In
Jesus Is Magic, Sarah Silverman starts a joke by saying that she's comfortable enough with her boyfriend to pee in front of him. Of course, it's Sarah, so it gets raunchier and more off-topic, but the idea is still interesting. In a relationship, you go from meeting this person for the first time to being completely honest and uncensored with him or her...and that's kind of a scary thought.
I think there need to be certain boundaries even when you're close - there are some things you really need to do by yourself - so I don't see myself leaving the bathroom door open anytime soon . . . or ever.
Are there things you still aren't comfortable doing in front of (or with) your SO? Do you think you'll ever change your mind and be open about it?
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Uhhh with my ex I didn't do what she did lol. I think that is one of the things that is personal and really, who would wanna see that?
Ummm, I don't think I would ever be comfortable changing in front of my SO. I'd probably only change infront of my future husband, obviously & not feel uncomfortable.
I think, after over three years, I'm finally comfortable peeing in front of my boyfriend. (I never expected that to happen.) But I don't think I'll ever be comfortable taking a shit while he's in the bathroom.
I never liked it when he was in the shower with me while I was shaving, but I've gotten used to that, too.
Naw man I think it's too weird. No way. Peeing is something personal, I hate seeing pictures of girls peeing and they have it all public online and shit.
It's not cute >.<
& Yeah. When I'm shaving I don't like my boyfriend around regardless of how comfortable I am lol
Oh yeah. Sarah Silverman is terrible
If my SO is around, I physically cannot make myself pee.
@TheSpaceBass@xanga - HAHA. i can't either. and we've been together for almost a year and a half. maybe one day.....
I can't even pee in a public restroom...alone...
I have trouble doing yard work in front of her. For that matter house work too. And it is so awkward washing the car that I don't do it. I am a private person.
Any bathroom stuff I'm not comfortable with but my bf can see me in all my naked glory otherwise.
I'd be fine with like, peeing in front of my boyfriend, but that's about it as far as things I'll do sitting atop a toilet while he's in the room.
I think there isn't much I wouldn't do in front of my boyfriend. He knows me better than I know myself sometimes, & we're very honest & open about stuff like that.
I wouldn't use the bathroom in any way,shape, for form with my fiance in the room. Who cares that I'm marrying him... I think that's just private things that you really don't need to share with anyone else. I mean, to me, it doesnt bring you closer, it's just sorta gross...
I also won't shave in front of him when we shower together... I always make him get out first or get in later hahaWhat's so cool about peeing in front of your SO?
I'm comforting peeing in front of him and he's comfortable peeing in front of me. We still prefer to do it in private, but if the other person is already in the bathroom it's fine. We change in front of each other, but I don't think I ever shaved in front of him before...but he's weird about hair...he doesn't even like it when HE's hairy (the dude had the bright idea that it would be cool to nair his WHOLE chest...of course he had an allergic reaction :p)..so I guess I'll never shave in front of him.
don't think i could take a shit in front of my bf, shave/wax down there in front of him, do anything related to periods, etc.
I know it's kind of strange, but I feel very uncomfortable putting on make-up in front of my bf. Well, in front of any guy in general. I don't mind if he's in the room, but I ask him to occupy himself in other ways while I do this. I don't know, I just don't want him to know how much I put on or how little I put on. I've been with him for 3 years now so he's seen me all natural and dolled up. I just don't want him to see the whole process of going from point A to point B lol
I can do anything and everything in front of my SO.
peeing, pooping, makeup, changing, walking around naked, shaving, anything.
And they.... are comfortable too.
I don't think I can pee, take a dump, or take a shower in front of my SO. That and maybe cooking naked, wearing nothing but an apron that says, "Kiss the Cook."
Changing clothes in front of her, i'm okay with. She already saw my junk.
yeahhh I'm the 1% over here. no details needed. no shame either ;D
I'm an open person with him. and beyond.
i lived with my ex for two years but for some reason, we became comfortable abnormally fast.
we were pooping in front of each other in a matter of weeks.
there wasnt anything i couldnt do in front of my ex.
i had nothing to hide actually.
I don't think I could ever handle pooping in front of my boyfriend.. regardless of how long we've been together or if we do get married. I find it disgusting enough when he does it with the door closed ['cause I can hear the plops!] I'd never want to see that. ever. I'm not sure if that'll ever change. Poop smells bad!
Anal.
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.....not happening.
Anything else within reason is do-able. haha
Potty things, embarrassing family things, shameful things [like losing my temper for no good reason], and gorging myself on food.
if i shower infront of him, he usually jumps in too no matter if i'm shaving or not. i can happily stroll around naked and so can he. anything to do with periods, were both fine with. i can epe infrotn of him, etc. the only extent would be if i needed to do a shit :)
i want to see him pee! he is totally like get out i need to pee! hahaha i don't think i mind though. i would never fart or crap in front of him. i think that is embarrassing! lol
but everyone does it! its a cycle of life!
changing clothes openly. im not so confident of how i am. he asks why and told me not to worry... soo im slowly getting comfortable.
If my boyfriend is in the bathroom and I have to pee... I'm going pee. Simple as that. He's comfortable enough to pee with me in the room as well. Taking a shit though? That's an entirely different story.