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Do you consider oral sex actual sex, or is it something else? Do you think other people your age share your opinion?
I don't think it's actual sex...but it's in between. I don't know how to explain it.
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nahh, I don't think I'd consider that actual sex.
and yeah, other kids my age probably see it that way too.
people seem to have forgotten the "traditional" sex. which is penis inside vagina. in out in out. & skeeeeeeeeeeet.
oral & anal is like an add-on because the men got bored of the same insertion process. & they want to claim every hole on a woman's body, so to speak.
so no..i do not consider oral or anal actual sex...
the butthole is not meant for stuff coming in...it's a excretion portal for poop. stuff needs to come out...not in >.>
but why do guys think that a BJ is the best thing in the world?
No. It's not. I'm a Junior in high school, and I can't think of anyone who thinks differently.
@asdfghjkieu@xanga - I agree.
I do not believe that oral sex is sex. However, I do consider anal sex to be sex.
@asdfghjkieu@xanga - I asked my boyfriend. He said he loves BJ's only if he can tell the girl really wants to, and also because it feels personal to him to have a girl's mouth on it. I personally think traditional penis-inside-vagina sex is more personal, but whatever.
I definitely consider oral sex to be actual sex. (I'm 23, by the way. I would guess that most people like me who are out of college think like I do, but I could be wrong.)
I think oral is sex. However, I don't consider it losing your virginity.
But then again that doesn't make it much better. It's like saying on your wedding night, "Oh honey, of course I'm a virgin. However I have blown off a couple guys. Hope you don't mind!"
Pfft.
I consider oral sex as a step beyond vaginal sex.
I'm going to take the position that oral sex is "as intimate" or even "more intimate" than straight sex. Therefore: it's sex. Yes, actual, sex.
I don't think it's actual sex... I believe actual sex is when the penis penetrates the vagina. I'm sure kids my age would also agree.
@asdfghjkieu@xanga - I can't really think of a single guy who, when given the option between an AMAZING blowjob and AVERAGE vaginal sex, would choose the blowjob. I don't think any guys consider blowjobs the best thing in the world, but when vaginal sex is off the table, it is a more than suitable alternative.
That being said, if there are orgasms being had, and at least 2 people involved, it is sex. It's called "oral sex" for a reason. To call it anything less is to eliminate a huge amount of the personal connection required to put a penis in your mouth or, alternatively, put your tongue inside and all around someone's vagina.
no. sex is penis inside vagina. end of story. (for me anyway)
Imo, oral sex can be sex since I believe the goal of sex is to provide pleasure and release (orgasm). I know a lot of people don't view it that way, but I'm often in the majority about these kinds of things.
i agree with u, it's not actually sex, sex to me is direct penetration of the genitailias.
Oral sex is not SEX...but it's sexual stuff...as is fingering and hand jobs and stuff...
Anal sex (which I'm wondering how it even came up because it's not mentioned in the article) IS sex, though. It's naughty-part in naughty part, whereas oral sex is not.
You'd have to define the difference between sex and sexual activity.
Intercourse is pens in vagina.
Sex is everything in between, in my opinion, sorry to disappoint you abstinent posers, hahaha.
Oral sex IS sex in the sense that you can get an STD. But it's not as much of a big deal because you can't get pregnant from it.
@methodElevated@xanga - I agree. I think the intimacy of it makes it sex...apparently it's not about intimacy for teenagers (and a lot of adults too) which in turn makes it not sex.
I think we should all thank Bill Clinton for making it clear what counts as sex and what doesn't!
I don't think of it as actual sex. Don't know how others around me view it though.
no it's not.
unless you think losing your virginity to a tongue is true.
Nope.
@doLc3@xanga - But if this tongue thing were true. What would kissing be? o_O (I wonder b/c I don't understand the whole "base" concept).
oral sex is sexual activity, but not actual sex. But just as dangerous as sex.
@naguyin@xanga - lol kissing doesn't exactly envolve mouth-to-genital action. So kissing isin't losing your virginity either =P