end up telling him. Just go with how you feel.
I was in this exact situation a year ago, and still am sort of in it now. Exact situation, down to the friends thinking he's a jerk.
And by the way, its not about what your friends think of him at all. If he's a jerk to you specifically, then he's not worth your time, no matter how much it hurts. But if its just your friends who think he's a jerk, then give him some more time, and he'll show how he truly is if he really likes you (if your 'vibe' is right).
Good luck and God Bless :)
Do what the girls did in kindergarten. Chase him down and beat him up. He will get the message. Lick his face till slobbers roll down his chin and tell him he is kootiefied. Then let him up and giggle.
Do what makes you happy. That's all that matters in the end.
My friends didn't like my boyfriend. But I chose my bf over my friends. aha I don't regret it. My friends weren't true friends anyway.
I think you should tell him. Or at least start hanging out with him again.
Examine why you feel the way you feel for him. Ask yourself if it is really worth it.
If he really is a jerk, I don't think you should settle for him.
But, it's your life. Just, respect yourself.
Start talking to him again, after a while, tell him.
You should tell him, do what makes YOU happy.
i think you should tell him
you might regret it if you don't
@fLiPgUy31O@xanga - i completely agree.
Just go for it if you want to. but whatever it is, gotta come from your heart. Don't want to be like that song "what if" by babyface. :[
chill out, take a breather.
then think about the choice that will make you happiest
be honest with him, what do you have to lose? everything, but at least you were honest with him.
Be yourself. Follow your heart. Always say what you mean and mean what you say.. Go girl! :)