Wednesday, 13 May 2009
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You vs. Your SO: Who Is More Sensitive?
I know what you're thinking: women are more sensitive than men. But in most cases, that is false. Of course, being the curious person that I am, I began to ask my guy friends if they believed that men were more sensitive than women. Although some hesitated to admit it, they nodded and agreed that men are just as, if not more, sensitive than women. But because they are men and have to keep this sort of coolness to them, they tend not to show their sensitive side despite how much something is bothering them.In comparison, my SO and I are neck and neck on the sensitivity meter. We have our share of emotional breakdowns in the relationship except I tend to show it more. I know that he talks about his feelings (when something bother s him, etc.) but he will never show his sadness. But since we've been together for so long, I tend to figure out when he's in his "sensitive mode" and when he's not.
So I ask, who is more sensitive in your relationship? You or your SO? Or are you both about the same?
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I'm almost always the more sensitive one in my relationships. However, there have been times when my SO reacted more sensitively to an issue or situation than I did.
im hyper sensitive.
Truth be known, I am more sensitive than my wife. It is usually me that will cry in a sad movie or me to give in when we are not in agreement about something, I hate conficts.
i am, i think.
i share my emotions more.
but he's definitely stubborn and hides everything he's feeling.
i know he has his moments when he shows tons of emotion, but he generally keeps it to a minimum haha
i think i am too. i think it annoys him sometimes
Me by a longshot. He'll bring something up if something is bothering him, but it wont be til he's got it built up in his brain that he'll tell me.
HIM
AND I HAVE THE FUCKING PUSSY!!!!
Oh my gosh my fiance is DEFINITELY the more sensitive of the two of us.
Just by nature and how I was raised, I am just a sarcastic person, always have been. But it sometimes gets hard to joke around with him just because he is so damn sensitive...that's about our only downfall and reason we fight.@immaairheadxl@xanga - hahaha true that.
While my current BF is the most sensitive out of any guy I've ever dated, I'm more sensitive by far. I am waaay too emotional.
Openly sensitive or keeping it in sensitive?
She's openly sensitive but I keep things in better. So, I think to some degree, my SO and I are about the same. (:
I am :(
My Wife is more sensitive. By far. She just had me burry one of our cats after it died. I would have burried it alive.
i share it more...but i'm sure we're very close though. he just keeps those kind of things to himself until wayy after when it doesnt matter anymore
i think i am the more sensitive one, maybe he's just hiding it because he doesn't show it to me ever.
Yeah same here. My boyfriend and I are both sensitive (but he is stronger than me) but I tend to show it more whereas he rarely does.
I remember seeing him cry for the first time. lol! It made me love him even moree ahah :)
It really depends on the issue. There are certain things that arise and I'm more sensitive, and then there are times he is. I think with everything added up, we're equal.
My boyfriend is for sure. He also tends to get more angry and emotional.
...it's a bit too much actually. In comparison to him, I'm like a rock.
I'm tempted to say my boyfriend is, but it totally depends what we're being sensitive about. We get sensitive about different things.
Not sure. The same?
I think I'm more sensitive...
not even sure if I have a SO, though.
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i am. sometimes i think he's a robot...
my bf!
i know i am more emotional and take things to heart but i think he is really really sensitive for a guy, or at least all the guys i have dated he is the most sensitive and caring! :)